can't take much more! :(

[sparklymieow]

Some of you may have read my thread about my neighbours, I am feeling so drained and tired, DH is in deep depression and won't leave the house, I am trying to keep things as normal for the kids as possible, but they are wondering why daddy won't take them to school etc, I feel like I have been hit by a hammer, and can't do this much more, waiting for the comminutty policeofficer to phone me so I can get a letter so we can move as an emergnacy, the kids are fighting and screaming and I keep crying,

he is getting better, even has a job now, but you don't mess with him, everyone knows what he is like, and we all take him at face valve.
I tell you what a waste of a life is and that is the pratts next door..... they don't deserve to live alongside decent people.

it been very quiet, mmmmmmm they are still there, but the music isn't pumping and they ain't standing about...... have they got a bug in my house and know I have taken this to the council???

still quiet...

do u think that someones had a word with the parents and they have said 'OI!! DEREK NO!!!!!!!

i dont think they sound the type to care what their parents say.

no, but it has been quiet and they haven't been hanging about.....

i expect wherever they are, they are up yo no good.
Maybe they have new prey

their cars are outside, AM has been leaving early in the morning, so maybe he has a job......

plus part of his bail conditions means he has to be in 10pm......

maybe, cant imagine he will hold a job down for 2 long tho, you should take advantage of it now and get out each day and do what you have to do.

Do you mean a curfew.

yes, he has a crefew, I can't see him holding a job for long either, unless he wants to change his ways, but maybe they are terrorising another neighbourhood...... oh I hope the police lock him up soon.......

When under a curfew, are'nt the police are supposed to visit the house each night to check they are home.

dunno..... maybe we have it wrong then.....

he is always in early

unless he's tagged, so they know where he is.

he could be, like I've said before I have just ignored them up till now, not wanting this kind of trouble. I was polite to them if I had to talk to them and said hello and asked about his son (age etc?) and he now has taken a dislike t us and wants to make our life hell, for what?? something that he should have realised would wake up kids and something my mum was perfectly within her rights to ask.....

DH has gone out

I don't know the whole story but I understand that this is a big step for DH isn't it?

yes, he has gone to collect somehing from his mate, his mate said that he wasn't going to come here... Apeman is in next door, so it took a lot to get himslef worked out enough to do it...

DEFFO BRILL to SM DH

Hopefully after today he may be able to go out again

Also a big step with Apeman in isn't it?

Hope he gets home again without apeman seeing him

apeman has gone out now, bit worried in case he see Dh out and about and starts.....

how much longer before you expect DH home?

Will his friend be with him?

Is he walking?

Hope he gets home safely soon.

he came back about 1/2 hour ago, I realised we were out of sugar so popped to the local shop and when I came back Apeman was standing out with someone......Omg omg!! I quickly got out of car,locked it and got inside.....

he came back about 1/2 hour ago, I realised we were out of sugar so popped to the local shop and when I came back Apeman was standing out with someone......Omg omg!! I quickly got out of car,locked it and got inside.....