11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@Sungirl11 yup, 2dpo today, uggghhhhh hate the wait!

@dizzy85 it deffo does and we're still not sure tbh we've seen quiet a bit about how much affect it'll have I have quiet bad cramps today though but no cm what so ever I did on Saturday night I had alot more than I ever have but nothing since predicted ovulation is this Friday but dh is not up for dtd what so ever so I think I'll leave him be until the panic of this virus wears off I did buy magnesium and zinc vit-d and folic acid to take again as we stopped our pregnacare vitamins last month so maybe give these a go on there own see if they do anything for us lol I think we will take each day as it comes but still quiet upset over it but completely understand where he's coming from, still no af must be a good thing for you though!

@NicoleR14 i think the virus doesn't affect the baby, i have like 8 pregnant friends in same Whatsapp group and they where all worried about it and got told that. Ofc it's all very new, but please don't worry about that.
U know what? This month i let my hubs be too, as i feel i have been too extreme with control... and he kept on coming to me for it hahah MEN!
@ArjaD i totally feel you!!
@dizzy85 i'll just test tomorrow morning, 12dpo, before my hubs arrives from work and before going on holidays. I am quite sure it will be a BFN as i don't feel a thing and never tested ovulation this month.
Hope you do get your good news!!
I would absolutely love if it was BFN as it's fathers day on the 19th in Spain (where i grew up and hubby is from) and it would be a fab surprise for dad and grandad. Oh please haha

Correction from before.... "i would love if it was a BFP!!" Hahah

@sungirl11 I have only read about ladies being pregnant in China with the virus it seems to be affecting them later on in the pregnancy but no evidence to say it is worse or easier to catch being pregnant which was good to know! I tried that tatic before as I feel I am quiet controlling when it comes to ttc and I left dh to it that was last month we dtd twice and then when af arrived his sex drive was through the roof but as soon as af stopped he stopped it was so weird!

@NicoleR14 well that is weird... but who knows? Maybe he was more rested that week or more energetic?
One of my bf got pregnant just after af and with a pull out (not sure how it's called). So nothing impossible!
Try to seduce him haha men are sort of easy sometimes haha

I have said this before but I feel uite lucky my hubby is literally always up for it but never pushy. It's because he's a sailor so away from home a lot though. We've been lucky he's been having shorter than usual trips off late but soon he'll be going away for like 5 months... No wonder he takes every opportunity eh 😂😂😂 I'm going crazy here with symptom spotting. Been crampy since ovulation day and it's annoying. But not much cm or anything.

@sungirl11 it's easier said than done my husband is the most stubborn person I've ever met in my life if I ask him to do something no problem what so ever away he goes if I tell him he needs to do it he refuses to leave the seat not even to eat I have never met anyone like him before you'd think men are sex crazed animals that you can tease and intise not this one even if he is seriously turned on you wouldn't know unless you looked at his trousers! I could tease him all day long and he'd ignore me just to prove a point! @ArjaD your lucky enough he's willing to go at any moment 😂 that's a long time to be away for you must miss him when he leaves I complain about my arsehole but I can't spend a night away from him!

@NicoleR14 awww that's sweet though. You know you've got the right one there! Maybe just ask him to dtd rather than tell him lol 😂😂😂😂 aw I hope you still get to try this week, I'm honestly going mental waiting to test. I think we have maybe 1 more shot at it next month before he sails out so I'm anxious xxx

Hi ladies , I'm currently feeling sorry for myself ... really not feeling myself this evening got really sharp pains in my
Lower tummy and feel like
Pressure down their so I'm not really sure what's going on as I've not had it before .

Generally feeling quite crappy not sure if I'm coming down with something or what ..... how will I get through the TWW I don't know I'm only on day 3 ! Xx

@Donnat89 aw, so sorry you feel bad 😟 it may just be the stress of it all. I'm not feeling cheery either. Fast forward to the end of this wait huh!

@NicoleR14 and i thought my husband was stubborn! Haha
@Donnat89 cheer up! I also sometimes get very low, but we have to grow up!!

Well that was a BFN on the frer this morning... so that is me sort of out this month again haha oh well

Oooohhh I'm even wondering why I am trying for another! Had nothing but tantrums and screaming and throwing himself on the floor this morning 🙄 with no idea why.... The joys!

Af turned up today 😭😭😭

@dizzy85 awww so sorry 😢😢 big hugs! She did the cruel thing and Made you wait 😣😣😣

@Donnat89 (we need to grow up) i mean we need to go up!!  i just read it again and not what i meant.
@dizzy85 mine won't take long!
@ArjaD hahaha love it huh? Wait until it's two of them at the same time!!! Hahahhaah

@ArjaD I deffo do 😂 I do ask him and he complains about it but eventually will but if I tell him it needs to be done during the fertile week he will not do it what so ever😂 I think you have done so much this month I will be surprised if you don't get your bfp!
@sungirl11 my husband is so stubborn it isn't normal I don't think anyone can be as stubborn as him 😂
@dizzy85 so sorry to hear af turned up for you she can be a bitch it doesn't matter how many times she shows up each time it hurts! My hubby told me the other day I can't control everything even as much as I try to control this it'll happens when it happens and not to worry about it I know it's easier said than done but he does have a point I thought I could plan this baby and do everything possible to make sure it happened when I wanted it to nobody told us it was going to be this hard! I suppose like everything it takes time but it still hurts when af shows up and you feel like you could have done more that's why I'm glad we all have each other because we all know what each other is going through when we get to the dreaded tww and waiting patiently for either af or our bfp!

@ArjaD @NicoleR14 @Sungirl11 Thankyou, it is disheartening but at least the wait is over, Mother Nature is a bitch sometimes!
Got everything crossed for you all.

And for everyone else still waiting too🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@NicoleR14 will you be starting another thread as we're nearly on 1000 and it will stop at that? If so don't forget to add me on 😊 I definitely need you all for support, your dh sounds like mine they're right it's all pretty much out of our control apart from trying to time it right, I'm gonna really try to find a new way to chill out and go with the flow coz I'm actually quite stressed out from it all and I looked in the mirror earlier and thought wow I actually look worn out so I think I'm gonna start concentrating on me abit more and hopefully by looking after myself better and de stressing it'll just happen...one day lol

@NicoleR14 oh yes add me too pls when you start a new thread, we're all in this together ❤️❤️

I didn't realise once this one gets to 1000 it stops! I've made a new one and tagged everyone I could think of in it lol

@NicoleR14 what's the name of it as on the app it doesn't show you your tagged only when you get an email, just incase there's anyone forgotten to tag they can look at this and search for it. Yer it's silly it stops at 1000 us woman need far more space than that to chat 😂

@dizzy85 it's called second thread for ttc! This app is terrible letting me post anything!