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Any 20s TTC first baby? :)

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lovesT · 13/02/2019 16:18

Hello!

I've just turned 24 and me and husband have just started TTC first baby. Thought that it would be good to have a thread going with a few people in a similar situation! Very few of my friends are in the same situation as we got married early and now thinking of babies whilst lots of friends are still at uni :)

Anyone one to join a group discussion with how things are going?

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lovesT · 19/02/2019 15:15

This is great I didn't expect so many to join this post! :)

Sorry I was away over this weekend so have only just checked this post but it's great to see all of your replies!

We stopped using protection about 2/3 months ago as we wanted to ease into the whole TTC thing but then after a little while of not preventing it but also not 'trying' I decided I just want to go for it haha! We're both really in that stage of wanting a baby now so feel it's right to try :) I was on the pill years ago when we first got married but came of it because I didn't like it, so we've just used condoms for the last few years ..

This month (Feb) was our first month TTC but started period a couple of days ago so not this month :/

Hopefully we can support each other anyway! :)

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Ooar · 21/02/2019 10:09

Hi everyone, I’m 24 and ttc my first with DH! Anyone want to compare possible symptoms? Grin

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lovesT · 22/02/2019 11:12

How's everyone doing?

My sister casually started asking me when I'm going to be having babies (she's younger than me and no children but really excited for it!) As we are early days of trying I didn't tell her that we were and then she half jokingly sent me Pregnacare, the before pregnancy one. I have been taking folic acid for a couple of months but wondering does anyone think this is worth trying instead and is anyone else taking it? I've seen mostly good reviews with a few saying it messed up their cycle which I don't want as I'm very regular!

Anyway, hopefully everyone is doing well with the whole TTC thing!? AF is pretty much gone for me now, so will be trying this month :)

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LG0914 · 22/02/2019 20:04

AF due on Wednesday, these few days are going to draaag!!

@Ooar what symptoms are you having?

I'm only taking folic acid at the moment, haven't looked at the others yet

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ckc45d10 · 22/02/2019 21:59

CoQ10 has also been studied for fertility support!

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Boonejii · 23/02/2019 11:11

Hello! I’m 24 TTC #1, in cycle 2. DH is 37 so we have decided to get the ball rolling sooner rather than later.

@lovesT I’m taking pregnacare as advised by my Doctor, I was on 5000mcg folic acid, vit D and b12 injections and have got the OK to try now whilst supplementing. I take an extra 1000mcg b12 and 1200 folic acid on top which covers the other vits I need, so that probably makes a difference but if anything I feel a hell of a lot better for taking it and in better mood to DTD so I guess it’s good for that!

My AF is also just going/gone, snap Grin baby dust to you!

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Ooar · 23/02/2019 23:11

Nearly all my ‘symptoms’ have disappeared now (10dpo) Sad @LG0914!
The only one that has been consistent with me has been very tender breasts but of course that could very well be down to normal hormonal stuff! Had that since O day.
Been having some occasional sharp pains lasting a few seconds kind of where my ovaries are and further over right by the hip. Some days the pain is on the left and some days on the right. Doesn’t sound like anything pregnancy related though judging by what I’ve seen online!

Oh but one thing that has changed a bit has been more wet, white discharge. There’s still not a huge amount but (TMI!) I can sometimes feel it coming out Blush

No sign of any bleeding or anything implantation wise I’m afraid.

What about everybody else?

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Natwal · 23/02/2019 23:22

Hi everything
I'm 27 TTC #1 on 2nd cycle trying.

Not recording anything other than on the clue app which I know isn't accurate.

😊

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 11:12

Good morning! 🙂

I’m 24 TTC #1, OH is 27. fell pregnant first cycle ttc just before Christmas using CB ovulation tests but miscarried NYE, so on my 2nd cycle of ttc for #1 again!

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 11:12

I’m currently 4dpo AF due on Friday

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thumper59 · 24/02/2019 12:19

I got my BFP yesterday at 9DPO so hoping it sticks!

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 12:23

Congratulations @Thumper59 Flowers

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Ajhu12 · 24/02/2019 17:49

Hi everyone! I’m 23 and have been TTC for 1 year.... still waiting for my first BFP! Me and my OH have tried tracking BBT, ovulation tests all sorts and not had any luck so far. AF due in 2 days soooo hoping it doesn’t arrive! Good luck to you all! Xx

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 18:22

@Ajhu12 heya! Corrr I can't imagine going through the stress of this month in month out for a year! Have you tried conceive+ lubricant when doing your BD?

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Ajhu12 · 24/02/2019 18:26

We’re going to invest in it for March if AF arrives this month! It’s tiring and stressful and bloody annoying when everyone else is getting pregnant left right and centre!! Xxx

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 18:33

@Ajhu12 I would, i used it when I got pregnant before MC at Christmas and got BFP straight away... worth a try! Helps keep the OH swimmers doing there thing for longer😂

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Ajhu12 · 24/02/2019 18:40

Did you use the tube or the individual capsules? Deffo going to try! Xx

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 18:50

@Ajhu12 I used the tube when I got my BFP, but this time I'm using the individual capsules, I think I got them off amazon.. so we'll see how they work 👀

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lovesT · 24/02/2019 19:47

Yay @thumper59! Keep us updated 😊 really hope things start and keep going well!

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thumper59 · 24/02/2019 19:58

@JadeSB @lovesT Thankyou so much! I took another test this morning I just can't believe it still! X

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JadeSB · 24/02/2019 20:09

@thumper59 really don't want to burst your bubble but try not to get your hopes up to much as it's such early days! But super pleased for you! Send baby dust to the rest of us! 🥰

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EvenLess · 24/02/2019 20:32

Hi! Joining in if that's ok Smile 29, ttc #1. On cycle 4 and even though it's early days, feeling frustrated as surrounded by pregnant friends/friends with children.

Worried my weight might be a factor- I'm 13 stone and a size 16. Trying to diet but finding it hard at the moment!

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Natwal · 25/02/2019 07:26

Hi @EvenLess Have you tried Slimming World - i started in September and have lost (2lb off) 2stone ! could be worth a try if you think it may help :)

I came off the pill after 10 years in October and this is the second cycle- im really hoping this month is a BFP! anyone struggling not to get really excited?!?!

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JadeSB · 28/02/2019 21:55

@Ajhu12 how did you get on? Did AF arrive? If so.. I'm sorry to hear! Onto the next cycle 😓

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Ajhu12 · 28/02/2019 22:06

Yes she did! But I’ve now ordered conceive plus ready to try this month! Can’t wait to give it a go!

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