11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Thank you @xxchlobo90xx

And for you too 😊@xxchlobo90xx

I pray AF doesn't come this month for us! Didn't know trying to get pregnant was going to be this hard 😢

Feeling so emotional I'm an emotional wreck reading about everyone else's bfp's tearing up a little so happy for them all but so sad it might not happen for us this month!

@NicoleR14 I've been an emotional wreck too this time I've actually cried 4 times in the last week and I hardly ever cry. I was secretly clinging on to this as a sign because when I got pregnant before I cried loads in the tww but now because of the heavier spotting I'm not sure. Either way it is definitely hard, but thank god we've got these forums to help us through it all x

Totally agree, I’m so so happy others are getting bfp, but it sure is a strange mix of emotions when you don’t know if you’ll get a bfp too, so glad to have this forum to talk with all you lovely ladies! Especially when we’re all so close in cycles.

Dreaming of BFP for all of us!

Oh @dizzy85 I hope it's not there when you get up I'm worried about the same thing happening to me! @Nmew I'm with you on that going to get some vitamins and start eating healthy I had a Chinese tonight proper fallen off the wagon and now feel even shitter than I did before! @NicoleR14 Totally agree, I've just spent the last 3 hours cleaning to take my mind off things I'm the same very emotional... it is making me think af is coming. @ArjaD I'm still hoping that we are the ones who test late and get our bfp as it does seem recently there's lots of early ones! Stay cool ladies xxxx

I also cleaned all day today @Bbutterfly and I have been terrible with my diet the past day or so, which makes me think AF is on her way. Full on ttc health mode after Christmas for sure! Because if AF comes I will not be able to resist an emotional food fest on Christmas Day lol

I haven't stopped crying in an hour I'm not sure if it's AF coming or signs I'm never this emotional I do get upset from time to time but never have outbursts like this! I'm so great full to have lovely people to talk to about it all it's so hard to deal with when your not telling anyone your ttc!

Oh no @NicoleR14 I just cried too I Defo think af is coming the cow. Sorry you're feeling like this. Yeah it's nice to have everyone on here. Feel like I should go to bed but I know I'll end up just laying there going over my non existent symptoms and worrying about af. I hope you sleep well and feel better in the morning xx

Oh lovelies, it’s so hard isn’t it, such an emotional rollercoaster. And having to put on a normal face to everyone in real life just makes it that much more difficult. I can’t sleep either got some serious anxiety, so decided to get my notebook out and make a plan for the new year, makes me feel like I have some semblance of control over all this ttc stuff.

@NicoleR14
I know exactly how u feel! Everyone is getting there BFP and I'm trying my best. 4 days ago my older sister told me she is pregnant again. I am so so happy for her. She knows we r ttc and she didn't want to hide the news from me because she doesn't want me to think she feels sorry for me. But I know she does... and I do feel sorry for myself too. She told me and guess what. I started crying so I felt terrible.. and she kept telling me it will happen soon I just need to stop worrying. I felt like a really bad sister.. but thankfully she understands. I would probably felt really bad if she had hidden the news from me.. so I know how u feel. I really do.

Morning all, af came last night just before I got in bed 😭😭😭 and is in full force this morning. I am gutted but at least Christmas will soften the sadness. I am a woman on a mission next cycle soon as she's gone I'm gonna start dtd every other day watch out OH lol. Hope your all ok. I have everything crossed that you get your bfps ❤️x

@dizzy85 aw I'm sorry xxx😢 at least you can be on the prosecco for Christmas though!!! Next month will be your month.
I resisted testing this morning, thank God I'm working today. I'm heading out and will try to keep my mind off it (😂😂)

@NicoleR14 aw it is mixed emotions huh 😔 been bursting out crying over nothing either, really not like me. It's just the most stressful and unromantic thing, ttc. Xxx

Oh no @dizzy85 sorry to hear af turned up. I'm 14dpo and just got another bfn when I promised myself I wouldn't test. Literally not even a squinter and af due tomorrow. New year we can start again after enjoying out Christmas x

@dizzy85 so sorry to hear that at least you can have a good drink now I could be doing with a Malibu myself or a nice cocktail take some of the stress away! If my calendar is right you'll be ovulating about 29th-3rd there's still a very good chance for early next month!
@Bbutterfly @ArjaD it is it's so emotional I didn't realise it was going to be as bad as this I had spotting last night it was brownish (sorry for tmi) I don't know if it's the start of AF but I never get spotting before hand but trying to read to much into it!
@Sunshinexx95 I know exactly how you feel me and my sister are both in the same situation she's 30 and I'm 20 she has a 7yo DD and ttc baby #2 she's been ttc for over a year now I'm worried incase one of us fall pregnant before each other id be happy for her of course but heartbroken for myself it's a hard situation but at least she's not hiding it from you that would be so much worse we will have our day!

It will all be worth it in the end, we must believe xxx

Thanks everyone❤️. It came 4 days early aswell 🙄 but on the plus side it will be gone by Christmas now so there's that and I most certainly will be drunk on Christmas Day 😂 and at least these next two weeks will be filled with festive fun stuff so I'll hopefully be ovulating again before I know it.
Really hoping you all get your bfps 🤞🏻xxx

Yes at least now you're not waiting around for it to come in 4 days time @dizzy85.
@ArjaD i can't believe you resisted well done I couldn't help myself. Trust me you'll feel better for it I wish I never. X

@Bbutterfly it really took all my willpower 😂 but i feel like af is so on her way today 😞 all the usual signs. I have 12 massages booked in so I'm labouring away probably chatting to people too much to stay distracted 😂😂

Aw @dizzy85 i will feel just the same if af shows her face in the next few days. But there's always rum 🥃

@Bbutterfly yes I'm grateful it's come now rather than Monday I can relax abit before Christmas now.
@ArjaD haha on my shopping list today I've added captain Morgan spiced rum, baileys and Malibu 😂 not allll for me lol but at least now I can stock up for Christmas time.

Aw I’m so sorry @dizzy85 no AF for me yet but not due on till Sunday. No testing for me today, I’m just so convinced AF is coming I didn’t want to take one and be disappointed again.
@NicoleR14 @ArjaD must be so hard having that so close to home. The worst I’ve had is friends on Facebook announcing. I’ve idealised how I’d announce to everyone, just romantised how lovely it would be to tell my parents and DH on Christmas. But really it doesn’t matter what time of year it is or how I tell people, so long as it happens sometime. Here’s to a lovely Christmas, either way 🍻

I've already planned a wee tshirt for my wee boy saying 'best big brother' to just casually announce it to people.... Obviously I totally jinxed it by planning it all 🙄🙄