@Noavocado
Hi everyone. It's been great reading all your posts. I joined to be part of a club to hit bootcamp max. Some seem to think 0.5lb a week is your goal. It's not me. If this bootcamp worked for you all you would not be back here time after time.
I took the advice and of today have lost 1 stone.
This bootcamp seems more of a clique than determination to reach a goal. I suggested advice on exercise and then got passive advice on cleaning spiders off exercise equipment.
Good luck to all of you.@ @BIWI thank you again x
Ouch,
@Noavocado
You've done brilliantly well so far, and I'm really pleased that it's working for you.
But everyone is different, and - as often expressed on these threads - weight loss isn't always as simple as just following the rules. There's a lot of emotional 'baggage' involved in weight loss which means it can be difficult for some people.
So I think it's a bit mean to say that people here aren't determined to reach their goal. Also, I should point out that if you don't have much to lose (which many here don't) then 0.5lbs a week is still a good loss. And it's a loss, rather than a gain!
There are many people here who have become regular Bootcampers because they have a lot of weight to lose. And as you will have read on this thread alone, sometimes one Bootcamp just doesn't work for people - for all manner of reasons. We've had bereavements, illnesses, Covid, house moves, work issues etc - lots and lots of reasons why it can be difficult to get your head in the zone. Therefore sometimes people drop out of one Bootcamp but come back to join the next one.
In addition, many who are at or near maintenance use the Bootcamp threads as a way of keeping on track and focused.
There is also always an ongoing chat thread between Bootcamps, and so people do get to know one another that way - a lot of personal information beyond simply concerns/issues/successes about weight loss get shared on there.
All of which means that over time, there are various different ways that posters do get to know each other. (And of course, many of us have been on Mumsnet for quite some time, so have got to know each other from other boards).
I'm genuinely very sorry if this makes it feel like a clique - any of the seasoned 'old timers' will vouch for the fact that I always remind them (on the ongoing chat threads, prior to a new Bootcamp starting) to avoid posting any 'in jokes' or references to older threads for that very reason.
Rather than it being a cliquey place on Mumsnet I've always thought it was one of the most supportive places to be, so I'm sorry that you don't feel that way.
It may well, of course, be that others feel the same way as you do - I'm always aware that many people just lurk on these threads - so if there are any suggestions from those who don't post at all/very often, then I'd be very grateful to hear them.
One suggestion that has been made is that I separate those who are new to low carbing/Bootcamp from the maintainers, and there is some merit in that idea. However, when I was thinking about that, I realised that something that longer term Bootcampers do, (which is massively useful to me in particular,) is that they post to provide newer posters with a lot of support, information and inspiration. @StuntNun is a particular, shining example of that. These threads would be much less useful without them sharing their experiences, things they've learned along the way and their inspiration. (And frankly it would put a huge amount more pressure on me!)
If you have any ideas to suggest how we can avoid it feeling like a clique, then I'd be very open to hear them.
And finally, I have to take issue with this;
I suggested advice on exercise and then got passive advice on cleaning spiders off exercise equipment
I've just spent pretty much an hour going back through the last few weeks' threads. The last reference you made to exercise was on the week 4 thread, last Thursday to be precise.
A general comment about dusting off spiders from exercise equipment was made in this week's thread, on Monday, and in response to a different poster altogether.
It was not at all a passive aggressive response to you at all.
I know you've not been well lately, and you've talked about how it's been affecting your mood, so I'll put this down to that. But on this point I really do think you've taken things completely the wrong way.
(I started writing this thread over a hour ago so things may have moved on since then, but I'm going to post it anyway.)