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Anxiety support thread anyone :)

190 replies

YommyMommy · 24/10/2012 12:51

Was wondering of anyone was interested in a anxiety support thread :D

X x

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AnAirOfHopeForSnow · 14/11/2012 17:08

Im here and can hand hold.

I dont think they will sack you they just want you to get better and to see how they can help you.

They can delay your return or you can work flxitime or reduced hours. They are there to help you.

3plus2 · 14/11/2012 17:54

It's about changes that need to be made or something I'm sure I be fine but it scares me so much it makes me really ill

noodles112uk · 15/11/2012 11:08

Hi everyone. I'm new here but I'm hoping for a bit of support.

I first became anxious in August after a series of massive panic attacks in just one day. Since that day I feel like I am completely losing the plot. I wake up shaking and afraid to open my eyes. It's becoming harder and harder ti look after my 17 month old ds on my own.

my parter has to take time off work because I cant cope. I have been in to A&E numerous times with symptoms such as chest pains, migraines and stomach aches but after blood work, ct scans, ultrasouns etc, the doctors have given me a clean bill of health and have diagnosed me with GAD. I was perscribed 50mg of Sertraline to take every day but have stopped as on my second dose I had an extremely frightening experience of panic. My DH is so angry at me for stopping taking it. He's told me to pull myself together but I can't seem to no matter how hard I try. He doesn't understand how much I want to be 'the old me' I have to go back to the doctors in 2 weeks to let them know how I'm getting on with it but I can't take anymore because of the side effects. I also have a councelling session booked for in 3 weeks. Do any of you find talkinf to someone helps?

I try to get out every day for a 20 minute walk and at weekends I take my DS on a day trip but I am plagued with a tight chest, dizziness, headaches and anxiety the whole time. I keep thinking I have a terminal disease. Everyone else in the world seems 'normal' but me. I'm not sure how much more I can take.

Can anyone relate to this? I'm in desperate need of support.

Sorry for going on. I hope everyone is feeling better today. xx

YommyMommy · 15/11/2012 11:30

Hi noodles,

Sounds like you are having an awful time right now Sad but believe me when I say you are not alone!!

I have and do experience all you are going through right now. And it can and will get better.

50mg seems a lot to start off with. I started on AD a few weeks ago. CItalopram, but have only started on 10mg, will probably go up to 20 in next few weeks if need be. Can you go back to GP and discuss lower dose or something different if you don't feel that one suits you?

X x

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BreastmilkDoesAFabLatte · 15/11/2012 22:43

I'm having a panic attack just now. May I join?

YommyMommy · 16/11/2012 09:17

Welcome breast milk! How you feeling? X x

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3plus2 · 16/11/2012 18:53

Omg I can relate I'm convinced I have a brain tumour then the fear makes me feel so ill and I panic like made and feel so sick with the fear of it - then I take deep breaths and tell my self stop being so silly and it helps and then I calm down :( I can't take the AD's I've been given they made me go funny I'm trying to get through alone my GP is rubbish :(

3plus2 · 16/11/2012 18:59

And I keep blushing when speaking to people which is embarrassing which makes me blush more ! Grrrr I just think it's best I don't go out at all Angry

alwaysworriedtoo · 17/11/2012 08:46

Hi, every one. 3plus1 I'm a blusher too!
Sending everyone Brew and Biscuit

YommyMommy · 17/11/2012 11:43

Hi Alwaysworried,

Thanks for the tea and treats Grin how are you today?

I'm doing okay. Have managed to do more than I thought this morning Smile been for DS's swimming lessons. Now back home for some lunch then out for a few hrs with DH and DS's. I'm feeling pretty tired today, but that's nothing new!

My DH goes away to work again on Monday so I'm feeling pretty sad about that!

Hope everyone is good! Have a relaxing weekend! X x

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3plus2 · 17/11/2012 17:31

I managed to get out shopping today and was great then by 3 pm I was knackered and came down with a big low :( it was horrible but got a film on and feeling a bit better now :) Hope everyone is ok xx

YommyMommy · 17/11/2012 17:48

Well done on getting out shopping 3plus. I also got out shopping and DH treated me to some new clothes and time to myself while he took boys to the outdoors attractions. Had a bit of a panic in boots due to being really hungry n feeling a little light headed...hmm!

The lows are the pits though Sad I'm making tea for me n DH...boys have been fed so feeling a bit better now too!

Did you get anything while out shopping?? X x

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3plus2 · 17/11/2012 18:12

Sounds like you had a good day :) yes a new dress I was really pleased its really lovely :) I just had a wee minor panic about a stupid meeting I have Thursday :0 it appears I'm getting social anxiety rather bad cause I keep blushing when the focus is on me it's so embarrassing and just now I was panicking and made me cry :( I'm ok again now though gonna focus on my film :)

YommyMommy · 17/11/2012 18:44

I always blush when I'm centre of attention too! It's not great, but I'm not as bad as I used to be!

I hate it bring do worried about things...it's a joke! I woke up this morning thinking to myself I am so sick of feeling like this! Anxiety is really the pits! But we'll get there in the end Grin x x

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3plus2 · 17/11/2012 19:02

I know I worry about not worrying I start thinking I have nothing to worry about so something bad is going to happen Confused

YommyMommy · 17/11/2012 19:19

I worry about going crazy n that I'll end up locked up :/ it's really horrible!

Anyway, enough of worrying ourselves silly! Let relax and enjoy our Saturday nights! What film are you watching? X x

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3plus2 · 17/11/2012 19:49

Big mommas house lol cheering me up Grin

Kellyl26 · 17/11/2012 22:43

Yes please! Been suffering from anxiety badly lately, heart palpitations, general sense of fear & can't concentrate!

3plus2 · 18/11/2012 08:59

Hi kelly how are you today ?

YommyMommy · 18/11/2012 09:45

Welcome Kelly!

Morning 3plus, how are you today? I woke up about 5.30 n was feeling great. I even managed to get back to sleep but when I woke again I was back to anxious Annie! It really does my flipping head in! Grrrrrr! X x

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3plus2 · 18/11/2012 15:46

In not good today I swear I'm gonna get sectioned I'm freakinv out that I'm going to loose my kids ! I nrly had a breakdown in the shop cause I just wanted to go home and then I forgot how to get home :(

QuiteQuiet · 18/11/2012 15:48

Hello, just marking my place here then I have to run, anyone any tips with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and coping? My therapist seems useless.

QuiteQuiet · 18/11/2012 15:50

Wow just read back a bit, I cannot watch TV or even read, my mind takes over. PITA Over thinking? Yes, everything. Sad

YommyMommy · 18/11/2012 16:23

Hi 3plus,

I get scared when my kids are out that I'll forget to pick them up on time and daft things like that. We are no going insane and your not going to loose ur kids! I am guessing that since you are posting you got home fine...with kids in toe Grin

Welcome quiet, quiet. My GP seems to think I'm going through a bit of PTSD too due yo recent I'll health. I was seeing a councillor and she was pretty rubbish. Seeing CPN on 26th so if she gives me any good tips I'll b sure to let you know! X x

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