TTC after miscarriage - new thread

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I just spotted that the old thread was now closed to new messages so thought I'd start another. The old thread for reference: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2457787-TTC-1-after-miscarriage-looking-for-some-buddies

Lucky im on cd10 at the min. Was spotting up until yesterday but not had any today. CM looks quite ew but could also be sticky and the spotting was mixed in with this. Temps are stable, had a small rise the last two days and a dip again this morning. If it is early ov me and DH have DTD every night so not missed it but I don't want to ov and have a short cycle. Had a few cramps this morning but nothing mega like last month. Sex drive it mad, have the horn all the time and want to jump DH which is making him a bit nervous.
I'm hoping it's just a small false surge and I'll ov next week not this week.

Loki my opk's aren't very clear was considering buying the dual indicators but opted for the saliva microscope instead and the ic opk's. Wonder what's going on with us? We both seem to be having weird ov symptoms at the min.

Brenna 3 3's sounds like a plan!! This thread is having some good luck recently x

Haha paco my dh is the same! Amy we are definitely experiencing some weirdness aren't we?! Dh experienced an allergic reaction to Cocodemol last week which bought him out in sores every where including you know where so he is a little reluctant to dtd incase it hurts. Bit frustrating but I guess I have to just be patient.

That doesn't quite look dark enough to me Amy I have (hopefully) attached a picture of mine frm december with a good 2 day surge.

I hope your DH's bits recover quickly Loki

Brenna I don't think they're quite dark enough either. The one I just did now is far darker than this morning and yesterday but still not positive, I think it's building up and will probably be positive in the next couple of days. Getting our bd on as much as poss and hopefully my saliva microscope will come soon so I can check my ferns for oestrogen surging too.
Cervix is high and medium soft and medium open too.

Loki hope your husbands Crown Jewels make a full recovery soon. Poor bloke must be feeling awful! Reactions are horrible!

Amy I can't wait to hear if your saliva microscope is any good! I'm not in to opks or temping but a microscope is exactly the kind of nerdy thing I can get excited about!

Loki your poor DH! Hope he has a speedy recovery

I'm CD26 of WTF cycle and I've got heavy spotting (panty liner needed). I got my first BFN on CD15 and my clearblue digital OV sticks are giving me flashing smileys so I assume this is OV bleeding but I've never had it this heavy before. Anyone else had this?

Never had ovulation bleeding before but I've heard it can happen!

I'm 9dpo and had two tiny spots of red blood earlier. Af isn't due until Tuesday. I hope the mc hasn't messed up my cycle. Feel a bit cramp and boobs are sore. Feel like it's all messing with my head.

Well we got a bit of a surprise at the scan on Wednesday- a healthy little bean with heartbeat! Measuring about 6 weeks- it had changed so much in a week!

Can't quite believe it!

Wonderful news, Snowy! Thrilled for you

Great news snowy so pleased for you

Fantastic news Snowy. I hope everything keeps going well.

I am really fed up listening to my own breathing ratlling and crackling away. I am calling in sick tomorrow from work and I hope that that will sort me out. We still managed to DTD Sunday, Monday and Wednesday (probably ovulated tuesday), so now I just have to hope that I wasn't so ill as to kill all DH's swimmers on their journey with the termperatures I have had.

Hi everyone hope you've all had a good day.

Snow great news about the scan!

Mimi I had heavy ov bleeding needed a pantry liner and it was bright red but tailed off to brown the two following days.

Insufficiently microscope came this afternoon. Will use it in the morning and let you know if it's any good. Looks pretty good, I did try it out but because I'd eaten it was just a blob of spit on the lens. You have to use it before you eat or drink anything in the morning.

Brenna hope you feel better soon xx

congrats fedup great news

Yay Snowberry that is wonderful news!

Amazing news Snowberry fingers crossed for a healthy and uneventful pregnancy.

I spoke to the doctor yesterday and the receptionist said I am "only a little bit pregnant" which was hugely deflating and has made me more nervous than I already was.

Due to my mc and haemorrhage I'll be offered a scan week of 21st March when I should be just over 6 weeks. It feels so far away and all so uncertain.

Good luck on your 2ww's everyone.

You can't be 'a little bit' pregnant. You either are, or you are not. You are!!!!! You are going to spend the next few months being terrified, but, no matter what, you are pregnant and you should feel happy and excited. So, stfu stupid receptionist! If and when it happens for me, any stupid comments like that will result in loki transforming into The Hulk

That sounds brilliant Loki!

I'm usually such a carefree and strong person but this feeling of it all being out of my hands isn't one I'm loving!

Good luck for your scan Mrs let us know how you get on.

FFS FedUp you are pregnant. Stupid woman needs a slap with a frying pan for that one.

Everything crossed for you Mrs.

I am really sorry the news wasn't better Mrs. Hopefully you are just a bit late this month (I am normally about CD15 or 16 before I ovulate and CD18 this month). They started you off on a lower dose of CLomid, didn't they? Maybe if it doesn't happen this month then the next dose up will do it next month. Everything crossed for you.

Afternoon all...

Fedup bugger the receptionist, you're pregnant not a 'little bit' pregnant that's just stupid!

Mrs sorry about your news. My friend was the same she had no dominant follicle on her first cycle of clomid 50 but when it was upped to 100 the following cycle she ovulated and fell pregnant straight the way. She was about to give up but is really glad she didn't. Hopefully with a higher dose it will change.

Insufficiently I used my saliva microscope this morning. It's really good. I have partial ferning which means I'm approaching ovulation and I'm probably fertile now. Far better than using opk's, they only tell if you're going to ovulate not if you're fertile before hand.

I feel utterly exhausted today. I was fine until 10am when it just felt like the life had been sucked out of me. The chef at work came and gave me a coffee as I was doing paperwork in the office and said I looked a bit off colour. My friend has just walked in and said the same thing just now.

Also noticed after having a shower how many grey hairs have suddenly sprouted out of my head! I had one of two but now they're covering everywhere

I started getting my first couple in this past 6 months too Amy. I can't decide if my DH or Rowan (the baby I lost) was the one responsible.