OP, you can’t justify bullying by saying others do it so it’s fine and hide behind the anonymity of MN. You also fail to explain what you were hoping to achieve with your post which is, to be candid, snobbish through and through. Using the word ridiculous about someone’s furnishings is just plain rude and suggests your purpose was to mock. This is supposed to be a forum to share decor tips, answer decor related questions not humiliate.