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can't take much more! :(

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 13:24

Some of you may have read my thread about my neighbours, I am feeling so drained and tired, DH is in deep depression and won't leave the house, I am trying to keep things as normal for the kids as possible, but they are wondering why daddy won't take them to school etc, I feel like I have been hit by a hammer, and can't do this much more, waiting for the comminutty policeofficer to phone me so I can get a letter so we can move as an emergnacy, the kids are fighting and screaming and I keep crying,

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hub2dee · 14/05/2005 18:06

I've never been myself so cannot answer, but will bump.

(Of course phone or e-mail would be as private as you like. BTW when I knew Grant when we were younger he was a thoroughly sweet bloke. Am sure he would be very supportive. I think he know has three kids. He lives in Welwyn Hatfield constituency too).

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 18:42

they are outside again, I know I can't stop them being outside but its very nervy....

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FIMAC1 · 14/05/2005 21:25

SparklyMieow

The surgeries are private - you usually need to book a slot, and would be held in the MP's office in your town. Please do not be concerned about privacy, the meeting will be confidential - all notes are held under the offical secrets act - local MP lives nearby and was saying when he retired recently, he has to contact everyone on his books (with ongoing cases) to ask if they are happy for the new MP to take on their cases, so it really is that private.

FIMAC1 · 14/05/2005 21:27

Or it probably was the Human Rights Act, anyway the meetings are confidential !

tiffini · 14/05/2005 22:35

are you ok sparklymieow?

misdee · 14/05/2005 22:35

hopefully she is asleep!

tiffini · 14/05/2005 22:38

misdee, was just worried, her last post said they were outside, just hope nothing has kicked off.

tiffini · 14/05/2005 22:40

just read my post back, aounds like i am being rude. Ipromise i was'nt

misdee · 14/05/2005 22:43

well i havent had a phone call, so am assuming she is ok and just catching up on some well needed rest. she is really a wreak atm, it awful seeing her like this

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 22:52

I was reading a book. Apeman has parked his car straight across my drive

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misdee · 14/05/2005 22:52

w*nker.

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 22:53

he is doing to it to bully us, I know that, he knows he can't gt done for anything too.

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 22:58

so sick of it all, mum thinks it will all blow over, easy for her to say, she is in her safe house away from here...

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misdee · 14/05/2005 22:59

'a year from now he wont even be there.........'

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:00

how can she say that? he might be... and even if he isn't, he will be back in a few years anyway...

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misdee · 14/05/2005 23:03

exactly. just move if you can. its a shame as you are so close to the hospital.

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:05

I could move that all to Lister tho. And its only just down the motorway anyway. Need to get a doctor to see us, and let him/her see what its doing to us.

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:06

and I couldn't cope with a year of this......

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misdee · 14/05/2005 23:07

get an appointment with DR parry if you can. he is luuuuuuuuuuuuvely.

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:08

I saw him last week, on monday so understanding...

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:28

feel sick now, really sick

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tiffini · 14/05/2005 23:30

why, has something happend??

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sparklymieow · 14/05/2005 23:33

no, just feeling sick, keep getting sickly spells and feel like I am going to throw up...

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tiffini · 14/05/2005 23:39

that is probably your nerves. i would try and get a goodnights sleep (easier said than done,im'e sure)

Mhamai · 14/05/2005 23:41

Sounds to me like your totally frazzled and worn out Sparkly, have followed your thread bout these thugs of neighbours and though its easy for me to say because Im not in your situation, would try and get your pm to hassle council and see your gp for you and dh. Sounds like your carrying a huge load here and your body never mind your peace of mind is suffering badly. Please dont think Im being trite but hopefully you will look back on this time as a distant bad memory, anyway my thoughts are with you [[[hugs]]