"So you agree a ceasefire is the best way forward?"
Not at the present time, no. Military history shows ceasefires at wrong time prolongs conflict.
"There is no them or us."
Conflict is currently active, so yes there is.
"And you agree you don’t have all the information required to say whether the hostage rescue did or did not break the law, but that it may have done."
Which law do you specifically think was broken?