🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

Thanks @Annny27 - can't believe we're on to another thread already!

I think we all just need dunking in baby dust. A head to toe covering is required 😂🤦🏼‍♀️.

Hi ladies! Period due in 4 days and I can't believe I've not tested yet. Maybe I don't want the disappointment of a negative and I'm avoiding it 😬😬 gut feeling is saying no luck this month

Yep I'll take a tonne of it please 🧚‍♀️😅 @Fizzl haha

P.s i tested this morning at 12dpo and bfn so thats me out i am sure! Going to kewp taking my progesterone untill Sunday (14dpo) just on the sliiiight chance that I ovulated a bit later (as wasn't temping) or implant later (clutching at straws) haha

@abi0795 always better to wait if you can but wouldn't blame you if you tested tomorrow! I tested this morning and regret it now as feel crap about it ahha

@Annny27 bless you hunny. It's so hard.. it reminds me of waiting for exam results 😂 it's an awful feeling it really is!

It's so hard to not keep noticing all the symptoms and assuming pregnancy. After my MC in June my hormones and body are all out of whack so I just don't trust it xx

Ah I'm sorry @Annny27. There is still some hope but I know how you feel about not wanting to get your hopes up. That's why my logic is to test before AF is due so I can gradually accept AF is on her way rather than the disappoint of her just appearing! But I get some people would rather wait to see if she appears or not before testing.

I'm 6dpo and nothing to report really. I'm shattered but I don't think that's unusual (I've kind of forgotten what my 'usual' tww symptoms are seeing as I've only had 1 full cycle since April 😑) but I think being tired is totally normal for me. Plus I've been working late and not been getting as much sleep as I probably should (especially with the hot weather).

I'm going to wait until Tuesday when I'll be 10dpo to test. AF normally arrives around 10dpo but I'm hoping that acupuncture might hopefully help to lengthen that 🤞

Just checking in! I do keep coming back to see if any of you have joined the BFP club. Hopefully it won't be much longer for you all!

Is pregnancy test PTSD a thing? I absolutely dread doing them 😣😅

@Annny27

8dpo and I already think I'm out this cycle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 no symptoms at all but I knw it's still early I was told at school it only takes one time yea right we wish lol 💚💚

@Annny27 thank you for the new thread. Love the 🦕. Sorry it was a bfn today.

So it’s my turn for a confused uterus. CD18 and OPKs still very blank. Normally get peak CD14/15. Only thing I’m not sure is if it was really early ov as had very low high reading on CD9/10. Why is TTC such a headfuck! (Apologies for the language but couldn’t think of a better word)

@ELM7 I think that is EXACTLY the right word to use! 😂 xx

@Annny27 thanks for tagging me! I'm so sorry to hear it's a BFN today, its just not fair and you are so overdue a BFP😢

Can't believe it's a new thread again 😔 definitely need som baby dust my way please!

@Annny27 sorry about your BFP ☹️

@ELM7 100% agree. TTC is a massive headf**k!!

@Annny27 awww sorry it was bfn 😓
There is still a tiny chance so definitely continue your progesterone.
But i still send tons of baby sand to you 💐💕
And to @Fizzl ! Can't believe you are in a tww 😅😬
And to @ELM7 don't worry if it's just a couple of days late ovulation i have been the victim of such torment, especially when we conceived in july! (Easier said than done i know...)

And i love the 🦕 in the thread name :)

And ofc baby dust to all the other ladies @nuggetlover
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

Ha I hadn't even noticed the 🦕 in the title!

@Abi0795 I think ttc after miscarriage comes with ptsd so I think test anxiety/stress is definitely a thing!

@ELM7 sorry you also have a confused uterus ☹️ it's really rubbish!
Headfuck is a good word, sums it up pretty well!

@SunnySideUp2020 no nor can I, they seem a distant memory 🤦🏼‍♀️. Hope you're getting on o.k and everyone else over on the other thread. I keep checking in on that thread too, I like to know how you're all getting on!

Is Milscookie ok? I haven't seen much from her for a little while. I also think about Sparkl who hasn't been back since her 2nd loss 😔 I hope she's doing ok too. I often think about StephyRose too if anyone else remembers her, I know she got + quite quickly earlier in the year and decided to take a step back from mumsnet.

I've just realised my previous thread makes me seem a bit like I'm overly invested in other people's lives 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 but I do wonder how people are getting on. I feel like there is a strange bond/connection between us all now. Is that weird?! Please tell me if it is 😂

@fizzl omg i am totally the same.....there's one girl on anothet thread I was on who I often wonder about. And yes I think or sparkl as well with her 2nd loss 💗 I think i told her this before but I have a dream that @SunnySideUp2020 got her bfp haha - mumsnet and ttc even infiltrates my dreams haha

All of ua are troopers for sure 💪 whether we are still ttc or whether we have our bfps and are navigating pregnancy after loss 💗

I did see at one point that steph has made a thread about somethinf and I saw it on the active page and she was in the 2nd trimester so I know things were going well at that point :D

@sunnysideup2020

Thank you girl hoping all us lady's follow you soon with the bfp. And we can all move to the new thread and follow each other to the end 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗. Planty off baby dust going out to everyone girls we got this and we r stronger than we think. 💚💚💚💚💚💚

@Fizzl not weird at all. I was also thinking about StephyRose the other day and wondering how she was getting on

Just noticed the 🦕 in the title 😂 love it 💕

Haha glad it's not just me. It's odd how we visualise things. We obviously have no idea what we all look like but I think we create these pictures in our heads!

Oh I'm glad @StephyRose seems to be doing ok and has recently posted. 👋🏼 If you see this! We're still thinking about you!

Hi all, new here and not yet sure how to use this site so apologies if this goes to the wrong place? Hopefully I'm replying to a thread anyway...

I've been desperate to get involved in chats (I am a bit of a "watcher") but I guess now is a good as time as any..

TTC here after an MMC in May, which resulted in surgery, so this is month 3 for me I think, now at 6dpo.

Wishing you all lots of luck!!

Yes for example you all have brown hair in my head haha 🤣🤣 @fizzl

@chali7 welcome lovely and sorry you find yourself here! We have a few longstanding but also a few new people so you are more than welcome:)

Thank you!

Sorry you also find yourselves here - thanks for the support!

I find it really difficult to think about anything else ... trying to keep occupied and leaving tests in packets is so difficult

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