can't take much more! :(

[sparklymieow]

Some of you may have read my thread about my neighbours, I am feeling so drained and tired, DH is in deep depression and won't leave the house, I am trying to keep things as normal for the kids as possible, but they are wondering why daddy won't take them to school etc, I feel like I have been hit by a hammer, and can't do this much more, waiting for the comminutty policeofficer to phone me so I can get a letter so we can move as an emergnacy, the kids are fighting and screaming and I keep crying,

is that where it all stems from? what were they like before?

we had no problems with the parents or youngest son (bit of loud music, but we would just knock and the parents would make the youngest turn it down) The oldest two came of prison about 7 months ago and we have had a bit of noise but nothing I couldn't handle and didn't mind TBH. My mum babysat last sunday and they are doing 'dropweights' in the garden at 9pm, so she shouted over the fence 'excuse me' they didn't hear so she shouted a bit louder 'excuse me', they turned round and said 'what u want' 'she said that there was 3 children asleep and could they keep the noise down. A few minutes later they banged on the door and threatened my mum.
On tuesday 'socalled friend' came round and said hello to DD2 and said to DH 'you know that you are for it' dh said 'I don't know why they are coming here for me, I wasn't even here and why is his bringing all his boys round here' 20 minutes later apeman turned up on doorstep saying 'I could lay you out in one punch' DH said 'No doubt you could' AM asked why DH had called him a wimp, and DH said he hadn't!! AM said 'are you calling a lier and DH went up to and said 'you are a fucking lier' next thing DH knew was one of AM' friends had pushed his way in and had him up against the shoe cupboard with his fist in his face..... I then got a phonecall from DH and phoned the police, I came home with my mum and she said sorry but he wouldn't listen....

oh

he is getting off on this.... I know it... I did front up to him and said he was fucking outta order thinking he could intimidate people like this, but he just laughed at me and called me names, Mum tried to say sorry and he threaten to spit in her face!! and He threatened to lay out my dad!!!! since then we have had them hanging about outside, parking across the drive, and playing very loud music at night/...

because he is getting a reaction ..like a rat in a maze ! if he the rat gets it right he gets food .if *gets you wound up thats his treat

but he isn't getting an reacion as I refuse to rise to his bait.... I am keeping logs and the council are aware..... but he doesn't know that

thats great.i have never understood why people can live like that upsetting people ,i go out of my way to be nice even when it hurts me!! when will you know what chance you got of moving!?

I know, I have never been nasty to any of my neighbours, I make sure I am polite. was sso when my other neghbour said they could hear my tv one night and could I turn it down (hadn't realised it was so loud) but I said sorry. Haven't heard the weights for a few nights, so don't know if someone has said somethng to the parents but the music is 100x worse....... they will be disturbing the other neighbours so am hoping that someone says something to the council

wish i was a real angel sometimes and i could borrow a fairies magic wand and wave it over you ,,your poor family have had more than your fair share of shi this year ,

he's back, can hear the music......

put yours on something nice like barry mannilow!! dont let the bast*d grind you down your better than them

i know that!! feel so sorry for the parents having wankers like that as sons, and as for socalled mate..... he will get whats coming to him.......

can you believe the police filed it as a cvil dispute???????

Dh has some scary mates (they don't know that!!) if we get moved, they will be coming here to help us get out without any hassle, and DH said that he will take a bunch of them down to XXXX's house and see how he likes being pushed up against a wall, and also to get some of our things back...

just call uncle pete..........

did think about that one Misdee, he is so scary......

ooh uncle pete ,,i like the sound of him

our uncle pete was in the Gulf war and it fucked up his head big time, he just loses the plot very fast and will kill anyone that sands in his way, he has held a gun to his own brothers head......

u dont wake him up un;ess you can reach his feet. otherwise he'll grab you round the throat. bunch of lads were starting outside blockbuster once, they were messing about, pete took it seriously and had the lad up against the wal lthreatening to knock his head off. and he would've done if the other lads hadnt been there.

very scary man..... loves us though.....

just thought actually Misdee, he will be so annoyed with mum for not telling him about this won't he?

oh poor him ,,angel wings down stolls off quietly.................sshhhh not waking him bye

he is a lovely man though..... loves his family to bits.... just the war fucked him up.....

waste of a life