11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Hey @ArjaD honestly it's so frustrating I don't know why I do it, 12dpo now and negative this morning. Wish I didn't bother. Af due 21st dec.
@Nmew good idea getting up and peeing straight away! Are you going to wait until the weekend I til you test again? X

Has anyone else been going to the bathroom a bit more than usual? the constant feeling of needing to pee is getting worse!

I think I’ll try wait until Sunday to test @Bbutterfly, at least with the CB, I have ic so if I get the urge I can use them but it’s so disappointing seeing a bfn so I’m really going to try to wait.

@NicoleR14 I feel like I am going more, but also just wondering if Im going a normal amount and just noticing it more than I normally would.. this tww nonsense makes me feel totally batty lol

@Nmew I thought it was a normal amount for me until my mother in law and sister in law mentioned it to me yesterday I've been going every 10-15 mins usually I can hold on as long as I need to but as soon as I need to I have to go right then and there this last few days! Hoping it's a sign but trying not to think too much into it! Hopefully you get your BFP on the CB!

Lol well if other people are noticing then def seems like a lot, fingers crossed it’s a good sign for you! When do you think you’ll test next?

I think I'll test on Saturday when AF is due! What about you?

@Nmew @Bbutterfly it really is hard, i have no willpower! Got cramping today like i would get just before my period though should still be 4 days away. Who knows... Imagine if we'd all get a bfp this weekend 😂

I'm definitely testing again tomorrow and probably every day now until af due 🤪 I've been feeling hot and bothered and a bit sicky but then that could just be pre af. Does anyone have any other children or are you trying for your first?

@dizzy85 we are ttc our first baby! What about you?

@NicoleR14 I'm going to wait until Sunday when AF is due, by then I will be 16DPO. I just bought some frer on amazon since they are going cheaper right now so at least I will have one of those to use by the time Sunday comes if AF doesnt arrive!

Wouldnt that be the best weekend ever @ArjaD !

@dizzy85 this will be my first, how about you?

I have no real obvious symptoms atm, the odd cramp/twinge here and there is all really.

Hi ladies! Hope you're all ok! This may be TMI so I'm sorry haha. But just been to the loo and noticed very very pale pink discharge! I'm 10dpo, is it too late for implantation? Or is AF just coming a week early 😔

I think implantation can take from 6dpo to 12dpo so I think your in with a chance! I haven't had any implantation bleeding so I'm a bit worried I haven't made it this month! Fingers crossed for you🤞🏼

Have you ever gotten spotting like this in previous cycles? I've heard implantation can be light pink - brown in colour and apparently 9dpo is average for implantation but it can happen from like 6-12 DPO from what I've read. Could be a good sign for you if its not a regular cycle symptom for you. Fingers crossed!

Nope never had it before in any of my cycles, that I've noticed anyway. Plus it would be really unusual for my AF to be this early. I hope I'm not out this month 😫 my boobs are still so painful so I'm keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏼

@NicoleR14 @Nmew this will be my first too. I did get pregnant in may this year but unfortunately I had a mmc at almost 3 months. This is our second month of trying again after that.

@xxchlobo90xx hopefully it's implantation bleeding.

How longs everyone been trying for?

@dizzy85 we've been ttc for 3
Months now! Getting impatient I want my BFP it's lovely to see everyone else get theirs but it leaves you so upset and disheartened I know we haven't been trying for as long as most so are lucky enough! Sorry to hear about your mmc this year x

Fingers crossed for a bfp for you @xxchlobo90xx

Sorry to hear that @dizzy85 all the baby dust to you and everyone else!

We are on our first cycle of actively trying, but i've been tracking my cycles and haven't been using any protection for about 6 months. Started to get a tad worried that after 6 months nothing had happened, so here I am googling like a lunatic and telling perfect strangers about cm and what not lol

@NicoleR14 Thankyou x it was a hard thing to go through but I'm ok now and so ready for my bfp too! I know what you mean especially when you've been putting so much effort into it aswell and then bfn it isn't nice but it will happen, hopefully soon. It took me 6 months to conceive before I'm really hoping it's quicker this time.
Are you taking any conception vitamins or anything?

@Nmew Thankyou x haha that made me laugh it is funny the things we do isn't it, but honestly I think mumsnet is the best thing ever especially if your not telling anyone your trying it really helps having people to talk about these things to, cm and all 😂

@dizzy85 I'm taking pregnacare ore conception vitamins and aspirin I've got lupus and have been told i need to take one every day while ttc and then be put on proper medication when pregnant! Hopefully this time it's quicker for you! Are you taking any pre pregnancy vitamins I've been told it helps but I'm losing hope in them tbh but this is my first cycle after having implant removed so I shouldn't be expecting as much as I am lol x

@NicoleR14 I just had to google what lupus was as I wasn't too sure it sounds painful hope you don't suffer too badly. I'm only taking folic acid at the moment but when I got pregnant before I took the pregnacare conception tablets towards the end and within 2 months of taking them I got pregnant it could be a coincidence but you never know. If it's not worked this month I'm definitely gonna get them again I got the his and hers ones so my OH was taking them too.

@dizzy85 we have a 2 year old little boy already, so trying for baby nr 2. Had no symptoms at allll the first time, so had no clue what to expect. I had the patience then to wait till the first day of expected af to test too. It gets worse as you get older it seems 😂

@ArjaD aw hopefully soon you can give him a little brother or sister ☺️🤞🏻
I didn't have as many symptoms as I'd thought I would the month I got pregnant and I was actually convinced I was out and didn't bother to test until the night before af was due and it was a complete shock to me to be positive.

@dizzy85 snap! In a way it's easier when you have no expectations. It took us 3 month the first time, and this is the 3rd month again we're trying. The waiting is much harder this time round..

Totally agree @dizzy85 I have briefly tried talking about ttc with one or 2 others, but I just end up feeling like a broken record. It's so nice to come on here and talk to people in the same boat!

Ive just been looking into vitamins tonight, thinking for getting folic acid at least, cant do any harm I reckon! Also didnt realise you can get his and hers pregnacare conception tablets, good to know!

If only we could all get that patience back @ArjaD lol, I overthink at the best of times so it shouldnt come as a surprise to me that i'd be super impatient in the tww