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TTC after Miscarriage part 4

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Ella31 · 12/06/2024 11:51

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

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MisssMarion · 08/07/2024 18:14

@Onthedouble123 Will be thinking about you tomorrow. I'm crossing my fingers for good news.

Lovedatforme · 08/07/2024 21:06

ThelastRolo20 · 08/07/2024 15:00

All looking great ❤️ measuring 5 days ahead so baby is due 14th Jan x

Ahhh this is great news, so pleased for you x

@Onthedouble123 Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you x

@Joleyjojo Congrats on your BFP!

Figtree11 · 08/07/2024 22:07

ThelastRolo20 · 08/07/2024 18:11

You should absolutely have hope. For what it's worth I haven't done anything different this pregnancy so it was obviously all out of my control and bad luck!

@ThelastRolo20 thank you ❤️

@Joleyjojo amazing!

@Onthedouble123 really hope it’s good news tomorrow

Ella31 · 09/07/2024 00:29

Congrats @Joleyjojo
Good luck tomorrow @Onthedouble123

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Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 08:40

Thank you everyone. Not til this afternoon. Feeling calm. I think I know the chances are against us. What will be will be.
I appreciate everyone's support. Will let you all know. Xx

Ncl31 · 09/07/2024 08:54

@Onthedouble123 thinking of you today

Ella31 · 09/07/2024 09:27

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 08:40

Thank you everyone. Not til this afternoon. Feeling calm. I think I know the chances are against us. What will be will be.
I appreciate everyone's support. Will let you all know. Xx

🥰 one step in front of the other. Best of luck to you🥰🥰

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jellyfish2 · 09/07/2024 10:18

@Onthedouble123 good luck for your scan 🩷

ThelastRolo20 · 09/07/2024 12:33

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 08:40

Thank you everyone. Not til this afternoon. Feeling calm. I think I know the chances are against us. What will be will be.
I appreciate everyone's support. Will let you all know. Xx

Thinking of you ,❤️🤞🏻

Blueskies4 · 09/07/2024 13:21

@ThelastRolo20 congratulations, lovely news 🥰

@Onthedouble123 good luck 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 14:36

I've been for my scan. I can barely believe I'm writing this but there are two sacs there. One you can see a baby and a heartbeat. Can't make anything out on the second one yet. She thinks I might just be not as far on as we thought. But less sure about the viability of the second. I'm going back in two weeks for another scan.
I think the consultant thinks I'm a bit insane as I was just so shocked in the appointment. Xx

Ncl31 · 09/07/2024 14:51

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 14:36

I've been for my scan. I can barely believe I'm writing this but there are two sacs there. One you can see a baby and a heartbeat. Can't make anything out on the second one yet. She thinks I might just be not as far on as we thought. But less sure about the viability of the second. I'm going back in two weeks for another scan.
I think the consultant thinks I'm a bit insane as I was just so shocked in the appointment. Xx

that’s amazing news. Congratulations

ThelastRolo20 · 09/07/2024 14:53

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 14:36

I've been for my scan. I can barely believe I'm writing this but there are two sacs there. One you can see a baby and a heartbeat. Can't make anything out on the second one yet. She thinks I might just be not as far on as we thought. But less sure about the viability of the second. I'm going back in two weeks for another scan.
I think the consultant thinks I'm a bit insane as I was just so shocked in the appointment. Xx

Wow! What a result!! Really good news about baby with a heartbeat ❤️ hopefully in 2 weeks you'll have a clearer idea what's going on but this is a really good step in the right direction 🥰

jellyfish2 · 09/07/2024 15:00

@Onthedouble123 wow that's great news!!🩷 How far on are you? X

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 15:36

Thanks everyone. I just feel a bit numb and shocked to be honest.
By last period dates I'm 6 weeks today which is what's worrying me- as she kept saying I'm not 6 weeks. But I was tracking ovulation too. She did say even ovulation tracking just tells you your surge no one knows when you actually ovulate. But still... Xx

MisssMarion · 09/07/2024 16:00

@Onthedouble123 that's amazing news! I can picture your shock ☺️
How far along does she think you are? It's true that using the date of last period to date the pregnancy isn't accurate as it would imply an ovulation on Day 14 which is not always (rarely?) the case as we're all different.
I think it's possible not all babies grow at the exact same rate. My DD was always dating 5 days ahead although I was sure of my period and ovulation dates... They kept telling me I was wrong.
I hope you feel a little relieved?

Bb542 · 09/07/2024 16:38

Hi everyone. I think I may have joined this thread when I had my miscarriage in February and I recognise some names too. I hope you don't mind me joining again? I got a positive pregnancy test on the 9th of June (vvvvvfl on the 8th but could've been mistaken for an indent). I was so happy and hoped my miscarriage in February was a once off. Due to anxiety, I went for a private scan last week at 6+4 and only measured 5+3. Definitely was shocked because with my last pregnancy i had bleeding, whereas this pregnancy I've had no bleeding at all. The sonographer thinks I'm earlier then we thought, but I know my dates 😢 so I'm preparing for a blighted ovum when I have my next scan in EPU next week. Has anyone else ever been through this? I honestly don't know how we try again... it's soul destroying 😢 I know the miscarriage isn't confirmed yet but I would be shocked if it wasn't a loss.

Hope you're all ok and again don't mind me joining x

Bb542 · 09/07/2024 16:39

Onthedouble123 · 09/07/2024 14:36

I've been for my scan. I can barely believe I'm writing this but there are two sacs there. One you can see a baby and a heartbeat. Can't make anything out on the second one yet. She thinks I might just be not as far on as we thought. But less sure about the viability of the second. I'm going back in two weeks for another scan.
I think the consultant thinks I'm a bit insane as I was just so shocked in the appointment. Xx

I'm not sure of your story but what amazing news. Congrats ❤️

Figtree11 · 09/07/2024 17:05

@Onthedouble123 thats great news ❤️

Not such a good day for me. Got my blood test result from molar clinic. They want my levels to be at 2, but they are at 3. So I have to go again end of next week to repeat it

DonnaWhat · 09/07/2024 17:39

@Onthedouble123 That's amazing news. Really happy for you.

@Bb542 It can be so hard to accurately date so early on. Don't get bad vibes just yet. Inhave everything crossed for you.

DonnaWhat · 09/07/2024 17:40

Just entered into my 2WW and only managed 3 times out of the 6 day fertile window. I just hope that's enough. Cervix is still soft and open at the moment though although 1dpo from opk surge.

ThelastRolo20 · 09/07/2024 18:25

Figtree11 · 09/07/2024 17:05

@Onthedouble123 thats great news ❤️

Not such a good day for me. Got my blood test result from molar clinic. They want my levels to be at 2, but they are at 3. So I have to go again end of next week to repeat it

Oh that sounds so close though? Hopefully that last little bit goes in the next week x

Bb542 · 09/07/2024 18:42

DonnaWhat · 09/07/2024 17:39

@Onthedouble123 That's amazing news. Really happy for you.

@Bb542 It can be so hard to accurately date so early on. Don't get bad vibes just yet. Inhave everything crossed for you.

Thank you so much. Hopefully I get good news but I highly doubt it 💔

ThelastRolo20 · 09/07/2024 18:51

Bb542 · 09/07/2024 16:38

Hi everyone. I think I may have joined this thread when I had my miscarriage in February and I recognise some names too. I hope you don't mind me joining again? I got a positive pregnancy test on the 9th of June (vvvvvfl on the 8th but could've been mistaken for an indent). I was so happy and hoped my miscarriage in February was a once off. Due to anxiety, I went for a private scan last week at 6+4 and only measured 5+3. Definitely was shocked because with my last pregnancy i had bleeding, whereas this pregnancy I've had no bleeding at all. The sonographer thinks I'm earlier then we thought, but I know my dates 😢 so I'm preparing for a blighted ovum when I have my next scan in EPU next week. Has anyone else ever been through this? I honestly don't know how we try again... it's soul destroying 😢 I know the miscarriage isn't confirmed yet but I would be shocked if it wasn't a loss.

Hope you're all ok and again don't mind me joining x

Hi lovely, so sorry you're going through this. In Jan I went at what I thought was 7 weeks and measured 2 weeks behind. I had various scans but it did end up in a missed miscarriage. That being said I did a lot of story searching and the odds seem a lot better with a weeks difference as opposed to two weeks.

It's so hard to "wait and see" but it really could go either way xx

Blueskies4 · 09/07/2024 19:32

@Bb542 🤞🏻 for you it’s positive news x

@Onthedouble123 congratulations this is lovely news ❤️ hopefully some clarity at the next scan xx