Freak out room for those newly updiffed after MC to hold hands and support each other... Part IV

[MummyAbroad]

Newly pregnant after miscarriage? Here is a nice place to hang out and swap symptoms and worries until you are brave enough to sign up to the grads thread.

Here is a link to the old thread: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1165866-Freak-out-room-for-those-newly-updiffed-after-MC-to-hold-hands-and-support-each-other-Part-III/AllOnOnePage#24507574

Yay mummya fab fab news!!!

Happy birthday tunnocks !!!

knitter everything crossed for the good news to keep coming today, I hope you are coping with the wait. Thinking of you xx

mummya great news so pleased for you.

tunnocks happy birthday

knitter hope you get your results today

wiw i'm keeping everything crossed for your scan. i'm sure it'll be fine.

Hooray, Hooray mummya (I tried to stay up but failed...). And a HUGE happy birthday tunnocks - have an iced bun from me!

Fx again today for knitter - everything crossed in fact.

Waves to everyone and tells wiw not to worry - I dashed off to have a scan due to sudden lack of symptoms last week and all was fine. I think they thought I was a little crazy (in a nice way) at the Clinic.

Happy birthday tunnocks!

Knitter hope you hear this morning, fingers still crossed.

Please get the haddock back out as I have been consulting doctor google. No good ever comes from that! Still worried about feeling less pregnant, cm has reduced along with boobs which come and go a bit. No ms yet. But plenty of you have been symptom free with no probs so trying tothink positive!
Have booked private scan as nhs says no bleeding, no need. In ten days time. Will be almost 8 weeks then so hopefully it will be goodnews and I can tell people. Waiting is very hard!

Wonderful scan news mummya

Happy birthday tunnocks how's the stomach? I hope you get to eat some cake today!

knitter am hoping for you again today.

yey for mummya great news!

Good luck today knitter xxx
good luck to any up coming scanners too!

Happy birthday tunnocks!

wiw I described to them the pain I have and the midwife pressed on the front of my pelvis. I yelped and nearly leapt off the bed and she just said, yes,that's spd!

ps nearly time for a new thread. Who's turn is it to do the honours?

eeeeouch wombat! Can they give you any exercises / suggestions to stop it getting any worse...?

Happy birthday tunnocks - does that mean we all get to have iced buns or just you? Any excuse for me.....

Thank you all for the grandiose fish-slapping and words of reassurance. Why is it so darn easy to dole out words of wisdom and advice to others yet so hard to listen to them yourself ......

Oops - have just used up another thread and not started the new one yet.....

are we still on this thread?!

Happy birthday Tunnocks - enjoy your last baby-free birthday...! Loving the birthday cake..

A big sign of relief and pat on the back to MummyA. So happy for you - see, we told you you got the best medical care and are "sorted"!!

Woke up this AM in a panic after I dreamt I MC-ed. Prodded boobs with gusto and then panicked as I don't seem to have many (or any) other pg symptoms. How can I have had an early scan only a few days ago and now be neurotic already??? Kat - I feel exactly the same as you; the lack of MS is seriously worrying me. I almost think that if I stop thinking / worrying about my developing bean, little bean will "forget" to develop and will just disappear. Kat - I am 6+5 so we must be at the same stage....

Ooh (just read back) - Wombat - will def email you if I go on either Dubai trip... It also occurred to me in the shower this AM that I can ask you for a recommendation for an emergency doc if I, erm, miscarry in Dubai... . I agree too that Barasti Bar is fab (at sundown!) as is Bar 44 at the Grosvenor (was there is Jan and took great pleasure in "hooker spotting" with my colleague after dinner!)

lara i'm 6+2 or 3 and have horrid dreams routinely no sickness just knackered. No scan for at least 2 wks. So know how you feel. ((hugs))

happy birthday tunnocks and yay for gymnast mummyabean

Lack of ms means nothing. At all. 75% of people get it. That means 25% of people DON'T. Including me, with twins! I know how you feel as I felt exactly the same and versions 1 and 2 of this thread are probably packed with me worrying about ms, but several people (notably owl as I recall) applied the haddock to me a number of times. It's better to focus your energies on the fact that the scans were good, rather than worring about the lack of a symptom that not everyone gets anyway.

I think it's quite funny that so many of us here are worrying about not having ms, and the other half are worrying about having it so badly. There's nothing easy or enjoyable about this being pg after mc stuff, is there! :)

and happy birthday tunnocks

mamap drooling at your menu. Look out for us invading you :)

Now, somebody HAS to set up a new thread. I'm not doing the honours as I did the first two, so in Brian's absence someone else needs to seize control :)

A quick and sad update from me...

I've chased the hospital again and they still didn't have the results through... So they offered to phone the lab and get back to me, which they just did. Not good news. My bean has Down's Syndrome.

My next steps are to go and see the doctor at the Foetal Medicine Unit tomorrow to have a termination approved and then time/date booked.

Thank you so much for your care and support over my pregnancy and in particular this last, very difficult, week. It has meant so much to me.

May you all have the most wonderful babies.

Wednesday's list

Nickster 23+3 EDD 7/8/11
Orange 19+3 EDD 4/9/11 next scan 20/4/11
Wombat33 18+4 EDD 10/09/11 next scan 27/4/11
Daisybell 17+6 EDD 14/09/11
Pinkfondantfancy 16+2 EDD 25/09/11
Tiggersreturn (TTT) 16+1 EDD 26/09/11 next scan 10/5/11
mamapower 16+0 EDD 28/9/11
DoubleDiffedDachs 14+5 EDD 7/10/11
Emoo 14+5 EDD 7/10/11 next scan 19/5/11
Lovemysleep 14+1 EDD 11/10/11
Tunnocksteacake 12+2 EDD 24/10/11 next scan 20/04/11
Onions 11+6 EDD 27/10/11 First Scan 20/04/11!
Velvetcu 11+5 EDD 30/10/11
IreneHeron 11+2 EDD 26/10/11
MummyAbroad 10+5 EDD 4/11/11
CEP 10+4 EDD 5/11/11
Hils74 10+0 EDD 8/11/11
Katherine2008 9+6 EDD 9/11/11
Haffertee 9+3 EDD 14/11/11
delilahbelle 8+6 EDD 22/11/11
Mattsmama 8+6 EDD 17/11/11
Ninunina: 8+2 EDD 21/11/11 next scan 12/5/2011
wombatinwaiting: 7+6 EDD 26/11/11 first scan on 17/04/11
Collie 7+5 EDD 25/11/11
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy 7+4 EDD 26/11/11 first scan 19/4/11
LaraMi 6+5 EDD 2/12/11 Next scan - 18/05/11

Thinking of.... hairy; ladybee; digi; A&R; barbie; harassed; MumTum; Knitter

Oh Knitter . I'm so, so sorry :(

Huge hugs to you and your family; I hope that the next few days, weeks and months are as bearable as they can be xxx

knitter I am crying buckets for you, I am so sorry that its bad news. I totally understand your decision to terminate and I would do the same, but its so so unfair that this should happen to you. Sorry I dont have anything more comforting to say, much love xxx

Knitter - I am speechless and utterly saddened. I can't put into words how much I am thinking of you and am sending the biggest hug from Streatham Hill to Southfields. I can't find the words to express how I feel right now. Keep strong.

Brief note: new thread is now operational.

New thread here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/1193310-Freak-out-room-for-those-newly-updiffed-after-mc-Part-V

knitter totally distraught on your behalf. Life is crap and I am so sorry that you are going through this. I wish I could take away just a little of the pain. xxx

knitter I'm so sorry I know there's nothing we can say, but we are all thinking of you and you know where we are. It is so unfair that this has happened. I hope you manage to get through the next few days ok. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Huge hugs knitter. I'm so sorry. Xxx