MC crew - Thread 10

[AMS19]

Well ladies it's officially thread 10, our 3rd on the TTC Boards. A collection of lovely ladies who have been through the worst experience. May this thread bring us lots of luck 🙏

Previous thread:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/4198998-Recent-MC-New-cycles-trying-again-Thread-2?pg=1

@AMS19 Thanks for starting a new thread. Wishing us all lots of luck 🤞🏻

Just popping in to new thread, I'm not ready to leave yet!

Thank you for the new thread @AMS19, it's so helpful seeing other people's journeys and know that I'm not alone x

Thanks @AMS19 for setting up the new board. I haven't posted since board 1 on the day of my MVA in Jan but have found following them so helpful.

Hi ladies, just posting so I don’t miss the thread. I’m four dpo so trying to stay away and just dip on every so often.
Hubby was away with work a lot during middle of cycle and only managed to dtd twice so I’m not getting hopes up. I’ve also not been tracking anything this month and although I feel a little bit anxious that I’ve not been using opks I felt it was best option since he wouldn’t be around much. I actually feel way more relaxed though than previous months since I’m not tracking so think I might continue to not track and just let it be what it will be from now on- I mean it works for most people!!
Congratulations to everyone with their recent bfps- brings lots of hope!

Thank you for creating a new thread @AMS19 and hello everyone!

I have not posted on this thread for a long time, but I kept following it and reading about all the new BFPs is making me feel much more hopeful!

I am on CD11, this is my first cycle since my MVA in mid-March following a MC at 9 weeks. I have very long cycles 35-40 days on average, so still have plenty of time before my fertile week.
Just wanted to reintroduce myself and thank you for sharing your stories, you make me feel less alone. xx

Thanks for the new thread.

Had my scan today and all the ‘retained product’ has gone. So fingers crossed I’ll get my negative result soon and I can join you all in TTC!

Hi ladies. Good to hear everyone seems to be moving forward ❤

@KJLM I'm also not tracking now. My last cycle was my last tracking one. I'm going to just enjoy summer and what will be will be!

I’ll join as well although I tend to read and not comment as much. Thanks for starting @AMS19 and good luck with everyone’s journeys xx

Thanks @AMS19 for setting this up. Definitely not ready to be without this group of amazing ladies!

Thanks @AMS19 !

Thanks for setting up @AMS19

Congrats on BFPs and good luck to those in TWW , I dip in and out of this thread and it gives me so much hope, it’s so great to see the positive outcomes!! Still waiting for AF here, it’s been just over 9 weeks since medical management!!! Sure I ovulated last Monday though based on OPK and CM and my temps have been going up so hoping it arrives Sunday/Monday and I’ll be back on the TTC bus as I was away when I ovulated...typical!

Hang in there ladies xxx

Hello thanks for setting up the thread @AMS19

CD8 here and I ovulate earlyish but was negative opk today. Plus down with a cold.

Hi all,

Thanks for setting up the new thread @AMS19. Hope you’ve all had a good day.

I’m thinking about doing the same, @KJLM. The tracking is making me really anxious and I had a really delayed O this month, I gave up on OPKs as I thought I’d missed my peak but then ovulated a few days later.

Sadly going to have to have a month off TTC. Our rearranged wedding is early next March so I can’t risk being 9 months pregnant. It’s so annoying, third time lucky now for the wedding. Bloody Covid!

Hope everyone is ok x

May I join? I have tentatively posted on previous threads but not massively.

Have just had my 3rd MC sort of confirmed by the EPU. Currently 6 + 1. Hormones are still rising albeit slowly - hoping that it happens naturally over the next few days. If not, back for another scan next week for medical management.

Previous MC were a MMC at 9 weeks in May 2020 and very early MC at 5.5 weeks Nov 2020. It has been a tough 12 months to say the least.

Will most likely be trying again as soon as we can. Sorry for all of your losses.

Xx

Morning ladies, how are we all? Thanks for the new thread . Would hate to lose you all.

I’m doing ok. Over 5 weeks now but feeling very anxious about it all. I’m sort of pretending I’m not pregnant as I don’t want to get too invested. Like I keep saying, Amal steps xxx

@J785948 so sorry hun xx

@Ralala exactly same here hun, feeling super anxious! I'm 6+3 today, farther along than with the other 2 mc's and feeling absolutely crap, sickness really here, all day!

@Ralala same here I'm 5 +4 and super anxious with no symptoms.

@J785948 so sorry your going through this, be kind to yourself. Thats a tough 12 months, Ive found it a hard 12 months as well since our first MC in April 2020.

Today I woke up to a pregnancy announcement in one of my friends whatsapp groups, then another friend in the same group posted her pregnancy announcement... I just laughed, like seriously 😳 I am gutted that I feel like this I want to be happy for my friends, but I feel so sad, and wish I could share some good news.

Thanks @AMS19 for setting up the new thread 💞

Just popping on this thread, Iv dipped in and out of previous threads, found them very helpful for support and advice! Thanks for creating the new one @AMS19
TTC #1 at age 38, cycle #2 since MC in March,
Fingers crossed for everyone xx

Thanks for setting up a new thread @AMS19.

I'm also feeling super anxious right now. I got my bfp two days ago and af was due today and I've had a tiny bit of spotting (more like light brown discharge) and mild cramps for most of the day. I'm hoping it's implantation bleeding but I'm really worried about a chemical pregnancy

Hi all,

Been a while since I posted here. Thanks for new thread @AMS19, hope you're well! Mostly been on the TTC after ectopic thread but also talking a bit of a break from MN here and there.

We're on our second month of TTC after it all. The first BFN month hit me harder than I thought, think AF has just shown up today for second month but just spotting so far. All tests BFNs so far too. Not expecting it to happen this month tbh but thinking I'm dealing with it better this month than last.

I read someone's post that they like to treat themselves to something on a BFN month so I'm thinking about something nice to do or buy. Any ideas ?

Hi all, hope you don't mind me joining in.
Had mc at 12 weeks way back Xmas day 2009, DD 2010, DS 2012, really felt like I would regret not have 1 more baby (nearly 38 so click is ticking) so came off the pill in sept 2020 to ttc ,had another mc in February. Cycle have lengthened from 28 days to 34/35, which is a pain🙄. Currently on cycle 2 since mc, CD14. Using CB opk ( 2 day peak ones), didn't get a peak last cycle so assume I didn't ovulate. Here's hoping I do this cycle. Best of luck to everyone🤗

Clock*🤦‍♀️😂

Hi @Lililou SO good to hear from you! I was wondering how you were getting on. So good to hear your back trying. I totally get how hard it is, it hits me everytime. So now this cycle I'm not going to track at all! Just drink all the wine, eat what I want and live my life. Thats what I did last time and fell pregnant first time, so I think a lot can be said for it.

@Lollipop25 sorry you had a join us. Mmc was back in December. I had a MVA 11+1 and started trying again straight away, but no luck so far!