11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@dizzy85 I seem to have had more willpower back then, I only tested on the day I was due but the line was so incredibly faint I nearly chucked it in the bin... So i am pretty sure it would never have showed on a test any earlier. 1 dpo today for me and already going insane 😂 aw still crossing my fingers for you though! Surely we will have some more bfps this month on this thread!

@Bbutterfly @ArjaD thanks ladies that's given me abit of hope to get through today, I've had a few symptoms but could just be from anything so I guess tomorrow will tell. I've spent a fortune this month on tests, just got another pk of frers for tomorrow if no show.
How are you both getting on? Only 13 more days @ArjaD 😆

I'm in my fertile week, ovulation Predicted for Saturday so we've got a busy weekend ahead 😂. Then the dreaded tww. Really hoping we get a couple of bfps this month!! Xxx

I am trying desperately to chill 😂😂😂 good luck with the busy week Bbutterfly 🤣 my hubby left for three weeks today so just focusing on the wee guy I guess. Keep us posted @dizzy85

I'm 2DPO now and I'm already getting anxious . And trying not to symptom spot (not like I would have anything symptoms now any way ) how on gods green earth will I get through the next 2 weeks , I'm
Ordering FRER tomorrow and ICS will see how long I hold out before doing them .

I was feeling positive about this month but now not so much starting to feel like it will be another month of BFN .

Having talked yo my partner yesterday (I was having an emotional day) I think next month we are both gonna try chill a bit and not keep tracking every little thing (I know that will be hard) but we are both starting to feel the pressure and it's becoming stressful which really isn't good for either of us .

Fingers crossed for BFPS XXXXX

@Donnat89 looks like we're just about at the same point in our cycle. It's ok, we can all stress together and see who caves first 😂😂 are you all ready for the baby thing because I just cleaned fishy puke off the couch and my hair.... 🙄

@ArjaD yes we can I did wells at cycle I think I held out to 11DPO .... I don't think I will hold out that long this time we will see

Yea I'm ready I already have 2 but it will be weird having a little baby again ! Xxx

@Donnat89 oooh baby nr 3!!! you're brave!!!!

@Donnat89 lucky youu!! At least you know you can do it haha
I'm 11dpo tomorrow. Feel completely normal. Not even a little breast pain... 3days to go until af is due.
Last month my af came really early, it would be tomorrow (day24) but bleeding little bit 4 days before... this month no sign of anything 🤷🏻‍♀️
How awkward is all this haha

@dizzy85 how are you doing? Still holding on??

@Sungirl11 yea I do count myself
Lucky for that Nd I'm greatfull to be blessed with 2 beautiful kids .

But I would love one with my partner (2 are from a previous relationship) but yes I know I can have kids which does keep me calmish . I am still Young - 31 so I know I have time it's just hard not to obsess when you want Something so bad !

I find these threads an amazing source
Of support and they help me massively. Af first I was like it's weird talking to complete strangers about something so personal but now it's the first place I turn .

Who better to support you than someone else going through the exact same thing x

@Sungirl11 no signs might be a good thing ? Fingers crossed you get a BFP XXX

@Donnat89 yeah ofc! Haha when you want it you want it no matter 1st or 5th haha
I also think this is brilliant! Super supportive. We are all on the same boat like i say and it helps each other stay up even thought it's taking ages to conceive.
I am soon 32 and hub 36 in June, both 1st child so imagine haha "we want it all and we want it now" 🔝
As i say i've never been pregnant before so no clue about symptoms... don't want to get too excited either
You all send me your energy just incase haha

@Sungirl11 awww bless your , I think you've just got to be positive and believe it will happen even if it does take what seems like forever !

I say this but I also have the I want it now attitude ! This is why we have decided next cycle to chill a bit more and make it more natural. It will happen when it's meant too

3DPO today for me and I've ordered my tests they will arrive Friday 😅 I would like to hold out until next weekend before I do any but I doubt that will happen .AF is due 23rd so I've got 12 days !! I don't even know how I'm gonna keep sane ... ! Xx

Morning all, bfn again for me this morning but no af she's normally here when I wake up on the due day but no signs yet so just constantly checking when I wipe. I do feel weird but it could just be from the stress of the tww.

@Sungirl11 how many DPO are you?

@dizzy85 sorry about the BFN .... not over until AF shows it is so annoying though when she isn't their first thing , mine used to be there as soon as I woke up but now usually within 2-3 hours of waking she arrives x

@Donnat89 it is frustrating I've been up since 5 and would normally have definitely been here by now but then I know our bodies like to change things up just to confuse us don't they 😂 hope your tww goes quick for you🤞🏻

@dizzy85 it's the worst! Hopefully she doesn't show for you .

I hope it does too just gonna try keep busy and not think about it too much ! That's all I can do! X

@dizzy85 sorry to here about your bfn out bodies do like to play tricks with us it's horrible!

@dizzy85 11dpo today, 3days for af. And not a single symptom of anything... no sore breasts, no brown discharge... since she was gone i haven't had anything different (like more cm or diff colour texture etc), just normal life haha

Tomorrow i'm off to Thailand, so i thought maybe test in the morning to reassure i'm not preg and take all the equipment with me for af haha
I also have theses cute t-shirts for my hub to surprise him when it happens so want to see if i can leave them ir take them haha
What tests do u girls use? Clear blue?

@Sungirl11 I use FRER of testing earlier . And ICS just coz I can lol x

I used Asda home kit the first time and confirmed it with Clear Blue xx good luck!!!

@Donnat89 is that the white one with pink cap? Haha
@ArjaD i think i have a clear blue at home. So might try that one. Even thought i'm very negative in this and sure it's going to be a BFN haha
Hoy are you doing? All starting the waiting week? Worst one!

@Donnat89 Thankyou, still nothing yet will see what tomorrow brings.

@NicoleR14 thanks it does like to mess us about ay, how you getting on did you decide to carry on trying?

@Sungirl11 oh please take me to Thailand with you haha I so need a holiday! I hope it's good news for you, I usually use the frers if early or Poundland strips if I'm feeling like testing crazy amounts of times.