🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

Hi Ladies hope all are well. Keeping everything crossed @Hopefulmummie

We received my OH results today. Results back doctor says all fine. Morphology 3% ideally want 4 % mobility ideally want 30% was 29% GP said of no concern. Said to bin all ovulation tests and not just have sex at ovulation and try for another year we are young enough and the fact we conceived before he’s not worried 😭😭😭 My OH has lectured me saying this is everything hes been tell you blah blah. I said but I could still have something wrong with me shouldn’t we be getting me checked what’s the point wasting another year. He said crack on if I want but should I really be going into hospital right now snd risk covid for it 😭😫 you’d think getting results I’d feel better I actually feel worse. My partner said I’m consumed snd it’s not good that me giving him a vitamin after his dinner and telling him we’re ovulating this week stresses him out. I agree with him but I’m just so worried if I don’t do anything I can to try then Il always worry and think I should of did this should of done that.

I think I might need to take some time off here and delete my tracker and at least try not trying( if that makes sense) I’m drained by all it and if I’m honest just want to go home have a good cry and eat rubbish

@27DONFIN
Good news on the oh results the months I relaxed and stopped temping I fell pregnant so this time around in going with the flow and relaxing. Just start enjoying time with your oh without tracking if you have been tracking for a while you should have a ruff idea when you should be ovulating. Have a drink when you fancy one if you drink start enjoying life again as hard as it can be when ttc but sometimes it really can help have sex every two to 3 days or when you fancy it us ladies r going to get r rainbow babies might just take abit longer but it will be more precious when we do xx

Morning everyone. Took tests again this morning hoping for a darker line... It's slightly darker than yesterday but part of me still doubts this is a new pregnancy. I know it probably is but I can't shake the doubts

@Hopefulmummie congratulations!! ❤️ It really sucks the feeling of having had a miscarriage, but just remember the stats show it’s really unlikely to happen again x

@27DONFIN that’s good news about the results! If it would make you feel better you should get tested because otherwise it’s just going to stress you out.

@hopefulmummie
Congratulations I would say a new pregnancy if lines r getting darker h&h nine months girl 🍀💚

Well test results came back nagitive yeha so managing to look after the oh with It but Staying safe so all. I need is. For. The other test to become positive 😂😂😂😂😂😂 and stay like that for 9 months lol xx

Hey just thought I'd give an update.
I rang my GP today to see if they would do bloods to confirm a new pregnancy. He said blood tests wouldn't be any more reliable than a pregnancy test so to just take it that I'm pregnant again if I'm getting a positive result. I done another test today and it's far darker so think that's me settled :)
GP is going to make a referral to EPU to see if they would do an early scan

I hope you all get your rainbow babies soon 😘

I’ve just had a BFP at 10dpo today! Really happy but scared, I fell down the stairs on Sunday and really hurt my back and have taken 3 does of co-codemol. I’m worried the fall or tablets may have hurt the baby. Really didn’t think we’d DTD enough this month.

@hopefulmummie
Congratulations this is your rainbow 💚💚
@whitershadeofpale
Congratulations the baby prop would not of been implanted on Sunday as you would of only been 6dpo so try not to worry and I knw people who have been given Co codamol from there doc while pregnant for sever back pain 🍀💚

Thanks @Babyghirl I’m sure it will be fine but after last time I think you’re always extra cautious.

@whitershadeofpale
It's hard after what we been through after 3 miscarriages I say nxt time I fall pregnant I'm staying in bed to after the 12 week scan but then shake myself and say nothing I done caused it.

Hello girls :D About 11dpo atm. Husband had his second SA today and I was paranoid that we would be stopped on the way to check if the journey was essential and then I would have to explain to the police that we have a pot of dying sperm that need to be delivered within half hour 🤣🤣 luckily that didn't happen :p

@Babyghirl glad the one test was negative.....any news in a pregnancy test or AF?

@27DONFIN I hate when doctors say oh just relax and take it easy . I csnt because infertility is TAKING OVER my life!!

Your husbands morphology sounds low, like mine and I annoys me that doctors say the results are fine because they aren't. 4% is the lower threshold of normal so clearly anything under is not good! Mine is 2%. But its good that a lot of lifestyle changes cna improve morphology e.g. no drinking or smoking, exercising and good diet/vitamins

@Annny27
The witch is deffo on her way I say by tonite I norm take it around 8 o'clock in the evening every month lol. All the fertility app have been put on hold again for 4 weeks gs so will be waiting to Feb to hear from them x

Hi Ladies hope you are all ok.

So went for what was hopefully the final scan of this pregnancy/miscarriage yesterday. They have said there is a tiny bit left but so small they don’t think it will be any issue and my body will prob just reabsorb it. Got to take a test again in 2 weeks if negative don’t need to do anything if positive have to call them again and they will do bloods. So hopefully its all over but just waiting for that negative test before getting back on this TTC journey.

@Annny27 how’s the symptom spotting going in the dreaded TWW? Thank you for the giggle with the thought of being stopped by the police with DH SA - it made me smile. Hope results come back quickly and with improvement from last time.

@ELM7
Sorry its still lingering on for u when you just want it all to be over, hopefully it clears out on your nxt period and nothing needs to be done. It's weird how we pray for a nagitive test after the praying for a positive look after yourself our nxt positive tests will be r rainbow babies for all us ladies🤞🙏🍀💚

It's just my eyes isn't it girls xx

Way to light prob a cp I think xx

@Babyghirl it isnt just your eyes......I can see it too 💗💗💗💗 try again with a frer in the morning if you can wait???

I am 13 dpo and spotting with boobs shrinking so thats me out for another month 😔 onto month 14 since miscarriage i think.....I csnt bloody believe it haha!

@ELM7 ahh thats rubbish :( I had a small "blob" remaining they called it and they said it would probably just come out with my next period or be reabsorbed and thats what happened as didnt have a positive test after my period:)

Sorry its so prolonged for you!!

@Annny27
Was just trying to kid myself I think lol will try again in the morning as my pee was so dulded there lol x

Ahhhh I am so excited for you if it is!!!! And you have beaten the September conception curse! Xxx @babyghirl

@Annny27
Aaaahhhhh thanx I will believe it in the morning if I get a darker line, and hope it 4th time lucky xx

@Babyghirl have you had no spotting or bleeding then? Any other symptoms??

Just cramping the last 2 days like my period is coming even put pads on thinking it was going to come during the nite 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 why did I have to test I could off left it for another while thinking my period was just late lol will test tomara with fmu c if it darker has that test was in the afternoon I'm just going with it will be wat will be hoping for the best thou hope it turns out good this Time I'm so ready for it but only 3 months after my loss I'm nervous 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 xx

@Babyghirl my fingers are crossed for you!!! 🌈

@Annny27 sorry AF got you again 😕 we're in the same boat. It's so so frustrating. Sending hugs

@ELM7 sorry this is happening to you again. I really hope it's over soon for you

@27DONFIN sorry that your OHs results weren't more positive. I know how frustrating it is for people to say "just relax and it'll happen" like Annny said , how can we do that when TTC has taken over our lives?!

I'm currently CD11 so entering the fertile week and expecting ov next Sunday. Already started with the every other day dtd!