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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 12/01/2016 13:25

I just spotted that the old thread was now closed to new messages so thought I'd start another. The old thread for reference: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2457787-TTC-1-after-miscarriage-looking-for-some-buddies

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AmyB1986 · 08/03/2016 17:43

Jodie temping is the only accurate way to know you've ovulated, the other things are just to confirm it. If you do your temp now it'll be high and dip again before af as the progesterone drops so does your temp, but it can indicate pregnancy too because progesterone hangs around in pregnancy.

This ferning microscope looks pretty good too. Don't know if anyone else has or is using one? Your saliva makes fern patterns during your fertile time with the rise of estrogen before ov. Can be quite good to know when you're most fertile with out having to rely on an app to tell you.

jodiebee664 · 08/03/2016 18:18

Thanks amy I hope the thermometer arrives soon now so I can start trying it out!

Let me know how you get on with the saliva testing too - might give that a go as well!

somethingfromnothing · 08/03/2016 18:23

congratulations elderberries! I'm 7dpo which now means I'm entering my crazy hormonal am/am I not pregnant stage. I hate the second week of the 2ww. Getting some pain in my side which worries me as it's the same one I had my ectopic on. Really hoping I've ovulated on other side.

Think I may temp next month once af arrived

JoMalones · 08/03/2016 18:48

Massive congratulations Elderberries Xx

Loki17 · 08/03/2016 18:51

Sending sticky thoughts and congratulations to you, elderberries Flowers

LuckyinOctober · 08/03/2016 19:25

Congratulations Elderberries, so happy to read your news. After everything you've gone through to get here, you deserve a sticky bean this time.

So update from me, I got a positive OPK yesterday, and think OV was this morning as I had pain then and now feel my surging hormones are settling down for the luteal phase. I've been taking red clover tea and extra b and c vitamins this cycle to help my luteal phase, so now curious to see whether or not there's any shift. I feel like we have a fair shot this month as we've managed to dtd on the 3 peak days in my fertile window. While Ovia changed it 4 times in total, as it's now based on the positive OPK and temp dip and rise coinciding it seems believable now. Finally.

Fedupithink · 08/03/2016 20:18

Ok, so I couldn't wait until Thursday so I tested when I got home. I'm pregnant!

I cannot believe it. 2-3 weeks according to the clear blue digital but about 4.2 according to LMP.

I'm a mixture of happy and terrified.

AmyB1986 · 08/03/2016 20:32

Fedup congratulations!! Oooh this is a good week for bfps xx

Pacothepidgeon · 08/03/2016 20:52

Great news congrats fedup! Smile

Loki17 · 08/03/2016 21:15

Congratulations fedup! Brilliant news! Flowers

Fedupithink · 08/03/2016 21:46

Thanks everyone, I think I'm in shock.

All I can think about is how early it is and that I should have waited to test.

I think this is going to be an anxious 9 months.

MimiDoddrioni · 08/03/2016 22:17

Congratulations Fedup Thanks

LuckyinOctober · 08/03/2016 22:42

Congrats fed up, sounds like a really clear BFP that has to be a good start!

Brenna24 · 08/03/2016 23:20

Congratulations FedUp. Sticky bean thought to you too.

This has been a great week.

HopefulKate1980 · 08/03/2016 23:55

Biggest congrats Fedup and elderberries!!! Fantastic news. Hope it all goes smoothly and brilliantly xx

Fedupithink · 09/03/2016 07:11

Thanks everyone, I still can't believe it.

I might lurk here for a little while if nobody minds?

I was told after my mc and haemorrhage that I would get an early scan at about 7/8 weeks but that seems like a lifetime away right now.

Sending those of you in your 2ww lots of luck, these things do come in threes!

InsufficientlyCaffeinated · 09/03/2016 08:37

Congratulations Fedup! Good luck, I hope you have a happy, uneventful pregnancy.
Of course you're welcome to hang around here for as long as you feel you need to. I understand how nervous you must feel. Do allow yourself to believe all will go well though, statistics are in your favour

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Brenna24 · 09/03/2016 16:58

Each one feels a bit like a group victory Grin. If it comes in 3s can we have 3 3s this month? That would be good.

AmyB1986 · 09/03/2016 17:33

Hi everyone, I think I might have ovulated really early. Yesterday's opk's are positive I think. Attached a pic. Opinions please? Positive or negative?

TTC after miscarriage - new thread
AmyB1986 · 09/03/2016 17:38

Sorry that pic is rubbish they all look neg on that but in real life the second one down looks positive but the line is skinny not fat like the control line if you know what I mean, they're all Defo neg today

JoMalones · 09/03/2016 19:37

Congratulations fedup!

LuckyinOctober · 09/03/2016 19:45

Amy your second one down looks possible, but I'd guess it might reflect the smaller LH surge others were suggesting might be going on, and you might still have a "proper" surge later in the month? What cycle day are you on now? What are your other ovulation cues doing? (temps, libido, mood and so on?)

Brenna agree, 3 3's this month sounds great! 2 of us getting BFPs in a week is such good going for us as a group though isn't it?

Loki17 · 09/03/2016 20:01

I'm on cd8 and getting ewcm. So confused. Sil1 says that the birth of her dd resulted in early ovulation so I wonder if it is possible? No lh surge detected. I've shelled out for the clear blue digitals. Good job we are smepping this month!

Pacothepidgeon · 09/03/2016 20:05

Good luck getting your smep on loki Smile still waiting for af then will be smeping next month. Oddly DH does not have a problem with the smep but freaks out at other scientific ttc info!

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