I sent him a fruit basket once for our anniversary. It included (at my specification) the biggest pineapple the market stall had and loads of avocados (as well as the usual apples oranges nanas strawberries etc).
It was enormous (but still fairly reasonably priced £30 for a whole fuckton official measurement of fruit)
He's learned to pre-empt things now. He just said "you haven't sent anything weird to my work today have you?" My answer... "nope".
I took "weird" to mean something like parading bears or a mariachi band. Not shark/dinosaur cakes. Semantics.
I am trying awfully hard not to be a fritterer. I'm now doing this thing where everytime I see a cute top or pair of shoes that I can't possible live without I'm price checking and transferring that amount to savings. So if I want to buy after baby is here (and it's still available and I've not forgotten it) I have money saved.
Have also deleted all emails from boden joules asos and gulp hush. Unsubscribed. So I cannot be tempted by offers. Again only if I remember the websites are there...