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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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ArjaD · 20/12/2019 11:43

I'll be popping Over to yours then on Christmas day if af shows up @dizzy85 😂

dizzy85 · 20/12/2019 14:49

@ArjaD haha 😂 there will definitely be plenty to go around 🍻🥂

@Nmew Thankyou. Hope af doesn't show for you.

ArjaD · 20/12/2019 15:41

How are you doing @Nmew? I'm defo cramping and worry about af today 😔

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NicoleR14 · 20/12/2019 17:00

Got some serious cramping pains in my left side for days now and now my right side hope AF isn't on her way! How's everyone else feeling?

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ArjaD · 20/12/2019 20:01

Aw that sucks @NicoleR14 i hope we're not all getting af 😣

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NicoleR14 · 20/12/2019 20:06

@ArjaD I hope not! I'm wondering if it could of been implantation spotting I had last night but trying not to read to much into it as I'm not sure if I'm 13dpo or 14dpo today

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Nmew · 20/12/2019 20:15

I haven’t really had cramps today but (tmi) I keep getting that feeling like AF is starting but when I check it’s not there. And that’s pretty common for me before AF actually comes. I’m 14dpo today, due AF on Sunday, so 2 more sleeps before I left myself test again lol

I got my BBT thermometer today so I at least have to to use next cycle if needs be!

I’ve been busy with work today so thankfully haven’t thought much about it but no doubt I’ll spend the rest of my evening googling and reading forum threads lol

ArjaD · 20/12/2019 21:48

@Nmew hm i necer considered a thermometer because i read somewhere that, when your temp spikes, ovulation has already happened? I may have totally misread that mind 🤔 how does it work exactly?

Nmew · 20/12/2019 22:07

Yeah that’s pretty much how it works, but I plan to use along with opk strips. Kind of just a way to confirm if the opk has correctly predicted that I’m about to ovulate. Also if it does happen to take a long time to conceive then I can estimate when I typically ovulate. Just a nice back up to have as I found the opk didn’t give me super strong lines and I felt pretty clueless about which day I actually might have got a peak positive.

Anything to make figuring out that fertile window easier! Lol

dizzy85 · 20/12/2019 22:12

Still got everything crossed for all of you waiting. Sending positive vibes your way. I think I'm coming down with a cold now 🙃 a nice restful weekend and hopefully be right as rain for Christmas.

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NicoleR14 · 20/12/2019 22:15

@Nmew I never got a full positive opk either but the opk I bought was called easy at home and it's compatible with the Premom app you take photos of your opk each time you take one it tells you your cycle day and how low or high your opk is that day it's been very helpful it let me know when my opk actually peaked and then dropped I found it easier than trying to track it myself x

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Nmew · 20/12/2019 22:49

I used the Wondfo ones but I actually found the Premom app at about 12DPO and it really helped a lot, because I had what I thought was a positive 10dpo and then a negative and positive again at 12DPO. The BBT thermometer I got is an easy at home one too. Figure can’t do any harm to track it as a secondary confirmation of ovulation. Also tempted to try the SMEP method too... anyone attempted that/ hear about it?

Nmew · 20/12/2019 22:50

Aww hope you feel better by Christmas @dizzy85! I still have blocked sinus from my cold 3 weeks ago!

ArjaD · 20/12/2019 22:52

@Nmew that's true, defo great to have it and get a good feel of it all. Who knew this ttc had so much to it huh! I swear once (hopefully) we get pregnant again, all these things are going in the bin forever 😂

Nmew · 21/12/2019 00:12

I for sure feel a bit loopy getting all these things but if it ends in a bfp then I don’t mind how loopy I look haha I can’t help thinking about how ridiculously strict I was about contraception before and wonder why I bothered when I learn about how hard ttc can actually be!

ArjaD · 21/12/2019 06:58

Well ladies, af showed her face this morning, no mistaking! That's me out for this month 😞 how are you all?

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NicoleR14 · 21/12/2019 08:14

@Nmew I totally agree with that if I new how hard ttc was going to be I would of had my implant removed months ago! I didn't even have it in for a year and it was back out I shouldn't of bothered with it!

@ArjaD oh no! Sorry to hear that 😢 af due today for me too but no signs yet!

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everpessimistic · 21/12/2019 08:56

Hi can I join. BFN this morning at 10 DPO on a clearblue early. I know it’s still so early but last pregnancy I got a positive at 9DPO. So fed up of TTC now

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NicoleR14 · 21/12/2019 09:00

@everpessimistic welcome! It's driving us all a bit mad atm I'm either 14dpo or 15dpo AF is due today but no signs of her yet don't lose hope your not out until she arrives! I got bfn at 11dpo and was so upset and again at 12/13dpo it's still early fingers crossed for you!🤞🏼 my gp had told me it was far too early for me to test at 12/13dpo!

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everpessimistic · 21/12/2019 10:20

@NicoleR14 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽 We just have little slow ones and we will get positives soon

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NicoleR14 · 21/12/2019 10:38

@everpessimistic hopefully🤞🏼! Still no signs of af yet I'm going to get a test later on if she doesn't turn up!

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Bbutterfly · 21/12/2019 11:02

Morning everyone, @ArjaD same, af turned up this morning gutted. I'm not going to be such a maniac this time it's too much. No more testing early for me.
Sorry your af came, fingers crossed it's our turn next month! @Nmew I got a solid smiley on the same day as my temperature rose, so I have no idea where that leaves me? My peak opk on the same day my temp was high I thought it would've dipped. Who knows lol.
Good luck my fingers are crossed for you! @NicoleR14 let us know how you get on later! X

Nmew · 21/12/2019 11:33

Aww so sorry your AF came ladies, fingers crossed for next month! AF due tomorrow for me so will see what happens, 15dpo today. I just hope AF doesn’t decided to just show late and get my hopes up. Time will tell!

Welcome @everpessimistic fingers crossed it might just be too early to test.

Ah it’s all so confusing Mc @Bbutterfly lol I don’t think we will ever know for sure when we’ve ovulated!

Nmew · 21/12/2019 11:35

*shouldnt have had MC written in there, typing on my new phone, butter fingers!

dizzy85 · 21/12/2019 11:52

@ArjaD @Bbutterfly so sorry your af turned up 😭 it's sucks. At least one thing we've got each other to go through it together next cycle. And you can join me in being drunk at Christmas.
@Nmew @NicoleR14 @everpessimistic still hoping for you ladies 🤞🏻❤️ and anyone else on here waiting.

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