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Mental health

I am falling apart

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Aveiam · 24/02/2017 23:17

I can't calm down and I have the worst thoughts, I am actually just falling apart and I have no one literally no one to help me, I don't know why to do

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SparklyMagpie · 08/03/2017 16:02

Aveiam I have sent you a message Flowers

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SparklyMagpie · 09/03/2017 08:56

Hope you're feeling a little better this morning Aveiam and you managed to get some sleep!

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Aveiam · 09/03/2017 17:31

I have some broken ribs again and it may have caused some bleeding somewhere I am out of hospital now though

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SparklyMagpie · 09/03/2017 17:48

Is he home?
What did they say?did someone come to speak to you?
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Aveiam · 09/03/2017 20:39

He's not home yet I don't know why. I don't know what's going on and no one has called me no

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SparklyMagpie · 09/03/2017 20:59

Do you think you'd be brave enough to give someone a ring? Try women's aid maybe?

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Aveiam · 10/03/2017 20:57

I feel so anxious please can someone help me :(

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hayleyB79 · 10/03/2017 21:13

I've read your previous messages. What is happening today to make you feel so anxious?

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Aveiam · 10/03/2017 21:33

Nothing bad has happened today but I've had 4 panic attacks and I just can't calm myself down anymore

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hayleyB79 · 10/03/2017 21:38

I don't think until you sort the problem with your partner the panic attacks are going to end I'm afraid to say. Are you under a mental health team? Do you have a crisis number for them if yes?

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SparklyMagpie · 11/03/2017 07:31

Aveiam you need to speak to someone for some more support.
I really feel for you but you now have to make the decision to leave your partner. You don't deserve ANY of this :(

Please try and speak to someone who can help you get away, this is no way to live an it can be so much better!

Xx

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Aveiam · 12/03/2017 17:07

I've spoken to the crisis team today and I have an assessment appointment tomorrow

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SparklyMagpie · 12/03/2017 17:29

Fantastic update OP! How are you feeling about it?do you think you can open up to them?
I doubt you've read my message, so i'll say it here,you're welcome to message me anytime! We all support you and want to see you get out to the other side
Take care sweet and keep updating ! Xxx

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fruitbats · 12/03/2017 18:05

Hello Aveiam
I'm glad you have spoken to the crisis team. Well done and fingers crossed all goes well with the assessment tomorrow Thanks

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Aveiam · 13/03/2017 16:22

They have referred me to the home treatment team who will come and see me at home every week I think. He still hasn't come home and I m worried something has happened to him and his phone is switched off

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fruitbats · 13/03/2017 18:57

That is good news Ave Smile
How do you feel about it?
I'm sorry but I think the longer he stays away the better for you.

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Aveiam · 13/03/2017 21:03

But I don't understand what's happened to him :(
I am worried about the home treatment people

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SparklyMagpie · 14/03/2017 16:54

OP I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry about him and think about yourself Flowers

Don't be worried about the home treatment people, they are there to help

You should be very proud of yourself for reaching out. I'll admit I worry about you a lot!! One day you won't be scared, worried etc and you will be free and happy like you deserve to be !

As I always say, keep talking ! You can do this !!

Hope you're ok ! Xx

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Aveiam · 15/03/2017 19:22

I'm in the hospital I'm not feeling well at all

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SparklyMagpie · 15/03/2017 19:30

What's up sweet? You're safe there! Xxx

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SparklyMagpie · 16/03/2017 07:15

How are you doing this morning OP? Are you feeling any better?

Hope you're being looked after! Xxx

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fruitbats · 16/03/2017 19:52

How are you Aveiam?

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Aveiam · 16/03/2017 22:30

I am back at the flat, nothing is happening here and he still hasn't been back and I just don't understand. I want to try to find him because I'm worried but I am also scared of what he will say or do

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SparklyMagpie · 17/03/2017 08:38

Glad you're home, are you feeling any better? What did the doctors say?

I understand you're worried, but honestly, I wouldn't try and contact him, the last thing you want is him to come back and for this to start again

I understand you're feelings, but it's seriously unhealthy. I've said before put all your concerns for him onto yourself, you're the priority here, he won't be worrying about you so please try not worry about him

Have you heard anything from the home support team? While you have chance really consider contacting some other support teams who can also come and help you and give you advice.

You're doing incredibly well sweetheart! Xxx

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Aveiam · 17/03/2017 20:25

A community nurse came to my house today and I spoke to her about I how I feel and she was very nice. She got in contact with women's aid and they are coming to see me or call me and take my to speak to the police. But I don't know if I want to go to the police I don't even know where he is now

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