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Mothers of Angel Babies United - wishing for, some of us pg with and some of us holding our Rainbow babies

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Bluetinkerbell · 18/10/2011 22:53

Here we go again! Grin
lots of love to all our angel babies! xxx

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Bluetinkerbell · 24/12/2011 12:49

Wishing all you lovely ladies and your families and our angels a peaceful Christmas! Lots of love x

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AngelGeorgie · 24/12/2011 23:12

Have a great one all of you lovelies & thinking of all our angels watching over us all xxxxxxxWinkWinkGrin

AugustMoon · 25/12/2011 01:12

Merry Christmas ladies.
Just checking in as im awake, Father Christmas has just visited our house and eaten half a mince pie and scattered reindeer food all over the carpet, the messy b***! Wink
Hope you all have a peaceful day with loved ones.
Love to all our Angel babies, always missed, never forgotten.
Xx

spilttheteaagain · 25/12/2011 11:01

Merry Christmas to us all and to all our amazing children. Wishing you all a very gentle day xx

Lots of tears here last night. It's just another day.

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 25/12/2011 15:42

Merry Christmas to all, especially to the angel babies.

Tears here today too, but am feeling a bit better now. DH is busy building Lego (he's 31!) so seems happy. I was unreasonably pissed off to hear via FIL that 'there had been tears there too' - that means either MIL or SIL or both. She's MY BABY, FFS I know this is unreasonable! Blush

blizy · 25/12/2011 17:29

Hi girls, hope you are all beating up. Today hasn't been as bad as I expected, although there has been many a tear shed here too. I have candles dancing away for all our babies.

Too - I feel your pain, my sil has plastered things all over his fb about zoe- playing the sympathy and attention cards!

blizy · 25/12/2011 17:41

Bearing up Blush stupid auto correctGrin

MelMal · 26/12/2011 18:39

Hi girls, I think it's fair to say we survived it! Hope it was peaceful for all x

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 26/12/2011 20:37

Thanks Blizy - am ashamed of myself but can't help feeling like that, even though it is not at all unreasonable for Thea's grandmother and aunt to be upset that she's not here. It's just that they both cry so easily and it makes me feel like a cold-hearted bitch because I hate crying in front of people other than DH. Plastering stuff all over FB would have made me furious, poor you! Thank you for lighting candles for all the angel babies.

Mel, it was peaceful, thanks! We insisted on staying home by ourselves - first time we haven't gone to a parental home - and it really did help. No pressure (apart from the one phonecall and a Skype session), got up when we pleased, ate what and when we wanted, lay about doing nothing. Grin Bean even kicked DH for the third time during Downton! She usually freezes the instant his hand touches my tummy, even if she was previously dancing the fandango, but yesterday she decided to play ball. It was a Christmas miracle...Xmas Grin

fanjodisfunction · 28/12/2011 13:07

hello ladies

I had a great christmas, lots of lovely goodies from my wonderful hubbie, he knows me so well, we also had a party on boxing day in our new flat and lots of family and friends came over it was a great day. Yesterday we spent the day on the train going to Twickenham, to watch Harlequins vs Saracens. We love the rugby it was brilliant.

I am hoping for a quiet day today, supposed to go to the pub tonight to watch the old firm, but not sure I want to go now, but I shall see how I am feeling tonight.

I hope you all had a great christmas time. Now that christmas is over all I can think about is getting pg. I think its really come apon me with avengence. I sent out a christmas wish for us all who are waiting for that BFP, I so hope it happens for us this year.

Countmyblessings · 28/12/2011 16:45

Hi all - been away for a while I think although the support is great I'm finding this quite painful!
My due date today and so feeling really low and tearful!
Still not pregnant so feel double crap!!!!!!
All the best to everyone else!

blizy · 28/12/2011 17:18

count hugs to you. xxx

fan glad you had a good day yesterday. I am an old firm widow tonight, I really cant be assed going out to watch it, way to wet and windy out there for my liking!

fanjodisfunction · 28/12/2011 19:45

count be gentle to yourself and grieve in your own way.

blizy DH has just gone out, so im sitting down watching the tudors (never seen it' its quite rauchey isnt it!) and some christmas choccies.

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 28/12/2011 20:30

Bloody dog has eaten all my Christmas choc, Fan - enjoy yours! It's so windy the living room door blew open while we were out and dog went foraging in the bedroom and got into the Thorntons.

Count, thinking of you. I hope you get through the day as calmly as possible, and FX for a BFP for you (and everyone else still waiting!) next time.

Back to work tomorrow, boo! Only for 2 days, though, so not too bad.

AugustMoon · 28/12/2011 22:36

Thinking of you count x

razzdazz · 29/12/2011 09:19

Morning everyone.
Really hope that you all had at least some moments of happiness and fun this christmas.
It has been very hectic in the house of razz, what with daddys return, xmas and dd always struggles a bit without the structure of school.
fan you really sound like you had a lovely time, how fab to have held your first party in your new home.......rugby fans reside in our house too Xmas Grin
too what a naughty doggy, scoffing all those chocs, get thyself back down to thorntons sharpish!!!
count really hope you are finding your own ways to get through and that you have some good support in RL

2012 is almost upon us and I wish with all my heart for good things for us all.

CheeseandGherkins · 29/12/2011 12:12

Hope you all had a peaceful and happy Christmas. We saw Scarlett on Christmas day and it was very mild weather wise, busy there too. We took her some flowers and other bits and it was "nice".

Christmas went well, better than expected. Feeling ok at the moment other than not being able to breathe! Due to her being breech I think and a low iron, 8.5 so am taking liquid iron now.

Hope you're all doing well xx

AngelGeorgie · 29/12/2011 15:02

Glad you ve all had a good Xmas. We ve just returned from my parents where we had a lovely time.bonus; we ve got out of a meal with mil from he'll tonight. !!! Count hugs to u xxx
Many thoughts of our angel babies & our Georgie xxx

AugustMoon · 29/12/2011 23:03

Hi girls. We got through Xmas! It was actually quite nice. We also visited Jacob, took a little tree ad lit a candle. Then walked the puppy in the woods near the church. It helps to do something physical even though I'm never sure how to feel or what to do when we go there.
I've been panicking all over xmas about not having any pg symptoms so went for a private scan today and saw there IS a baby! And a tiny heartbeat. Feel quite positive now but think it will be short-lived. I don't think I fully grasped before how anxious I would feel being pg, and how impatient!
Happy New Year to all of you. I hope 2012 brings you all you could wish for x

AngelGeorgie · 30/12/2011 09:22

Congrats Augustmoon fab news Grin
Try & enjoy this stage a little before worrying again!!!! ( though I know how difficult that is!!!)

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 30/12/2011 11:05

August, how lovely! A late Christmas present. I hope you manage to hang on to the positivity for a bit. The EPU MW told me that scans reassured women in our position for about a fortnight and then they started worrying again. Are you going to get any more before 12 weeks? They gave me two just for reassurance, one at 7 weeks and one at 9.

Cheese, hope your iron levels improve. Eat lots of red meat! Unless you're a veggie, in which case eat lots of broccoli and spinach.

Razz, sounds like you had a very happy Christmas with DH back again. Angel, glad you had a lovely time too. How is Phoebe?

I had a lovely dream last night about bringing Bean home from the hospital. It is the first positive dream I've had! DH is having nightmares about me/Bean/both of us dying Sad. Then I woke up and my bump felt strangely solid and Bean was lying very still and I got a bit scared. I think she has maybe gone head-down and back to front, whereas she usually prefers to be breech. Anyway, she is moving again now and I have calmed down Blush.

In other news, the hospital postponed the appt to discuss my/Thea's care, so it is now not until Jan 16th. This is because the senior MW decided it might be a good idea to bring the investigating officer along to the meeting. Why she didn't think of that in the first place, I don't know. Angry

MelMal · 31/12/2011 10:49

One day at a time August. time does drag but do this pregnancy in bite size chunks x

fanjodisfunction · 31/12/2011 15:54

and so it starts, after AF came back normally this month. I now have started the peeing on ov sticks that I hope will not last that long. I should have started peeing on those sticks earlier in the week, but I did the first one yesterday on CD14 and it was a pale line, so I thought I would be dark pink today, but no the line is not there. So i am now wondering if i ov'd yesterday. I was very horny yesterday and that is usually a sign. I will carry on testing till I reach CD20 probably. I hope I ov'd yesterday as i wil be very annoyed if I missed it this month. Oh well I cant get to dispondent, I have at least made sure we covered this week.

I keep forgetting that today is new years eve, we dont usually celebrate the coming of the new year, Im not one to wish any time away and sometimes find it odd that people wish the year away. This year has obvisously been the hardest I have ever had but that doesnt mean I hoped it never happened. I had a baby a beautiful baby and I dont want to wish the year away and forget her. 2011 will always be her year. I do wish that this year I will become pregnant again, I so desire it, as I know you ladies understand this pain.

august so glad you got to see your little bean. As mel says take it all in little chucks.

too i hope this next meeting helps you have some peace, its terrible that they seam to be so flipent with your feelings, its not right. Who was it on here who said the doctors only seam interested in us when we are pregnant or have had a live baby, not when our baby had been taken from us, then we seam to be pushed aside.

blue blizy hows it going? what CD are you on?

Bluetinkerbell · 31/12/2011 17:26

Hi all! I'm on CD 24 and had my egg on the CBFM this morning! Cue me getting back to bed and jumping DH :) quietly as my parents and brother and boyfriend are visiting

Typing on my phone so wishing you all what we desire and long for in the coming year x will properly catch up when guests have gone

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blizy · 31/12/2011 17:43

Fan cd1 for me Sad. I know why you mean about wishing the year away. We are going to a friends party, I would rather stay in bed. Moving on to next year feels like we are leaving Zoe behind, I hate all of the net year new start nonsense and I just know people are going to be saying that tonight.