Third, sorry to hear about your brother but glad things are sounding more positive now. That must have been very scary.
The most lovely thing happened yesterday.
Over the past 10 years or so most of my close friends have had babies, and I have thrown baby showers for all of them (I know mn generally hates baby showers, but for me an excuse to get together with friends and eat cake is always good!) We've has a running joke about it being unfair that I missed out because baby showers weren't really a "thing" 18 years ago.
So yesterday my friends (and DD1 and DD2) threw a surprise "your baby is going to university" shower! There was cake, a lot of wine and gin, and friends from all over the country, some of which I haven't seen for over a year!
They bought gifts for DD1 like stationary, a door stop, blankets, cushions, gift cards for Nando's and pizza express, and a beer pong kit, and for me gin, wine, tissues and a spa day!
It was so was completely wonderful and I am still a little bit stunned!