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TTC after miscarriage - lucky thread number 3

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Brenna24 · 15/03/2016 18:34

Still hopeing for 3x3 BFPs for this month. Hopefully thread 3 will do that.

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redstrawberries101 · 22/04/2016 12:55

Rooting for you all ladies. Had a tiff with DH last night. Not a tiff as such but sort of had a rant and he got offended. I felt upset and just wanted to cry and took it out on him. It meant we weren't on the level though and didn't dtd. Ovia tells me I'm cd14 today so entered the fertile window today. Wish we managed to get the deed in last night though. We are both out tonight separately so prob won't see each other awake.

On a positive note I've lost half a stone so far on the 5:2 diet! Grin

redstrawberries101 · 22/04/2016 12:56

Rooting for you all ladies. Had a tiff with DH last night. Not a tiff as such but sort of had a rant and he got offended. I felt upset and just wanted to cry and took it out on him. It meant we weren't on the level though and didn't dtd. Ovia tells me I'm cd14 today so entered the fertile window today. Wish we managed to get the deed in last night though. We are both out tonight separately so prob won't see each other awake.

On a positive note I've lost half a stone so far on the 5:2 diet! Grin

Brenna24 · 22/04/2016 13:35

It is hard sometimes Cheeky. I hope you guys patch it up quickly. You are only just entering the fertile window, so plenty of hope left. Well done on the weight loss. I stopped trying with Mum coming and have put everything I lost back on.

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Llindsey85 · 22/04/2016 15:16

Back from a few days away and feeling a lot more positive again! Its amazing what a few days away from internet, TV and Ovulation sticks can do for your mentality...

Was hoping to see some good news on here but nothing yet, I think this group is due some good luck!

HopefulKate1980 · 22/04/2016 15:28

I did exactly the same thing Lindsey

I got my bloody period on Monday after getting that faint positive! I was so upset at the start of the week but feeling more optimistic now. We only DTD three times right at the start of my fertile window but I think that all the painkillers I was on for my back might have delayed ovulation, so I guess that is what threw us off.

Anyway this month, we are going to DTD every day starting from tomorrow. No more booze, healthy eating, no OPKs, stressy symptom spotting. I am going to try a completely different approach and see where we get to.

xx

jpeg28 · 22/04/2016 17:08

So useful to read all the temping stuff... Today my temp dipped and then af arrived. Was really upset especially as I had a faint positive on Saturday but also glad that my body is finally restarting! Now I can fully track and know what's going on.

I hope Cheeky that faint line turns into a dark one in a few days and amazing on losing half a stone! I need to do that!!

redstrawberries101 · 22/04/2016 17:54

Thanks jpeg, brings me to a normal bmi again as I had crept out so pleased with that Smile not me with the faint positive though!

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redstrawberries101 · 22/04/2016 18:52

I need to take a step back too Sad

Brenna24 · 22/04/2016 18:52

Bummer Kate and Mrs.

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InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 22/04/2016 19:35

Oh no Mrs and Kate. I hope you have better luck this cycle

LuckyinOctober · 22/04/2016 20:10

BFN for me today and a tiny amount of brown spotting. I have some back ache but no proper cramps, temp was 36.67 this morning so that was a dip relatively but not by much. Inconclusive - will test again tomorrow if no AF since I don't have Brenna's patience - good luck for testing tomorrow and sorry Mrs and Kate.

jpeg28 · 22/04/2016 20:10

Good idea Mrs and Kate... I'll start that diet tomorrow... Just been taken out for dinner by my OH... I was a bit down about not being pregnant, I ate sooooo much and had a cocktail and it's only just 8pm! Fresh start and relaxed TTC starts tomorrow!

Brenna24 · 22/04/2016 20:19

I hope it was just too early Lucky. I think the years of science experiments must have given me some patience - to go with all the stress they normally cause. I nearly cracked this morning though, only the thought of a nice day together tomorrow stopped me.

Jpeg that sounds like a great evening out.

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Brenna24 · 22/04/2016 22:46

I have pricked out and potted up 80 cabbage seedlings while listening to The Archers, then taken DDog to the beach for a walk with a friend. I have definitely reached middle age. It has been a fun, relaxing and productive evening and DDog was in bed and snoring less than 10 minutes after we got back in.

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AmyB1986 · 23/04/2016 08:48

Morning all hope you're all ok.

This morning I got up and went for a wee, I'm spotting but it doesn't seem to be coming from the usual area, it's coming from my urinary tract and only when I've finished weeing so looks like my uti is still there but even worse now! Really fed up!
Me and brother went out at midnight last night as its my nanas 70th bday today, so we stuck banners and streamers all over her bungalow. Tied balloons all over her car and in the trees and bird bath on her garden so when she opens the curtains today that's what she'll see. Hope she doesn't get mad about al the glittery things everywhere.

Hope you all have a good day what ever you're doing today xx

Brenna24 · 23/04/2016 09:14

I hope your Nana loves the stuff. It is a lovely idea.

BFN this morning but my temps are still up - 36.42 this morning. I am now either 17dpo or 19dpo depending on whether you believe me or FF and my normal is a 15 day luteal phase.

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redstrawberries101 · 23/04/2016 09:42

How sweet Amy. I bet she will love it! Sorry to hear that Brenna ..

InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 23/04/2016 11:09

Amazing Amy, I hope she loves it!

BFN for me too. Tried to squint and convince myself there was a line but only if I convince myself there is. 12dpo, although I'm wondering if I ovulated a day or 2 later. Had a positive opk 2 days after ewcm dried up. AF is due on Monday and only have 2 tests left so holding out for missed period before testing again

jpeg28 · 23/04/2016 11:37

That's so nice of you Amy I hope she loves it!

Sorry for the BFNs.... Fingers crossed for you over the next few days X

Brenna24 · 23/04/2016 12:53

I bought a Superdrug early and resteted my FMU (which I had saved - I am slowly turning crazy).

TTC after miscarriage - lucky thread number 3
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HopefulKate1980 · 23/04/2016 12:57

Yeah!! Congratulations!! That is a positive if ever I've seen one!!

jpeg28 · 23/04/2016 13:02

Amazing! Congratulations Brenna!

redstrawberries101 · 23/04/2016 13:15

Massive massive congratulations brenna!!!

InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 23/04/2016 14:50

Oh wow that's a clear positive! Congratulations & good luck Brenna

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