TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

I am. I think I'm 1dpo or else I've ovulated late last night so almost 1dpo. Imagine if this month worked. Hope you are good today. Monday isn't too far now🥰

@Lovedatforme hope you are feeling a little better today. I am wishing for my period to turn up but know I’ll be regretting that when it’s here & I’m in pain 😂

@Ella31 I have everything crossed for you this is a successful month! How amazing that would be

@ThelastRolo20 hope you enjoy reflexology. I had a session last month.

Been for my blood test today which I had at the EPU. Was fine going there, but had an overwhelming urge to cry once in there! Onwards & upwards

Well done @Figtree11 today was a big step towards your recovery and looking forward. I hope you aren't waiting too long for the results. Of course you wanted to cry. It's not wanting to move on from your baby loss and at the same time knowing this blood test hopefully means you can. Lots of love 🥰🥰

@Figtree11 Thank you, still pretty rough but i'm CD3 now so hopefully they worst will be over soon. I was the same, I just wanted to get it but then once it came I was withered from the pain 🙃

Totally normal to be upset, I felt the same every follow up app I had after the MMC. Better to feel all the emotions and roll with it.

@ThelastRolo20 I had reflexology throughout my last pregnancy and loved it, was the only thing that helped me relax a bit! Enjoy!

@Ella31 I really really hope this is the month for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻 hopefully everyday does the trick! 3 days and counting. I keep swinging between "of course it'll be fine" and "of course it won't be fine" 😂 doesn't seem to be a middle ground!

@Figtree11 I can completely understand the emotional side of it - it's sometimes just so overwhelming isn't it

@Lovedatforme hopefully it calms down for you soon- have you got nice weekend plans to keep you distracted? My first 2-3 days of AF are also my heaviest!

Ladies, I need your help. I've been feeling quite sad the last couple of days because my resting heart rate wasn't going up which in my last pregnancy it did. I ended up drinking yesterday with friends because I convinced myself I was out. I'm 10dpo today and was planning just to wait until my period but decided just to do a test for the sake of it.
Can you all see that faint line? What are the chances of it being an indent? I'm in a state of shock as I'm so used to seeing a stark white test and have just felt like I'll never see any second line ever again. Currently just wandering around my house aimlessly not knowing what to do with myself. I was planning to phone the GP next week since it's been 5 months since the miscarriage without a hint of a line. The picture was taken 4 minutes in.

@jellyfish2 that is a clear line 🥹 looks spot on for 10 DPO too! Please don't worry about the drinks etc, I'm so happy for you! ❤️

Thank you so much ❤️ I feel sick and anxious, not even happy at the moment? Were you the same? I'll test again with fmu. I really can't believe it.

I think it was relief and anxiety as opposed to happiness. I don't think I'll feel "happy" until baby arrives safely. Getting to 12 weeks has been quite a challenge mentally but I appreciate how lucky I am to even be in my current position. Basically it's a range of emotions constantly 😂

@ThelastRolo20 haha yes I'm not looking forward to it. I'm already worrying the test is wrong. I don't know if clear blue would show so early or if I should order frer?
You've been through a lot so I completely understand. Hopefully everything is ok on Monday and to can start to relax even just a little bit.

False positives are incredibly rare but I do imagine it'd be too early for a digital (only for a couple more days I reckon)

Can you get a local supermarket cheapie tomorrow? X

@ThelastRolo20 I'm quite rural and wasn't planning on venturing out tomorrow I was just going to do an Amazon delivery. I'll maybe just order a frer to ease my anxiety a little.

Do it! But save your fmu so you don't give yourself extra anxiety by testing later in the day x

@Ella31 @Onthedouble123 @ThelastRolo20 thanks so much for the kind words. I went for a massage this afternoon as I had the day off work so ended up as a nice day in the end. Hopefully results will come back good so I can start ttc again

@jellyfish2 eeeek that def looks like a good line to me! How exciting! I’ve never had false positives on those. Have been using them to track my hcg following the molar, and I even showed as a very faint positive on there when the clinic said my levels were so low it wouldn’t even show on certain tests

@Figtree11 thank you 🩷 I just hope this one progresses. I'm going to test again in the morning and if it comes up positive I'll tell my DP 🥰 he's currently in the pub so best not to say when he comes home haha.

I was like that last time, was going to wait until the next day once I’d tested again, but I ended up telling him a few hours later as I couldn’t keep it in! I have everything crossed for you xx

@jellyfish2 that looks good to me! Keeping everything crossed for your morning test 💕🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻💕

Congrats @jellyfish2

So I had a terrible sleep last night was awake from 1-3.30 and my DC woke me at 5.30. I decanted fmu into the tub I use but it was really clear forgetting i went to the toilet multiple times during the night since I was awake 🙈. Did two further easy at home tests they're still quite light but I'm thinking a little darker than last night, what do you girls think? I'm just terrified. Wish I had waited for my period now.

@Ella31 have you tried pressed? That's something I tried this time and I'm wondering if that's what's helped. @ThelastRolo20 said she used it too! I hope this is the month for you 🩷

@jellyfish2 that definitely looks darker to me.
do you have your Amazon order coming today?
keep you FMU if you do.
Got everything crossed for you.

Yeah I ordered frers! I'm going to try and do a hold today because last night would only have been a couple of hours anyway. I've kept fmu though. Thanks x

@jellyfish2 that's very clearly darker 🙂 congrats! Xx

@ThelastRolo20 Thank you 🥺

@jellyfish2 definitely darker. I didn’t even need to click on the image to see them