🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

@chali7

Sorry you find yourself here but a good group for support to be on, nt long here myself and I'm finding it helpful having other girls to talk to who have been through the same thing. 💚💚💚💚💚💚 On my tenth month of ttc after my second loss took ten month to get pregnant after my first loss to.

@Babyghirl so sorry you also find yourself here. I have everything crossed for you!

Most (if not all!) of my friends are pregnant so I'm finding it very hard to talk to them without feeling like I am putting a downer on their happy news.

I'm so pleased for them, but sad for myself - hoping I can join them in the baby club one day soon! I ovulated for the first time this month since my MMC (so the clear blue OPK tells me anyway) - first positive since I started using them so i think I'm already giving myself false hope for this month! Fingers crossed for you lovely x

@Fizzl @Annny27 i am totally the same. Often wonder how Stephy or Sparkle are doing!!!
Not weird at all... 😁
We do chat daily about very personal stuff so i guess it's human 😊

@fizzl
Doing ok but really being hit hard with nausea all day and night. Makes me miserable 😔
It's not easy and i didn't think it would be that bad tbh! I hope it's not for nothing !!!

@chali7

I find it hard looking at pregnant women and babies sound bad saying that but I have to protect my feeling cause no one else will. I don't use them opks I was never getting a peak so I just temp nw and get a dip the day I ovulate so try to work off that. Ovulation norm around CD 11/13 for me so just baby dance as much as possible have had my first app with a fertility specialist so just waiting to go for my results which should off been bck in April but God knows when I will get it nw with everything going on. Planty of baby dust your way girl and we will get r rainbow babies soon 💚💚💚💚

Hi ladies
Been reading for a while but not posted.
Had a mmc in June and had an mva. Came on my 2nd period yesterday and my god is it a bitch!! Sooo heavy and sooo painful!! I'm used to heavy periods but not quite like this! ( plus my 1st period after was ridiculously light!) Hoping it'll calm down in a day or so! But on the bright side, started 13dpo so cycle not messed up!
We are ttc and nice to read about others in the same position.
Xx

Fml not only is everyone pregnant in my instagram - someone's dog is bloody pregnant too 😭😂🙈

@Candyflosscrochet my first period after erpc/MVA was also quite light and then the second one was heavy! Good luck for next cycle

@Babyghirl I have an irrational fear that my little sister will get pregnant and I dont know how i would cope! She isnt married or trying (I know they want to get married first) but still what if they have an accidental one! I feel so bad and cruel for even thinking jeakousy over something thats not even happened! Infertility makes you feel like a bad person :(

@SunnySideUp2020 exactly we have been together through miscarriage , engagements and pregnancies- online friends 🙌🙌

Its so hard! My best friend and I were due 2 days apart when I had my MMC - that was so tough, but I'm getting through it better now a few months on! I find it really hard seeing unexpected pregnancy announcements!

Am pleased you've had an appointment - hopefully they can offer some help?! Im only month 3 ttc so still have some hope that it'll happen for me, then the nerves of the first 12 weeks will kick in, I'm not sure what is worse! I havent temp tested yet but am going to read up and start for next month if this month is another no go! Xx

@chali7

Its so hard! My best friend and I were due 2 days apart when I had my MMC - that was so tough, but I'm getting through it better now a few months on! I find it really hard seeing unexpected pregnancy announcements!

Am pleased you've had an appointment - hopefully they can offer some help?! Im only month 3 ttc so still have some hope that it'll happen for me, then the nerves of the first 12 weeks will kick in, I'm not sure what is worse! I havent temp tested yet but am going to read up and start for next month if this month is another no go! Xx

@Babyghirl I forgot to tag! Ill get used to this one day....!! X

@Annny27

It's hard my bro announced he was having another 3 months after my 1st loss and had him a week after my second loss I still can't bring myself to mind him 😪😪😪😪😪 just found out my oh niece is pregnant to and I can't go near his mums cause that's all they tlk about, I'm an older ttc woman so I'm scared I have left it to late.

@chali7

When that day comes it will be tough for you I have been there but do what u need don't visit if you will find it to tough does not make you a bad person your just putting urself first 💚💚💚

Morning 13dpo and no spotting yet so I am pretty impressed that the progesterone seems to have helped in that sense :)

@Babyghirl that's really tough having your brother announce their pregnancy! Infertility makes you feel selfish but other people who have gone through it know exactly how it feels! Xx

@Annny27

That's why I feel like this chat room is helping me a lot I knw I won't be judged no matter what I say as you girls all know what it's like feeling the way I do I'm 9dpo nw and already waiting on the witch coming lol so I can move on to the 11 month ttc 😪😪😪😪😪😪 have you stopped taking the progesterone yet 💚💚

Just realised that next month will be when we conceived last year! Let's hope that o was always supposed to have may/June baby 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

@Babyghirl ahh do you feel nothing other than usual then? A girl in another thread I am on got her bfp today and she had 0 symptoms so wouldn't count yourself out :)

@Annny27

I gear myself up for it coming so I don't be disappointed lol. Both time I conceived in Sept and both time lossed them so Sept not a good month for me so hoping if this month not my month I hope I don't fall next month as I would be waiting on the worst. 💚💚💚

Early start to the day for me start work at 8 lol but temp took at norm time ten dpo for me today and my temp took a nose dive to 36 4 below cover line norm I have a 15 day lp, and my temp does nt norm come down to the day before or day off period. Hoping my lp is nt a short one this month. And I start my period early gs. 💚💚💚💚

@Annny27

Morning ladies, I’ve just found this thread. Didn’t get the tag for some reason! The 🦕 made me smile! There really are some long overdue BFPs that need to make their appearance ASAP!
Have you tested again @Annny27 or any signs of AF? Good that the progesterone seems to have helped.
@Fizzl how are you feeling? Hope the 2ww isn’t dragging!
And sorry you’re having a funny cycle @ELM7, it’s so stressful when you don’t OV when you’re expecting to! The cycle I conceived this time I OV’d CD19 which is quite normal for me.
@SunnySideUp2020 with you on the all day/night nausea 🤢 I actually woke up for the loo about 3am and couldn’t get back to sleep as I felt so sick! It’s definitely something to be positive about but it is hard!

Morning everyone :) 14dpo and no spotting :D I had slightly brown tinged cm this morning (if I wasn't obsessively looking I wouldn't have noticed) so I think AF is probably in the way I am just chuffed that the progesterone seems to have given me a longer LP without spotting :D going to test one more time this afternoon even though I am 99% sure I am not pregnant, then if its negative I'll stop my progesterone:)

@scrumdiddly123 sorry you are feeling nauseous! :( but great news for the developing baby :D

@Babyghirl mmmm it could be an implantation dip 🤞🤞🤞🤞

@Annny27
Will be looking forward till tomara to c if it goes back up 🤗🤗🤗🤗 but I'm not getting excited only to be shot down again @scrumdiddly123

May I ask did you notice a temp dip on your chart as I had one this morning 10dpo just below cover line my lp is norm 15 to 16 days long on cd23 now not due period to atkeast Friday sat.

@Babyghirl I was temping when I got my bfp last year and I didn't see any dip, only a rise that was more than normal from about 10dpp

@Annny27
Will look out for a rise tomara I norm don't dip at all till af shows her ugly face lol. But still gearing myself up for her to arrive if she does I'm going to take the relaxing approach and nt temp nxt cycle just go with the flow and let things happen cause I think temping is stressing me out a wee bit lol.

@chali7 👋🏼 I think we're the same dpo! Welcome, sorry you're here with us. It is very consuming this ttc business. Ive mentioned it before ok this thread but I also have 3 pregnant friends at the minute and I cried after each announcement. I can totally relate to feeling happy for them but sad for myself. As time's gone on it's got easier. I'm planning a baby shower at the minute and I'm actually really ok about it all. I've even surprised myself slightly!

@SunnySideUp2020 glad to hear you're doing ok. Sorry about the nausea - sounds pretty rotten! Hopefully it will pass soon.

@Candyflosscrochet welcome to you too 👋🏼 I hope af doesn't stick around for long for you. My periods went back to normal straight away after surgery too so hopefully that's the case for you too. Mine have gone haywire 6 months down the line but that's a whole other story and it doesn't seem to be anything to do with the surgery.

@Annny27 I actually lol'd at the pregnant dog. I did that with a pepper recently. The big pepper had a baby pepper inside and its so daft but I felt like of course the bloody pepper even has a baby 🙄 what is ttc doing to us?!

Also that's great news your spotting hasn't started like normal! The progesterone must be doing the trick! Even if no BFP this month it's reassuring to know it's making a positive difference.

We also conceived at the end of sept last year. I can't believe it's been a year already! It doesn't seem all that long ago at all. Maybe September is meant to be?!

@Babyghirl I had a temp dip at 7dpo. Realistically probably too early for implantation and when I've looked back at previous cycles I always seem to have one around then so not reading into it at all. 10dpo could be promising tho if your temp rises again.

@scrumdiddly123 I'm doing good thanks! Staying surprisingly chill. I'm having the laziest day today and binge watching escape to the chateau (guilty pleasure right now 😳) to take my mind off it for another day. I have officially 0 symptoms to really report back beyond normal pre-af so 🤷🏼‍♀️ which way it will go. Sorry the nausea has hit you too!

I'm definitley gonna have AF in the next day or so haha. Been a RIGHT bitch to my DH 🙈🙈

@fizzl oh I have seen a pregnant pepper thing too! Haha everyonrs bloody pregnant 🙈 will you test or wait till AF due?

@babyghirl temping really stressed me out so I had to stop!! I kept on waking up super early wanting to test or worrying about what my temp was going to be 🙈

@fizzl
Hoping for the best but preparing for the worst so I don't feel to down will c what my temp brings tomara I'm so ready to get my rainbow nw and nearly two years of trying and two miscarriages under my belt. Fingers crossed your 7dpo drop is a sign to and we both get r bfp this month. 💚💚💚

@Annny27
What do you use just the lh tests I norm ovulate between day 11/13 so just going to baby dance as much as possible around then and hope for the best. And maybe taking the relax approach will help moves things along lol 💚💚💚

@Annny27 @Fizzl pregnant dog and pregnant peppers 😂
I actually laughed!
DP and I had this thing where we are always looking at each other rolling our eyes when a pregnant women would pass, but also even when his grandma s birds were laying eggs 😂😂😂
So can totally relate

@Annny27 sorry about AF arriving 😔

@Fizzl when are you planning to test?