🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 4 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi everyone,

Setting up the new thread for us - we have come a long way since January and sadly a few of us are still on the "journey". Let's hope we arent here for much longer. Wishing us all baby dust (although its been so long I am not sure dust will do it for me - maybe will have to up the particle size to "baby sand" )

Ttc ladies:
@Fizzl
@Nuggetlover27
@ELM7
@Ljm0101
@Abi0795
@Babyghirl

And our recent bfps who i know like to check in :)
@Leok83
@scrumdiddly123
@SunnySideUp2020

@Taskmasterlover I’m so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself.

@Annny27 yep I’m pretty sure as passed a couple of big clots in the early hours of New Years day and have bleed quite a lot - Me and my hot water bottle are very good friends at the mo. Although on the other hand I’m also concerned that I might not of passed enough (cos there is always something to stress about!) so I haven’t cancelled my next scan on 14th Jan and will test the day before to see if negative (didn’t think I’d be back to wanting a BFN again!) if it isn’t I think I’ll still go for the scan to make sure it has all gone.

Really hope the TWW goes quickly for you with a BFP at the end of it. Bet it’s been nice to have a more relaxed approach to DTD this month.

Thanks @ELM7 really sorry to see you're in the same position. Take care of yourself too.

@ELM7
How far along where you meant to be when I lost on holloween there was not a lot I was meant to be ten weeks but measuring being from the first scan at 7 weeks took over two weeks to get a nagitive result. Take care off yourself how many losses is that u have had nw I have had 3 plus a cp so waiting on fertility app coming through nw xx

I should've been 13 weeks 😔 but it's a bit of a complicated story. Essentially I was only measuring around 6 weeks in the end. Had 2 now but going to have a break before trying again, need to have some us time.

In so much pain at the moment, I was dreading it because I know how much it hurt last time. Xx

@taskmasterlover
Sorry your going through it again, take care off yourself and give yourself time to heal I found having us time after them really helped 🍀💚 and hopefully nxt time is lucky for the lot of us girls on this thread xx

Morning all

So sorry @Taskmasterlover 💐 look after yourself and try to stay positive

@Annny27 I'm 12DPO today and as predictable as ever AF has arrived 😩😭 this is so heartbreaking 💔
How is your TWW going so far?

@Babyghirl how is your TWW going? Any news on your fertility app yet?

Just wondering if anyone knows if any of the graduates who's OH has morphology succeeded by using something like preseed? I think @SunnySideUp2020 was one of the ladies who's OH had this obstacle?
I'm running out of things to change each month and I'm desperate for some advise on how to create a sticky bean 😢

Morning ladies :) I am about 4dpo now I think - could be more, could be less who knows haha!

My ovulation came quite late this month at about cd20/21

But it does mean that DHs next sperm analysis which is the 14th jan I will still by in the tww so won't be an issue with abstaining and missing fertilr period :D

@babyghirl how are you finding the tww? Are you managing to distract yourself

@nuggetlover27 so sorry that AF arrived :( its rubbish, month after month 😭 actually when we conceived we were using pressed internally.....maybe I should give that a go again next month! Who knows, it might help or it might have been a coincidence

@ELM7 thats so upsetting :( yes it would definitely be worth keeping your scan appointment just incase and making sure you have the negative test before you cancel. So sorry you are going through this again :(

@taskmasterlover sending love 💗

@27DONFIN I feel very similar in that I used to be looking forward to another fertile period as it meant another chance. But now I am like ahh whats the point, probably won't be successful anyway 🙃

@Nuggetlover27
Yes my DH has this issue.
We were using preseed all the time with no success. When we conceived it was the month we stopped using.
We also made sure he had a break as in not everyday dtd in fertile week, so sperm concentration improves and overall good sperm too.
I will attach our schedule that month to give you an idea.

My positive opk was 13th July so my fertile week was 8th to 14th i would say.

@nuggetlover27
No app as off yet but will phone them tomorrow to ask if I'm any closer done that the last time and got an app so hoping it happens again sorry the witch caught up with you heart breaking when she arrives not feeling anything as off yet but I'm trying my hardest to no sp lol.
@Annny27
As much as possible working away and trying not to sp lol it's working most off the time tbh how r you feeling 🍀💚

Well good morning ladies it official covid has hit home, husband to be was tested yesterday and it came back positive this morning 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 with my luck I knw I will get it to gs but trying to limit r contact he's up stairs I'm down stairs going to be a boring ten days tbh I can't stay in but I know I have to lol so any ideas for binging on TV lol 🍀💚

Afternoon :D 5 or 6 dpo for me i think :) have lots to keep me busy so not really focusing in it - it's nice!

@babyghirl oh no :( thats frustrating! Hopefully you will both be feeling okay - I drffo recommend brigerton on netflix!!

@SunnySideUp2020 usually we try to give ourselves a break but tmi this month i was quite horny so did it every day in fertile week 🤣 hopefully that didn't damper any chances but after months of hating sex and feeling the pressure of ttc, it was nice just to have fun!

@Annny27
Will have a read I'm keeping myself busy bleaching the house lol and cleaning atm lol. I'm cd21 so bot ten to 8 dpo I think good you have a good time in the bedroom sex can get quite boring when ttc cause u only have one thing on your mind so the enjoyment leaves ya 🍀💚

@Babyghirl ohh no. Hope you see both ok. We’ve been watching somebody feed Phil on Netflix.

How are is everyone doing?

I’m cd 14 but I think I ovulated yesterday from symptoms only dtd twice neither were yesterday as I thought it be today 🙄 aww well not too bothered this month trying to focus on other things in life for a change

@27DONFIN
I'm hoping it skips me lol but don't think it will with my luck if it wasn't for bad luck I would have no luck at all 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 will give it a check I'm not use to sitting around so going to be a boring 2 weeks tbh lol. And remember it only takes one so ur nt out 🍀💚

Morning 🥰 8dpo ish today and feeling okay - usual symptoms in the tww!

@Babyghirl have you had any covid symptoms yet? Hopefully not!

@27DONFIN we didnt dtd in ovulation day either this month - i always regret it afterwards!

Thats good you are in tww now :D

@Annny27
Nt as off yet but got a test this morning to settle myself he said he felt great yesterday but have heard you can feel great one day and take a turn for the worst the nxt so not convinced hoping I don't get it. Im cd23 today and nearly feel af going to make an appearance soon 🍀💚

Hi everyone. I'm looking some assurance... It's been 6 weeks since my miscarriage and still no period. It's been 2 weeks since I ovulated as I was tracking so decided to take a pregnancy test just to see... And I'm getting lines 🙈 quite a faint line on the clear blue but darker on the strip..... I dunno if I want to believe I'm pregnant again?? eeeek. Attached a pic

@Hopefulmummie did you definitely get a negative after your miscarriage? If so then looks positive and congrats 🥰

@babyghirl let us know what the result is 🤞🤞 i will wish you hope for a negative covid test and a positive pregnancy test haha

@anny27 yeah I got a negative around 2 weeks after. There was the faintest line but was hardly recognisable but now I'm paranoid it's still positive from that. But I can't see how the lines would get darker 4 weeks later

@Annny27
Weired wanting a positive test on one and a nagitive on the other lol I'm just missing cuddling at nites as I'm not in the room with him so no baby dancing lucky I'm past ovulation 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@hopefulmummie
Praying it's a new positive for you and you have a h&h nine months do another one in the morning to c if the lines r getting darker wish I was one off the ones to fall straight away but took nearly a year between all 3 losses lol. 🤞🙏🍀💚

@Babyghirl yeah I will do another one in the morning but I'm so impatient. Haven't even told OH yet as don't want him to get his hopes up.
If it is a new positive I can't believe I've fell pregnant straight away as we weren't overly trying. DTD a couple of times before ovulation. I also had an ectopic In June so know I'll be worried for next few weeks

@hopefulmummie
It's awful how r joy of finding out has been replaced with fear I feel like nxt time I fall nt telling him until I get the 12 week scan if I ever get to it that is because I hate everytime I have lost felt like it was my fault and don't want to disappoint him again xx