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Andes up - who needs a rock to lean on? Rock on over here!

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ThatVikRinA22 · 19/03/2013 15:27

in honour of ed and her mountain ranges.....Smile

welcome to thread 3 - this is a support thread for anyone needing a hand to hold while they get through depression or any other mental health problems - long term or temporary. All are welcome.

linky to old thread

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SnowyMouse · 27/04/2013 16:08

Hmm, quorn burgers are an alternative protein source rather than a ready meal, strictly speaking?

Come on Silvery, you can do it.

I will read or write (or preferably both) today...

TheSilveryPussycat · 27/04/2013 16:55

Have done some gardening. Quorn burgers (in fact any burgers) are proper food not junk or ready meal, provided you cook them yourself. Fact Wink

SnowyMouse · 27/04/2013 17:14

Not all today, but I'm up to 670/1000 words, probably 100 from today.

bassetfeet · 27/04/2013 17:34

Happy Birthday Snowy Flowers quorn burgers sound good.

Lovely pics of the jewel rat sisters Vicar . Thank you for posting it. They have the sweetest faces .
And oh yes ...empathy in spades re the photocopier . I kept a notebook and post- its in my pocket for ages with garbled instructions for anything technical . Repetition is the only way . I cant switch my TV on [tis the truth].....OH does it as I tend to listen to radio . When he was in hospital I gave up wildly pressing buttons on numerous remotesBlush. He tells me patiently and I nod sagely and forget how a second later.
Only natural a few fears will creep in again re work . You did just fine this week ..and you will again.

Hi to everyone else and hope that you are feeling ok . So many of you have degrees wow ! Sciences and psychology/sociology . Brainy and lovely folk .......and creative . I love your crochet Ed .

Am hoping that the spring and all its beauty [and arrival of the swallows ] shakes me out of this sadness that seems to have become part of me now. Bumble bees are out in the garden .....hedgehog on the lawn ..hope.

EdwiniasRevenge · 27/04/2013 21:35

Right...I am about to get up believe it or not.

Grab a quick bite to eat and then finish crochet #3. I have all the bits I just need to stitch them together while I watch 2 episodes of casualty...

Lucyellensmum95 · 27/04/2013 22:30

Hi Ladies, I am going to take a break from mumsnet for a while - i have been spending too much time here and not really engaging with conversations or getting anything out of it. Apart from this thread - obviously!!!!

I just wanted to say thankyou and not just disappear, i also want to wish you all the very best - you are an inspirational bunch of ladies xxx

ThatVikRinA22 · 28/04/2013 00:33

lucy - you have to do whats right for you clearly but please do pop back here now and again wont you - i will miss you.

ok night at work tonight really.

tired though now - just 2 more shifts to go.

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EdwiniasRevenge · 28/04/2013 00:55

Evening all.

Day of nothingness here. I have got quite a bit of laundry put through but other than that nothing useful although I have almost finished my crochet project.

Tomorrow I have 5 children descending on me at lunchtime, to take into town for a build a bear party and McDonald's. ...I desperately need to do some tidying and have a shower in the morning.

I'll miss you too lucy. Hope you'll pop back to see us.

Glad you sound comfortable at work vicar you deserve a huge pat on the back for coming this far. How are your little jewels today?

ThatVikRinA22 · 28/04/2013 02:03

weird tonight - for a saturday night not much going off....but got chatting to mentor and almost forgot to go home.

i have a plan re work (if i stay that long)....,

my little jewels are lovely. took them all for a free range run in the bathroom tonight.....2 out the 3 are very similar and need cuddles and reassurance and one is very confident and forward....all are just lovely.

it was funny really - i took a book and a glass of wine up to the bathroom and rolled up a towel to pop in front of the door just in case they could slip under the gap in the door.....

after about an hour all went quiet....so i started to look for my girls...no sign.
panic stations....
they had spent hte entire night running up my legs and sitting on my shoulders.....

i picked up the towel to open the door fearing they had escaped.....

and all 3 were rolled up in the towel Grin

they are so sweet!!!!!

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EdwiniasRevenge · 28/04/2013 09:43

Plan re work...sounds intreging....

I want sweet little ratties.

Right. I am going awol for the day.

Children arrive in less than 3hrs and I have to shower and deal with lounge, kitchen and bathroom. All other doors can be shut. I also need to pop to the shop.

Oh and I am knackered. I didn't settle till gone 1am...and kept waking from 6am knowing I had to get up.

Tesco bags (to dump stuff in) at the ready....

EdwiniasRevenge · 28/04/2013 11:20

I'm physically wretching here :(

I've left too much.

Just about to get in shower but I still have floors and kitchen to do :(

EdwiniasRevenge · 28/04/2013 12:09

Done.

I have 23mins left and I just have the seats in the car to fiddle with :)

TheSilveryPussycat · 28/04/2013 12:10

Ed hope the shower has helped.

The kids won't notice the floors, they'll remember the party - which you are going out for most of it.

Their mums might notice, but never mind. Really. The main thing is the celebration.

SnowyMouse · 28/04/2013 12:22

Have a good party! Smile

I'm level 2, but about to go back to bed. I hope everyone else is emerging.

TheSilveryPussycat · 28/04/2013 12:31

Oh, I see I x-posted. Ed you must have looked like a veritable whirlwind :)

ThatVikRinA22 · 28/04/2013 15:26

have a good party ed

quick wave to everyone else - have walked dog. Hate being back on shifts....sundays were starting to feel normal again...but i know i have to get ready and go to work later.

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SnowyMouse · 28/04/2013 15:29

Good luck with your shift vicar

SnowyMouse · 28/04/2013 15:37

Got back up, I think I can see a pattern... I feel hungover from my night time meds each morning, then have another dip 2-2.5 hours after due to my morning meds. Hmm.

How's everyone else doing today?

TheSilveryPussycat · 28/04/2013 15:59

Same daytime nap pattern as yesterday - think I needed it. sounds daft but have been looking for MOT cert for a fortnight, found it yesterday, and think brain had been constantly thinking of it all that time. And that I needed some better sleep to catch up cos brain had not slept properly in 14 days iyswim.

snowy that sounds v plausible. Hopefully the hangover thing will improve, if not you'll need to report back to your psych that it isn't. Had similar with quetiapine, it let me catch up on proper sleep but then when I'd done that I felt groggy for most of each morning (took it at night).

vicar wishing you well with today's shift. My psych degree said it takes 2 weeks to adapt to (say) night shifts all the time, so with rotating or varying shifts can be v hard to adapt. How do your colleagues manage - perhaps mentor might know?

ColouringInQueen · 28/04/2013 17:09

Hi everyone

Cheerio Lucy you'll be missed (and glad your cakes were so popular)
Hope you're hanging in there vicar. I'd have thought you must be getting tired coping with being back at work so that may affect your mood. I think you're doing brilliantly and so pleased that your mentor is helpful.
snowy happy birthday for yesterday Flowers hope you've had some nice times this weekend.
Hope you survived the party Ed they are pretty demanding at the best of times. My DD is asking for a build a bear party for her next birthday, so do let me know what you think of it/any top tips.
Basset I'm really hoping the spring helps you feel better too. I definately think sun can help and enjoying seeing all the plants popping back into life. Take care.
SPC excellent re: MOT. It's weird how brains keep working on things behind the scenes like that. Good for you on the daytime nap thing - I think that can be v helpful in making a whole day manageable.

I am pretty knackered today and brain feeling seriously fried, but mood is OK so that is good. Been a pretty busy weekend, had old friends stay over last night which turned out OK. I did my first session all year of a sunday school type thing at church today. Despite serious anxiety before it went OK which I am pleased about. I anxiety and brain getting overwhelmed are the two most challenging aspects for me at the mo. I also think having Mon and Tue sat on the sofa doing nowt did help me have a better wed thur and fri which is interesting... I'm back to the Doc on Tue so need to write down some specific examples of each (and negative thoughts etc) as last time I couldn't give her any examples.

Take care everyone x

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ColouringInQueen · 28/04/2013 17:22

granny knickers Grin.
UA So sorry to hear that your dad is so poorly now. But it is great to hear he's being well cared for. Really feeling for you and sending lots of sympathy for what will be an emotional time. I'm hoping you don't have too much to do now you're back and can rest and recoup a bit of strength. Take care x

SnowyMouse · 28/04/2013 18:08

I'm sorry that your dad is so bad UA, it does sound like he's in the best place possible though. Sending prayers/thoughts/hugs/strength*

*delete as applicable

NanaNina · 28/04/2013 18:53

Hello to everyone who remembers me - lovely to see all the familiar names. Just popping by to see how everyone is. So glad you have managed to get back to work Vicar and even if you do decide the job is not for you, at least you are back and no longer ruminating about whether you will cope etc - and the mentor sounds good. Take things steady though, and be kind to yourself because you are no longer mentally ill and you want/need to stay that way!

Hi Ed - I see you are still dashing around but sounds like you are doing ok as you manage to do parties for children and all sorts. I did pop by and didn't post and you were having problem with a "friend" and the Brownies - hope you're sorted on that one.

HiSnowymouse lovely to hear you and know you are out of hospital. As SPC says, hopefully as you get used to the meds (which I assume have been increased) you will feel less hungover, but if not, this is someting to discuss with the pyshciatrist. Can I ask what you are writing - a book maybe? Belated Happy Birthday!!

Oh and a big Hello to the lovely Bassetfeet - I love your posts - they are so comforting and they sound like you are talking rather than writing - an enviable skill. I share your pain with things technological but I can turn the TV on! Can't put a DVD on though, and like you I have to write everything down. Think it's our age - kids today are born into the age of technology. My 3 year old grand-daughter knows how to put on a CD/DVD - get the programme she wants on the i player and lord knows what else. She gets quite inpatient with me! I always think you spend a lot of time empathising and not much time saying how things are for you, but you did mention a sadness. Hope that if the sun ever shines you will feel a teeny bit less sad.

I've only looked at this last page but I don't want to leave out CinQ or SPC or UA but don't think I knew (or remembered) your back stories though I think you once described yourself as an "ageing hippy" SPC sorry if I have that wrong. Yes and I think you said you had long silvery grey hair. Sounds lovely, even if I've got it wrong!!

I am much better these days since I was assessed about 6 weeks ago by a new psychiatrist. I had an awful Jan and Feb and finally phoned the CPN who I had seen briefly after my usual one left, and she came out to see me. I told her more than I'd told anyone else (sheis lovely) and about my suicide plan which I had worked out and had visited the spot on more than one occasion and she said she didn't like what she was hearing, and was going to get a psychiatrist out to see me (a different one from the first one who I disliked) and to my amazement he phoned a couple of days later at about mid day and asked if he could visit that afternoon. I was having a bad day but my anxiety levels shot up and I was wishing I hadn't told my CPN about my suicidal thoughts. Anyway he was lovely and added mirtazapine to the ADs I am already taking, and is seeing me next month and seeing CPN monthly. So far so good.....................but I don't want to tempt fate.

Oh yes before I go - Vicar I simply cannot believe that you have pet rats - I am totally terrified of them whether they are white, grey, brown whatever and out of a cage .......aaaaaaargh. The thought of them running up your legs and on your shoulder makes me shudder!!!

SnowyMouse · 28/04/2013 18:56

NanaNina, so lovely to see you Grin I'm trying to do a 1st year sociology module from the open university at the minute.

I'm so glad you're feeling better, it must have been horrible Sad Good luck with the meds changes and CPN.

Thanks everyone for the good wishes!