TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

Ooh sorry 😁 Yeah it was 3 month wait to be fair to get into the hub but all the tests then are very quick. It's all cycle day dependent of course.

Thanks @Ncl31 I'm really sorry you didn't gey your bfp today but I've every hope with you for whatever comes in the next few days

Thanks, either way I’m just going to wait it out until AF arrives, it’s predicted between tomorrow and Thursday.
If it’s still not arrived by the weekend then I’ll test again Saturday.

You still aren't out so the very best of luck.

Hi @DonnaWhat thanks for checking in to see... I'm now deffo bleeding (full period), and I think overall it's a relief... but still
Sadness that what I had yearned for so long is now just a dream that won't come true.

I think I'll always wonder what could have been, but feel it's time to look forward and enjoy my 3 gorgeous babies! Xx

I’ve had a huge temp drop today which odd following the same trend as normal. I guess AF will arrive today or tomorrow

Hey, I caught up on your message on the previous thread. I'm sorry that it hasn't happened for you, but pleased you've come to a place of peace with it. Thank you for starting the original thread, it's been a wonderful place of support for many of us. Do keep checking in now and then if you'd like xx

I had an appointment at the recurrent miscarriage clinic beginning of November, and had a text to say it’s been moved back by 2 months! I’m gutted

Oh you're joking! That's so disappointing. Did they give a reason? X

@RaisingCornishWildlings I never saw your message or I would have responded. I'm sorry af arrived but I hope you are doing ok. Likewise thank you for welcoming me to the thread when I joined, I was in a terrible place. I've only good wishes for you going forward and dont be a stranger here.

That's ridiculous. Can you ring and see why?

Sorry @Ncl31 chin up for next month. I know it's cliche at this point but we'll keep going

@Figtree11 ugh that is so frustrating! Sorry you're having to wait even longer 😔

@moosey89 @Ella31 @ThelastRolo20 the text said that due to unforeseen circumstances it’s had to change, and gave me a new date & time. I might ring up, but at the moment I’m just sick of hospitals so I might give it a few weeks. Will be 8 months since referral.
Ah well, I am hanging onto the positives I’ve had this week instead. Just had in my head that if I had another MC in the meantime at least I’d have that appt in November

@RaisingCornishWildlings sending love to you x

Hopefully you'll be pregnant by then and won't even need them.

@RaisingCornishWildlings Please don't be a stranger. You and @Ella31 made me feel so at peace when I lost my baby back in march. I really didn't feel alone when I read this thread from the beginning. I would like to think that I can be there for you both if you need it. Honestly, this whole thread has got me through alot of ups and downs and that's only thanks to yous and everyone else that contributes on this thread. I don't know where I'd be mentally if you ladies weren't here.

9dpo for spot checking, minimal peach / pink creamy discharge this morning, cervix still high, BFN although I could have sworn I saw some shadow but almost certain it's negative. Dreading the next few days, partners grandad been given 48 hours and put that on top of a possible bfp in the near future, makes me worry as I know this will destroy my partner when his grandads gone 😢 I've posted the test pic even though I know it's BFN.

I really hope you are right 😔

@Figtree11 that's rubbish. I kept getting my consultant appointments post birth of my first child pushed back but it was a then unexpectedly brought forward again. So I'll mainly be crossing my fingers that @Ella31 is right and you won't need any appointment. But, as a fall back, will cross fingers that they'll rearrange it forward again at some point.
@DonnaWhat with the pic being so close I can't visualise where I'd be looking for a shadow. Keeping everything crossed for you though- definitely still in with a shout 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx

@Onthedouble123 think I'm out. Went to loo on my dinner break and more spotting when I wipe. Just waiting for AF now then.

Hard to see with the photo. Spotting could be implantation though. Hopefully the next few days will be clearer. Sorry about your dh's grandfather. That's so tough. Wishing you both peace in the next few days.

I always think of the fertility hubs or checks as plan B. Plan A is that you are actively trying with the belief it won't come to that. So keep your head up. Big day for you Friday now, so fingers crossed. Your af is here so that blood test will hopefully be where it should be 🥰

Thanks, for some reason I’ve just done another test and can see a shadow on it. After the disappointment of the awful evap last month I’m not getting any hopes built up.
ive attached a pic - difficult to see on photo but I can defo see a shadow in person. Will retest in the morning and see what happens if AF hasn’t arrived

@Ncl31 I can see that without having to click on it!

@Ncl31 I can see that line for sure. Fingers crossed for you.