Hello to everyone! Oh Vicar as others have said going back to work (especially shift work) after so long off sick is going to take it out of you. I used to feel washed out and unable to concentrate at work after 2 weeks annual leave, or even 1 week, and you have been off for several weeks/months even? Are you doing reduced hours, sorry I've lost track a bit.
I so agree with SPC about vulnerable people not realising they are vulnerable which makes the world a very unsafe place at times. I know we are all vulnerable to a greater or lesser degree, but thinking of people with special needs really. I think the fact that you are no longer cinically depressed means that you are able to be more objective, and not feel so overwhelmed by your son's problems. I think it's this rather than being "wierdly detached" I remember some of your earlier posts when the depression had really taken hold when you were understandably overwhelmed with your son's difficulties.
You don't need me to tell you that you need to monitor yourself about feeling over-tired, stressed at work as this could lead to a relapse, and at least you will recognise the signs this time, though sometimes relapses can manifest themselves in a different way from the first episode - just another little trick dep/anx likes to play on us. Pity it's so difficult to get jobs these days. Don't know where you are but I'm in the West Mids which has the highest unemployment figures in the country especially for 18 - 25 years.
Booze - I think when you have lost count of how much you have drunk it's time to face up to the fact that you are abusing, rather than using alcohol to relieve stress whatever. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh Vicar but I think it needs saying. I used to work for Aquarius for problem drinking (different approach from AA) and they are still and are the front runners in helping people with this problem in my opinion, but you have to be motivated, which goes without saying doesn't it. I think it's when we doing anything to excess, be it drinking, eating, smoking, excersising (even) that it becomes a problem.
Lem can I just ask if you are on ADs and how long as I don't know your back story. I felt soooo much for you yesterday thinking of you crying in Costa Coffee. Mornings are always worse for me, and it seems like that's the case for you too, but sometimes we can feel so much better as the day wears on, and I am almost always much better by evening. I think it's these fluctuations that make the bloody illness so much harder to bear though really, because this doesn't happen with physical illness. Catmint sounds like you suffer from these fluctuation also. It's so hard for people to understand when we are fine one day and the next we are hiding from the world (or trying to) for those of you with small children.
Oh wondering if I dare press "send" or whether you will be angry at my post! Oh well hope not, so hear goes.