@Vic231 honestly you're doing everything right, try not to second guess yourself if you can. When I fell pregnant we only had sex twice in my fertile window. So many people get pregnant from just doing it one time too. It's sadly partly up to chance, but you've done all you can do, try and give yourself a break.
I try not to think about the length of time it's taking as it doesn't do any good. You are doing everything right and your body is doing what it needs to do to get there, we just don't know exactly what that is all the time. it's so hard but try and trust yourself x
i do the same thing every month and work out potential birthday if I conceive, star sign and everything 🤣 it's hard not to, and I think it's a symptom of hope. Worst is thinking about what could have been, milestones and due dates that will never happen. Looking forward helps me balance that out a bit.
Im not sure if this helps, but I read an article saying that life isn't just about choosing what you want to make you happy, it's also about choosing what suffering you can bear to achieve the happiness. Like you can't become a pop star without playing to empty gigs and being told you're shit sometimes etc.
I found that really helpful as I was getting so desperate and depressed too, and it helped me reframe it: I can withstand this sadness and the challenge im going through in order to be a mum and have a baby I love one day. I think when you're really sad and don't think it will happen, this is harder, but you have to try and believe it will and it will all be worth it in the end xxx