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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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ArjaD · 18/12/2019 22:00

@Nmew you said it! 👌 Off to bed so tomorrow will come quicker 😂 night everyone!

Nmew · 18/12/2019 22:20

Goodnight @ArjaD keep us posted!

dizzy85 · 19/12/2019 07:22

Morning ladies. Hope your all ok. Another bfn for me today again. My spotting is still here too so I think it's gonna end in af this time. Does anyone else get regular spotting before af?

Nmew · 19/12/2019 09:19

@dizzy85 my AF typically has some spotting but that same day it will come on full force, 1st days always worst for me. I’m feeling some very AF like cramps today so I have a strong feeling I’m out this month. Will see what the next few days brings us, fingers crossed for you that it’s not AF

ArjaD · 19/12/2019 09:31

Morning all. Bfn for me again this morning at 11dpo. It's driving me up the wall. No spotting here.

ArjaD · 19/12/2019 09:34

Also beginning to introduce my wee boy to the potty so at least that will keep me bysy hahaha. I think I'll TRY not to test till the weekend now but oooh my willpower....

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 10:00

Morning all,
Bfn for me too @ArjaD 13dpo! I swore I wasn't going to test but couldn't help myself and now I just feel worse. I guess there's still time!

dizzy85 · 19/12/2019 10:06

@Nmew @ArjaD @Bbutterfly sorry for the bfns too it sucks doesn't it. I'm also having some cramps aswell.

Nmew · 19/12/2019 10:06

I was super tempted to test but the cramping stopped me in my tracks, Totally convinced AF is on her not so merry way! Lol my only solace is that if it is AF I will eat all the cheese and drink all the wine over Christmas!

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 10:15

@dizzy85 Yes it's so annoying really need to just stop testing I'm also spending a fortune on tests. @Nmew completely agree I'll be straight on the Buck's Fizz first thing Christmas morning!

ArjaD · 19/12/2019 10:22

@Nmew @Bbutterfly @dizzy85 aw really hoping it's not bad news for you all. Surely there must be some babies! 🤞🤞 Was really thinking about how i felt this time around with the first one and I'm pretty sure it was the absence of any symptoms, no AF symptoms either, that got me thinking. Mind, my sister has had 2 babies and her symptoms were totally different each time 🤔

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NicoleR14 · 19/12/2019 16:30

Hi ladies! I caved and tested this morning BFN for me too 13dpo I defo think I'm out this month but my back and belly is still badly cramping no spotting either AF isn't due till Saturday anyway but still so disheartening 😢

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Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 16:46

Hey @NicoleR14 I'm 13dpo and got the same this morning... I really feel like I'm out too but been told by others there is still a chance af is also due Saturday I think we should save testing until then! X

ArjaD · 19/12/2019 16:58

There's still a chance ladies, don't get disheartened! Hcg may just not be detectable yet Xmas Smile. How long are your cycles? I read the longer the cycle, the longer it can take to show a bfp... Mine is around 33 days so I'm trying to stay positive x

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 17:01

Yes mine is 33 days too, I think ha! @ArjaD I am staying positive too, I ovulated late too so maybe for us late ones it's just a delayed detection hopefully! When are you going to test @ArjaD? Or are you waiting for af? X

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 17:01

Sorry for the bold writing I'm still trying to get used to this app 🤣

Nmew · 19/12/2019 17:27

My cycle average is 28 days but can vary from 27-30. My app estimates me due on Sunday and I do normally get pms cramping a few days before AF comes but I won’t totally count myself out till she comes! If she’s a no show on Sunday I’ll test then.

Fingers crossed for all of us!

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NicoleR14 · 19/12/2019 18:00

@Bbutterfly I agree! Not going to test until AF is late actually been to the doctors today and she also recommended to wait because it's too early to test but I thought this was later than most! We'll see hopefully we're not out yet!

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ArjaD · 19/12/2019 18:07

@Bbutterfly who knows lol, i keep telling myself to wait but then i end up testing anyway! So prob won't be able to help myself again tomorrow at 12 dpo. 😂
@NicoleR14 there's still hope, glad the doc confirmed that!

Nmew · 19/12/2019 20:08

I think I’m so used to seeing lots of people getting bfp early in the tww on the forums that it feels like everyone should when I’m sure everyone is so different with when their hcg levels are strong enough to show on a hpt

dizzy85 · 19/12/2019 20:13

My spotting is getting heavier I'm dreading tomorrow morning I just have a feeling af is gonna be here 😭 urgh this sucks!

ArjaD · 19/12/2019 20:50

@Nmew yeah it's true, I've read so many stories about really early and really late bfps.... People are so different!
@dizzy85 oh nooooo, I'm so sorry if it is AF 😢 Hopefully it's just not there in the morning!!!

Nmew · 19/12/2019 21:00

Oh no @dizzy85 I really hope it’s not AF for you.

I think if AF comes I’ll just try to enjoy Christmas and then start fresh. I got a BBT thermometer and think I’ll get on some pregnacare too. Maybe try to take lots of overtime in work for the next tww to distract myself lol

dizzy85 · 19/12/2019 21:13

Thanks ladies hopefully its not.
If it is af then I'm gonna do the same enjoy Christmas and then a fresh start..then I'm on a mission lol..I'm gonna start the pregnacare again too and also put myself on a healthier diet and start exercising more will try anything 😁 But hopefully still in with a chance yet..🤞🏻

xxchlobo90xx · 19/12/2019 21:26

Fingers crossed for some BFP for all you ladies 😘 x

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