TTC after Miscarriage part 4

[Ella31]

Starting thread number 4, can you believe it? Congrats to everyone who has been lucky the last few threads and for those who have had recent losses again or new, keep strong, you are amazing. To those still trying, it will happen, myself included there and we will support each other.

I'll just include a foreward for anyone new who joins us, this is a supportive group for anyone who has had a loss, no matter how early or late. Everyone here has experieced the upset and understands.

Ive gone through the list and more than likely left people out so add anyone you think I've forgotten.

@ToeBeans24

@DonnaWhat
@Onthedouble123
@Lovedatforme

@emmatcc1
@ncl31
@MisssMarion
@Loz365
@Tallgirl91
@Figtree11
@ThelastRolo20
@mountainlass
@CadoAvo

@Joleyjojo

@Jellyfish2

@B1989
@rosyposy26

@RaisingCornishWildlings
@Rockyslife
@sarahk89

@Onthedouble123 that sounds really promising. How are you feeling apart from the obvious?

In my first pregnancy I had morning sickness one day a few days before testing so probably around the middle of the TWW. I knew nothing about all this back then and was convinced I couldn't get pregnant on the first try so I brushed it off. A few days later I realised I didn't need to wait for AF to come to test so I tested and it was positive!
I don't want to get your hopes up but fingers crossed!!!
I'm at 6-7 dpo today myself and I've been feeling queasy on and off today, but I'm trying to convince myself it cannot be it.

Thanks for this! It was so random. I also blew my nose and there was some blood which happened in both my previous pregnancies but again don't want to get hopes up as it could just be pre AF symptoms.
I hope this is our month but I know what you mean, just feels like it's not going to happen. You've had a pretty similar journey to me, fingers crossed for us 🤞

@jellyfish2 if you're 7 dpo today we're on similar timelines. Yes hopefully it's our month! When do you plan to test? I'm waiting for the CB monitor to tell me to test which should be on Sunday...

AF arrived for me 🥺 on to the next month.

Sorry @Lovedatforme . Next month hopefully 🥰

Great to hear. What day is your scan 🥰🥰

@Ella31 Tuesday, so still a while to go! 😩
I'm trying not to read too much into it as I know even people on here have said they continued with positives for some time afterwards. But I thought if it was negative then at least that would be some certainty the other way if you see what mean.
My imagination definitely starting to get away from me so I may just stay away a little while to keep my mind busy on other things and just keep plodding on.
I'll be checking in on you all and willing anyone on due to test this coming week! 💕🤞🏻💖 Xx

@Onthedouble123 so sorry to hear you’ve been having bleeding. I bled when pregnant with my daughter (and had period type pains) and all was well at the scan, 🤞🏻 for you xx

@Lovedatforme hope you’re ok and you’ve got some treats lined up for yourself xx

@Ella31 @Blueskies4 thanks ladies x

Going to get my eyebrows done now and get some chocolate on the way home. Pjs and feeling sorry for myself for the night.

Hoping next month is my month 🤞

@Onthedouble123 Hope you get some positive news soon. It’s annoying with the positive tests, same happened me last time. It’s a whole mind fuck. Take care of yourself x

CD10 for me today and ovulation bleeding again. That's twice it's happened now. Does anyone else get ovulation spotting? It's not even blood, it's like a pink water when I wipe.

I never have but some people do and it can be completely normal 🙂 hopefully just a good confirmation sign that you've ovulated! Xx

@ThelastRolo20i hope not, I've not dtd yet 😬 hopefully still got time before peak. Body's are a bloody weird thing aren't they.

How are you?

Ah! Sorry I saw your CD10. For a couple months after my MCs I would sometimes have a bit of spotting a few days after my period - I think it was just everything settling down 🙂 so probably not ovulation related!

I'm okay, last Saturday night I had a clot come out with brown discharge. It was a small- ish amount and I've had no more since so just hanging on until my scan on Monday. But of course there's the part of me now prepared for bad news..never a smooth journey is it x

I've read its very normal for women. Just the egg rupturing from the folicale. Fingers crossed

@ThelastRolo20 never smooth sailing is it. Other than that how have you been? How far are you now? I'm sure all is well and baby is cooking nicely 🥰

@Ella31 hopefully 🙏 need to get some baby dancing in quick. I ovulated early last month so must be doing this month too.

That's great @DonnaWhat you are prime now for bd and hopefully a bfp will follow in the next few days.

I'm ovulating today or tomorrow. Dtd every other day and got a call from my obestrician today to say I don't need a hycosy as my section 7 months ago showed my tubes were clear and healthy. Feeling hopeful this month.

Hope everyone else is doing well

I believe that's what I had this time but it was like a rusty brown colour in my underwear. Never had it before except the same thing when it was implantation. I read it's quite normal. Hoping it's a good sign 🤞

@ThelastRolo20 i bet it was a shock to see the discharge. I know so many people who had spotting in early pregnancy where everything is fine so I’m sure it is with you too. I know how stomach lurching it can be though. Have everything crossed for you on Monday. I have full on scan anxiety now so I’ll be thinking of you as it takes a lot of courage to walk in there.

@Ella31 that’s great, sounds like such a positive month for you

No update from me. Blood test on Friday so should get the results back towards end of next week on whether I can TTC again. Just wish my period would hurry up!

@ThelastRolo20 I just saw your message about the clot. That must've been worrying but good that there's been nothing since. Did you contact epu? They should scan you sooner?

Sorry @ThelastRolo20 I somehow missed your update. I've no doubt you are ok, can definitely happen in early pregnancy, though I know it's scary. Hopefully Monday will hurry up soon for you.

Ooh fingers crossed for Friday @Figtree11 . Big week for you. Xx

Agree with this. They definitely would.

@Ella31 @DonnaWhat @Figtree11 @jellyfish2 thanks everyone, was definitely an anxious night wondering whether cramps were going to arrive.

I did ring EPU, they were awful, wanted nothing to do with me..didn't even ask how big the clot was and said to ring 111 if it continued. Thankfully the bleeding stopped and at my last scan baby measured over 10 weeks so hoping on Monday at my 12 week scan everything will be okay. But as I say, you never know and I'm preparing for the worst just in case