Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Cost of living

Stretching your budget? Share tips and advice to discuss budgeting and energy saving here. For the latest deals and discounts, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

See all MNHQ comments on this thread

To sell my belongings and give up my dogs

181 replies

Staceyp788 · 16/06/2023 12:24

So...I'm in the same boat as most people rn. I had a good job that I have up to do something I enjoyed, we weren't well off but could afford to live and have days out and yearly holidays etc. Then we all got hit with the cost of living and shits hit the fan. I can't afford my bills. I have cut out all subscriptions, I buy everything from aldi and their essentials range if we run out of something in the week then tough it's gone. The only thing I haven't done is quit smoking...yes I know, I know...I will give it up, I have done it before and will do it again...however the £100 a month this would save us doesn't make up on what we are missing. My husband tried to better himself and get his HGV licence. £3000 later and it turns out that he's really good at driving a lorry, but doesn't like it... that put us in a hole for 5 weeks, cause his anxiety couldn't take it and he didn't go back to work. We have been playing catch up ever since. So now I have to sell my motorbike (crappy Chinese model) my car (crappy old fiat) and my gym equipment(a fit cube, a cheap cross trainer and a hill climber)...and I cant afford to feed the children, let alone the dogs. There is no help for us. I've already checked. You can't just walk into a food bank. And also I can't just get a new job cause I'm in the middle of an apprenticeship. So basically, life's shit and I've had enough.

OP posts:
mumandahalf87 · 16/06/2023 22:54

Mumsnet is the worst for judgey Janes. Everyone has something they enjoy. Enough of the puritan attitude fgs.

IncompleteSenten · 17/06/2023 09:15

Privacy reasons 🤣🤣🤣

Come on

Had arse handed to them.
Spat dummy out.

BansheeofInisherin · 17/06/2023 09:42

saraclara · 16/06/2023 21:16

Yep. There was some good advice given in the spaces between people beratinng her for smoking (long after she'd said she was giving it up) so this thread could have been a help. Instead it was Mumset judgement at its worst and made her flee.

I think many posters don't press "see all posts" and therefore can't see updates. Anyway, smoking is very, very hard to quit.

I feel sorry for anyone suffering as things have got very bad very fast for a lot of people.

NowItsLikeSnowAtTheBeach · 17/06/2023 10:14

I feel sorry for anyone suffering as things have got very bad very fast for a lot of people.

100%. I think a lot of people on here aren't getting how impossible it's become to make ends meet for so many.

Vgtasd · 20/06/2023 20:33

Awww love I feel for you I really do, ignore those sitting on their high horses, they are the same crowd that tell young people stop buying a takeaway and you'll afford a house! I am in the same boat after all my bills are paid I've £90 for food for the month for three of us, I've started working a second job, existing not living x

BalanceMeHumours · 21/06/2023 11:59

Sorry OP, we're at the stage of a long thread where people don't bother reading past your first post.

Basically this is happening. People are so keen for the chance to be a twat that they are not bothering to RTFT.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page