TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

@jellyfish2 beautifully darker! Did you tell your husband yet? 💕💕💕

Not yet, he's still in bed 😏 I think he'll be quite anxious too although excited. It's so sad that MC takes away the joy isn't it.

There are very clear and darker, so exciting!!

@ThelastRolo20 No plans for the weekend other than just going to go and get some nice coffee and maybe cake 🤗

Great lines @jellyfish2 delighted for you. Yeah I've actually been using it this month. I usually use conceive plus gel as it worked for me before but I switched it up this month.

Ooooh I was thinking about you and wondering. Congratulations!!!
Please keep us up to date. I got everything crossed for you!

@jellyfish2 did you get further symptoms after the nausea a few days ago?
I have zero symptoms so pretty sure I'll get a bfn tomorrow 😔

@MisssMarion thank you! Just that and then the random blood in my nose after blowing it once which happened in both previous pregnancies so I thought it was weird. Still didn't think it meant anything as I was about 6dpo at that point. I feel less pregnant this time than I did with the last one (the MC) where I seemed to have loads of symptoms early on. With my DS I really didn't have anything when I tested, I felt thirsty which made me test. The only other thing this time is vivid dreams but I get that anyway during the luteal phase and waking up during the night unable to get back to sleep but I've got other stuff going on and thought it was because of that.
I really hope you get your BFP! Would love us all to get our babies 🩷

Just went to the toilet and had a slight bit of blood, so hoping this means my period is about to start! Never thought I would be so excited to have a period but it means I can start tracking and trying again after the TFMR

@Mummysparrow fingers crossed! Wishing you all the luck for your new cycle 💕🤞🏻 xx

fingers crossed this is it for you. Then you can concentrate on your next cycle. Sending you lots of baby dust.

I have been following this thread carefully but not too active as I have found this month hard due to my CP 4 weeks ago. I have got a BFP today although defo a squinter at 10dpo. I need to give it a few days because of what happened last month. So very anxious x

@MisssMarion how are you getting on?

@Joleyjojo congratulations! 🩷 Completely understand your anxiety. I hope this is a sticky baby for you 🥰

I don't want to test I'm too scared...
I keep telling myself I'm sure I'm not pregnant as I have zero symptoms, but I guess a little part of me still hopes and testing would put an end to it, so I'm hanging onto the hope a little longer 😔
Also DD has chicken pox and Friday was my birthday (ruined by the pox) so it's been a week... 😫

how are you feeling @jellyfish2 ?

@MisssMarion the no symptoms doesn't really mean anything. When is your period due?

I'm feeling ok thanks, I'm tired but what's new 😂 last night my boobs started getting that tingling way and I've had some mild cramping. Period is due today so I hope I don't get spotting as thats happened the last twice and it always worried me. I've taken tests this morning and they're darker which is slightly reassuring.

I'm out this month again. BFN this morning.

Just catching up ladies.

@jellyfish2 I can definitely see 2 lines. Huge congratulations. Everything crossed for a sticky bean.

@Joleyjojo I understand your anxiety but amazing that you have a BFP again. Congratulations to you too.

@ThelastRolo20 How are you? I hope all is well tomorrow. Exciting that you get to see your baby tomorrow. Hopefully you come out feeling a little less anxious.

@Ella31 How are you? How's the 2WW going so far?

I've been quiet the last few days, I was thinking I was not going to ovulate this month because I've gone over pre mom's expected ovulation date and then yesterday and today my OPKS have been huge!! They've never surged so much! I need lots of luck this month ladies. Trying to baby dance as much as I can.

@DonnaWhat so glad you've had a huge surge!! Everything crossed for this month.

I'm doing okay the moment, looking forward to hopefully a positive outcome tomorrow

@DonnaWhat that's brilliant. Lots of bd this week for you.

I'm ok thanks, feeling quite down this week. 2dpo but expecting a negative this month. Hard to understand if all fertility tests are ok, as to why it's taking 7 months to conceive.

@Ella31 it's like your consultant said, a good few months of those don't count as such because of your healing process. So.if you think with that mindset, then you're only just starting. I really hope it's not too much longer for you. Would love to share the journey with you at the same time. You're such a support to many women on here xxxx

Aw thank you @DonnaWhat this thread has been a very supportive place. I hope this journey won't be too long for us.

@MisssMarion i’m sorry, seeing a bfn is just so difficult

@DonnaWhat that is a big surge! Hope this is a lucky month for you

@Ella31 i’m sorry you are having a down week. It’s so hard to try & be positive. And the 2WW can just feel like an eternity. I am sure it’s just a matter of time until you get your good news

Thanks @Figtree11 I need to stop feeling sorry for myself tbh. Worse things in the world. How are you? Hopefully you'll hear back about bloods tomorrow.

@Ella31 its so hard to not feel sorry for yourself though. It’s a huge trauma you’ve been through. And it is just so relentlessly exhausting the emotions that come with it.

Thank you - I’m hoping I’ll hear from them in the next few days 🤞🏻I’m doing ok thanks. I’ve had a quiet day today with not many plans & that always makes me feel a bit worse as it’s hard to not sit & think about everything

@DonnaWhat thank you! That's what happened to me this cycle had my biggest peak yet and caught ( it was also very long for some reason). Hopefully it's a good sign for you so get dtd!

@ThelastRolo20 sending you so so much luck tomorrow, I'm sure everything will be ok. Please update us 🩷. Is your appointment in the morning?

@Ella31 I'm sorry you're feeling down, it's totally shit when you want it so bad and it's not happening. We all completely understand but you're time will come, hopefully very soon!

@Figtree11 hope you're doing well.

@MisssMarion I'm sorry to a bfn. Are you going to try anything different next cycle? Like I said to Ella the preseed I feel definitely helped. I also tried seed cycling, maybe that's what caused the long cycle actually although I'm not sure thats a thing.

@Onthedouble123 How are you this weekend?

@jellyfish2 I'm trying, it's getting the other half to keep up 😆 I've told him these next few days are mine, after that he can rest for 2 weeks.