Thanks natt.
The boys are fine. Ds1 is at my Mum's house ATM.
H was not going to let him go (he has stayed the night there) because of him still not socialising & wandering around at school on Friday.
It was really sad, because ds1 had his little fleece blanket & his favourite teddy in his hand ready to go, when H told him he couldn't go because he was naughty at school.
When ds1 heard this he dropped his blanket & bear on the floor & walked off sadly.
I actually stood up to H & said that he could not punish him for the previous day, as he had been really good yesterday.
I took it upon myself to make the decision & told ds that he was allowed to stay at his Nanny's house!
H was not happy that I had let him go, but I felt he was being unfair by punishing him like that.
I am sure ds has had a lovely time at his Nanny's house!