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Due March 2010 - "Hello Baby... Goodbye Pelvic Floor"

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Arcadie · 20/01/2010 12:27

Welcome to the March Preggos. Here's hoping we see nearly 1000 posts before anyone pops!

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BulletProofMum · 25/01/2010 17:05

P&P - how exciting!

pureeandpearls · 25/01/2010 17:08

Ta BPM- very impressed with your reading. I just finished A Million Pieces (about drug rehab.) Nearly killed me so currently skipping through Mummy Said the F word Might as well start as I mean to go on....

re: HIP.My MW thrust form in my hand at 25 week appt and I was reminded today about it at hospital....one thing they got right!!

mumbot · 25/01/2010 17:10

puree OMG how exciting, how come you're having an induction?

Baby checked today and midwife is pretty sure he's breech but have scan booked next week to check

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annamama · 25/01/2010 17:19

Puree - why induction, sorry I can't remember? Wow that's pretty soon!

Manda - I meant are you a vampire too?, as in as well as undead. Not as in I'm a vampire too. Zombie might be it though. What was that film called, 33 weeks later...? My DH is currently reading number 3 Stieg Larsson (in english) but it was bought for him in Sweden.

BPM - awww... I hope at least some of the things on your list get unchecked soon.

Lisba - Anna is a lovely name...

swingsofglory · 25/01/2010 19:02

annamamma think you mean 28 days / or the sequel 28 weeks later - pretty sure they were about zombies.

P&P - wow, that's like soon! Is it to do with your SPD?

BPM sorry about unsympathetic DH - if only there was a cream for that...

I have been reading a bunch of stuff recently - all that sitting in the bath to ease the old nobby stiles - it's all been trash from the library though - thrillers and romances interspersed with What to Expect... Pregnancy (looking for advice on ailments and trying to remind myself about childbirth!). In my defence I am about to start on The Map of Love which did at least make the Booker shortlist a couple of years ago. Can't be doing with anything too demanding, though I know that I won't be able to read again for some time post-baby. Mind you, I used to listen to books on tape while breast-feeding first time round which kept me sane. It was lovely actually - I rediscovered some classics like Wuthering Heights as the selection at the library was a bit limited.

Arcadie · 25/01/2010 19:45

Puree No no NO no NOOOOOOOOOO 12th Feb. NOOOOOO We cannot start having babies yet.

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siamesecatwoman · 25/01/2010 19:58

heavens! Can tell lots of us have finished work (or have stopped caring!) What a lot to catch up on!
I have spent the weekend with wrist splints on for the CTS although they work very well on right hand, the left hand isnt so good, so Im still very very tired from not sleeping due to the stupid flipping pins and needles.. fantasizing about having all the fluid squeezed out of my arms and ankles..
Still, all still well with the midwife this morning, smallsiamese still doing everything she should.. well behaved

Picked up an amazing ebay bargain of nursing chair - the gliding type for £40, but it needs recovering as is in vile shade of nursing home wipe clean green. So Ive spent some time looking at fabrics and shortlisted lovely polkadots and show them to DH who declares he doesnt like spots of any type.. I feel like I have to reevaluate my whole marriage! We've got polka dot bedding, cushions and bags (and a now secret spotty changing mat)- not massive amounts but the shock of discovering that he actually has an opinion about dots rather than the usual not being arsed has really confused me!! Where can we go from here??

Found out my work replacement didnt even start last monday, despite me spending all that time with me training her the week before.. and (gasp) I actually dont care .. serves my boss right for leaving it so late as usual.

Reading.. mm.. just finished Russell Brand's 'My Booky Wook' which I loved, and Mike Gayle's 'To do list' which was ok. Still working on the 'no cry sleep solution' but fear it may have to wait till I can put it into practice.

OO top shopping news - washable nappy trail pack arrived and so did this which is so cute I want to go and put it on a baby now good luck for driving tests tomorrow.. (whispers) I passed on my ninth attempt.. which means I am actually a very good driver.. certainly got the hours in..

mummyElk did you see Lovely bones? trailer looked good yesterday when I went and endured the dullfest that was Avatar.. 2 hrs 40! Not good when you have to keep peeing..
Also 'but there was a notorious moment of passion a couple of weeks back when DH looked down at me and said "what are you humming" '... great mental picture..

Sarah glad to hear you and Rosie are ok

Many sympathies to those suffering, especially with thrush and piles.. Ive tired to avoid ABs at all costs because thrush only responds to the oral medication with me.

scooby love the surprise baby shower! Did you play any games?

Iwcas gosh what a change in your ex! Have you had a chat with him about stuff? It mustve been so nice to have him around on saturday after all this time with him being an arse.. fingers crossed for you, x

Manda yey for the good scan! A a great weight

puree OMFG 12 feb.. (emits high pitched shriek)

Arcadie I love building flat packs.. give me a buzz next time

Hi to the newbies and everyone else (waves and does the robot with new arm splints..)

I reckon I ve written more than I think here.. Ill be quiet now.

pureeandpearls · 25/01/2010 20:30

Well done on awesome Robot-ing Siamese. Impressed with the length of your post given CTS....and utterly amused by stupidity of boss

For those who asked: SPD- related induction (i think rocking up in a wheelchair did it), due on 26th Feb (assumed I'd go over, hance joining this thread- had I known, I'd have joined due in January and probably still beaten some to the punch!) so will be going in at 38 weeks. Feel free to put heads in sand. I am....not sure I can remember how to give birth!! Was supposed to be having Valentine's themed baby shower.....

good luck with driving tests people

waves to one and all as have forgotten everything else I meant to say.....preg brain?

mummyscrummy · 25/01/2010 20:51

Evening ladies,

Wow busy day on here, so much to catch up on!

manda great news about scan, bet your relieved!

bpm wow what a checklist! So many unpleasantries . I have a DP that still angry about being pg. He still doesn't realise he was there too!

puree OMG thats so soon!

Forgot who else I was gonna mention!

I saw a birth afterthoughts midwife today to discuss Vbac, and found her suprisingly nice, didn't try to push me into a decision or sway me to a certain one either! Now I'm really unsure of what to go for! Got a few weeks to decide though so any pearls of wisdom would be much appreciated

I'm fed up with my constipation!! Now i'm taking iron tablets its just got worse and even my Movicol isn't working as well as it was . Oh the joys.

Sympathy to all those suffering with piles/bh/spd etc etc!

Shroomer · 26/01/2010 08:13

siamesecatwoman I too have some dotty things. It started with some John Lewis blackout blinds, then I ordered the reusable nappies - inc a mixed 'surprise' box of nappy covers. And blow me - some of the nappies match the blinds! . If I hold the baby up in front of the blind, its arse will disappear.

Then I noticed spotty, dotty things in catalogues - it seems to be quite popular.

I'm currently reading 'The Wasp Factory' by Iain Banks. Then will progress onto the two Stieg Larsson books I got for xmas.

MummyElk · 26/01/2010 08:34

Morning...
puree fantastic to know we have a baby joining us for feb, that's quite exciting!! Have you been induced before? (sorry can't quite remember) and what happens re SPD if you went over? (i mean, i can't imagine it would be fun but would it actually do your poorly hips harm too? Just interested)
siamese no i didn't see Lovely Bones, not sure I will now, really don't think I can cope with it [wimpy emoticon]. interesting you didn't like Avatar, I've only heard good things (but i go to the cinema so rarely now it's sort of irrelevant to me anyway?!) but 2hrs 40 is DEFINITELY too long to go without a wee!
shroomer love the Arse Disappearing Baby...brilliant!

I have very little to report (and grandma due any second to have DD so must be quick) here but suffice to say it's been eventful - I realise now that the new spray on kind of hair remover is, er, quite effective......just hope i don't go into labour any time soon, the MW might, er, think we're a bit, er, hollywood...I sort of wish I'd realised sooner because the end effect is like some tufted eagle.. (i would do a but that just seems wrong. given the situation)
Have a good day everyone

siamesecatwoman · 26/01/2010 09:01

Avatar had some good moments but it also had really overly long battle scenes and was a blatant ripoff of some bits of Dances with Wolves. My friend just called it 'dances with Smurfs' I liked the concept but it didnt do what I wanted it to IYSWIM..

I have never managed to do my own pubic topiary properly - in fact the last time I tried was the day before my BFP, and when I went to EPU for a scan at 6 weeks I was horrified to find out it was internal and had to apologise for my Veet induced insanity before removing my keks...

Will be sitting here eagerly awaiting news from driving test ladies today - is it Caitni first?

Henrietta · 26/01/2010 09:38

Just looking in - got the little ones bug so throwing up all day yesterday - was not happy with bump who had no compassion and jumped up & down on stomach...got emergency help to take DD&DS to school, so going to crawl back into bed.

congrats to those whose placentas have moved up

Shroomer · 26/01/2010 09:45

MummyElk - 'tufted eagle' he he heee!! After I had my internal by a young male trainee obstretician on Sat, I started to think about my own lady garden, and how it really does need a trim. But going anywhere near it right now with scissors and a razor is, I suppose, like a man shaving while blind-folded.

siamesecatwoman · 26/01/2010 09:57

shoomer and MummyElk this is for you

Sariska · 26/01/2010 10:01

Ooh, nasty, Henrietta. Hope you feel better soon.

Yes, good luck to our driving test takers today. Am sure you will both do way way way better than the idiot who nearly mopped up DS and me yesterday. And, I assume, given the lack of L plates that he had a full licence. There we were, walking along the pavement of a one-way street, minding our own business when, from nowhere, a car, travelling the wrong way along the road, sweeps onto the pavement not 6 feet in front of us. He can't have seen us. He really can't. And, then, to cap it off, the bugger starts reversing straight towards DS' pushchair. I think I shrieked, at which point an elderly lady wound down the passenger side window and all I could do was splutter (no profanities or anything), "What are you doing?" She apologised but there wasn't a word from the driver. He concentrated on swinging his car back out into the road (on a blind bend) and doing a U-turn to get himself facing the right way.

Anyway, other things. Oh yes, books. Well, I've just finished Robert Harris' "Imperium" and am now about to start Orhan Pamuk's "The Museum of Innocence". Will also be dipping into that one sock and no hairbrush book, DrS, which I'm borrowing from a friend. I'm going to read with caution as another friend describes it as "No socks and a nervous breakdown".

I actually read a lot during my last mat leave - mostly during the night watch, when I switched between book, TV and internet to keep myself awake. DS only slept while being held and I was terrified of falling asleep and dropping or smothering him. So, I'm actually hoping to have a bit less time to read this time around .

I'm also hoping that maybe the whole second baby thing won't be as bad as all that. A friend and her baby visited us the other day and at one point I picked up the baby when he was grizzling when his mum was out of the room. DS came over, put his arms around both of us and said, "baby cuddle" and, then, "baby sister". This is an immeasurable improvement on the last time he saw me holding a baby when he tantrumed, "Mummy! My Mummy!"

Also rather jealous of those of you already on mat leave. At least you won't have your babies before winding up at work. A friend of mine had hers at 37+2 on Sunday - and she wasn't due to finish work until this coming Friday.

Three weeks does seem very soon, P&P. I wonder if you'll be our first???

hecklephone · 26/01/2010 10:05

Hello all

feeling sorry for myself today-day 3 of a rather painful and persistent neuralgia headache. The right half of my head is so sensitive...also feeling exhausted today. Want to lie down in a darkened room, but have to look after DD this morning and teach a college class this afternoon Dont know how to shake this headache-paracetamol's proving a bit rubbish and lots of lovely yoga breathing at last night's class didn't help much either. Feeling sorry for DD too-I'm not much fun for her to play with today I'm afraid.

The ladygarden chat is making me smile tho-and I can't believe p&p will have her baby in just 3 weeks-that makes it all a bit too real!

Ok, off to try and crowbar myself off the sofa (thank heavens for cbeebies)

Arcadie · 26/01/2010 10:26

PITY ME PEOPLE!!!! My DD ( 2 and 2 months) has chicken pox .... first spot yesterday. Please Lord PLEASE can she not still be infectious on Saturday or my sister's wedding is going to be ruined down one flower girl.

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annamama · 26/01/2010 10:40

Shaving? Veet? I just cut my lady garden with scissors, so it doesn't hang down to my knees...

siamesecatwoman · 26/01/2010 10:57

oo crap Arcadie! just found this on NHS website;
Chickenpox is most common in children who are between two and eight years of age, although you can develop chickenpox at any age. You are infectious from about two days before the rash appears until roughly five days after. Therefore you or your child should stay at home until all of the blisters have fully crusted over, and this usually happens five to seven days after the first blister appears. After the last blister has burst and crusted over, you are no longer infectious.

So fingers crossed for you! Have you had it?

74slackbladder · 26/01/2010 10:58

Oh NOOOO arcadie on the pox. I am waiting for something like that myself any day now but at least we dont have any major social events that it could ruin! Hope she's ok and you get to go to wedding.

Am smiling too at the lady garden trimming business as I was thinking myself that things could probably do with some attention but am really not sure of the best way to tackle the situ given that i have no hope of doing a decent job

Book wise. Am reading Nikki French - Until its over. Very good read. My MIL has a stack of books she is going to give me this weekend, so that should keep me going.

Not much else to report. Bit of a scary moment last night when I picked up DS from nursery though. Came back out and got in the car and it wouldn't go - no power going through it at all. I thought that'll teach me to spend £400 on a car and expect it to be reliable. Turns out that the battery connections were lose. PHEW. With DH being away today and tom, I would have been stranded without my car.

Eagerly awaiting news of driving tests....

MandaHugNKiss · 26/01/2010 11:08

Aw, heckle that sounds grim. I remember my Xsister in law getting that and was amuse to see her always wearing a wooly hat (which apparently helped her!). Something about avoiding draughts/extremes of temperature. She was necking loads of codieve based painkillers which are obviously not really the way forward for you unless you're desperate (and I have it in my head that you can't take them for at least a week or so before birth because they affect the baby's breathing otherwise...) Also I've just had a thought that perhaps it's been bought on by water retention - kinda like a CTS for the face/head. I keep waking in the night with numb hands (the underside of my right hand is currently vaguely just not...there. Felling wise) which I assume is a mild form of it and I DEFINITELY do NOT look remotely puffy/swollen/like I'm retaining water. I'm gonna try upping my fluid intake though as when you're a bit dehydrated your boby clings to fluid and since the weekend with my unfortunate bathroom overnight stay, I have to admit I've not really concentrated on replacing what I clearly lost. Anyway, the short of it is I really hope it improves and try a woolly hat? And try drinking lots. It can't hurt...(anymore than it already does) right?

Oh my goodness. I can't believe that quattro advert is anything more than a spoof, siamese! I mean... if it had been european, I'd be less inclined to think 'Saturday Night Live!'. How on EARTH would they ever air that, being as uptight as they are about the body? (hey, it's ok to show violence involving guns with lots of death and bad language on daytime tv, but please, no naked skin! A navel? Oh my! We're all corrupted by sins of the flesh now!). Is it real? It's amazing! Tulips on a mound?! It's not real... can't be!

But on the subject, I've been doing it 'blind' for some time now. I just can't see what I'm doing so I kinda contort to see what I can, and feel my way for what I can't before the razor comes into contact. It's working out ok - no hollywood disaster, no tufty eagle (which made me lol mummyelk - poor you. Time to admit defeat and visit a salon or employ DH's help? DP has offered to help me, but I just don't trust his artistic integrity, y'know? Especially when he started mentioning 'shapes').

Also a fan of dots. Spots. Disappearing arse baby was cause for a chuckle shroomer But then worryingly I started taking it further and imagining sleep suits and hats so all you have is a floating baby face... I think I need to get out more.

Oh, coughs. Poor anna. Don't try and fool us that you're spoiling your knickers though - you're back on the nappies again, aren't you? (I surreptisiously had sideways looks at the tenalady PANTS thingys you can get in Boots yesterday. Not because I'm incontinent, but because I'm thinking they might make a good immediate post-partum choice (with a mat/night pad too, of course). Just suppose they'll avoid leakage onto nightwear/bedding better than the big cheapo knickers normally preferred over paper jobs. Anyone have any thoughts/experience of this type of activity? )

henrietta Ugh. Sympathy (but no tea just yet, BRAT diet for you I'm afraid).

puree Ah, that's too close! If your news brings out the ostriche and '' in all of us then goodness knows how you're feeling... How are you feeling? I guess you and emlou are in the running for first baby. Could everyone else please wait until their designated due date because I can't cope with early babies and may do Something Drastic. Thank you for your co-operation in this matter.

On 'A Million Little Pieces'. I too found it a harrowing read (not least because I was raised by an alcoholic - mum). But I then discovered that the author embellished a LOT. And whilst I appreciate why he did, I think it harms the message and his credibility. Firstly, that experience is harsh enough without making crap up, and secondly to present fiction as fact is simply wrong.

pixie I've always found small dc make excellent slaves - so willing! - right up until the early teens (at which point you may have to induce some guilt by pointing out all the things you do for them and expect 'this relationship' to be reciprocal ) ood luck with the scan today, and as per my threats instructions above, no babies yet please.

Argh! They are not zombies in 28 Days later swings/anna! They are infected with rage! They are not the living dead! I clearly care too much about this! (but I loved the first film - refused to watch the sequel and spoil it all) (oh and I getcha, anna - being 33 weeks pregnant doesn't make you a zombie though )

As you all already know I'm reading Girl With... but am expecting delivery of The Road any day. I was meaning to read it for so long, then the release of the film reminded me. I may tandem read. I know it's a grim read but I like that kinda thing. I know; I'm odd.

mummyscrummy Come over to the spatone side! We have no constipation! Seriously, most people struggle with constipation with the ferrous sulphate tablets. Your body just can't absorb them very well (I presume you've tried lowering the dose, takin with vit c, tryin on empty stomach, tryin on full stomach, and avoiding tannin (tea/grapes/raisins main culprit)?)

SPatone is a water supplement that is very high in a natural iron that is easily absorbed which often means no side effects (hurrah!). It bought my hb up by two points in two weeks. Stop torturing yourself woman, and get some!

Someone is bound to have posted since I started this... hopefully some GOOD NEWS re driving tests - lotsa luck ladies!

Soft squidgy hot cross buns from marks, toasted, with jam inside are perfectly acceptable late breakfast/elevensie, right? I thought so. Just scoffed two. Yum!

rebeccacad · 26/01/2010 11:33

Good luck on the driving tests - was just remembering how nervous I was taking mine. Mainly because I hated my teacher and couldn't bear any more lessons with him. I know you'll be fine - who could fail a heavily pregnant woman, eh?!

Sorry to hear of all the illnesses in the group and amongst the DCs. Maybe we're getting all of this out of the way now so the postpartum period is blissful and healthy? Hmmmm.

Reading wise, Shrommer I found The Wasp Factory really disturbing - I thought it was a really interesting book, but parts of it made my skin crawl so much.

I've just had a delivery of books courtesy of my Dad (asked him to send a pile he was finished with as I'd run out). In the interim, I'd got a bit desperate so had started re-reading the childrens' classics I'd brought back from my parents house for the baby's bookcase (ones I'd read when I was little). Found The Borrowers surprisingly compelling as an adult!

Bit of a TMI question . I did the pessary last night and, as instructed, tried not to put it as high up as you would when not pregnant. I woke up a couple of hours later feeling really damp down below. I changed my underwear as it was damp all the way through and put a panty liner in and in the morning it was really damp again with lots of what looked like dissolved pessary goop as well as dampness.

Now, rationally I'm thinking pessary supposed to dissolve and that probably caused me to have more discharge than normal ashing some of the pessary out. Irrationally I'm thinking, oh no, put the pessary in too high and now my waters are leaking as surely that much pessary and dampness coming out isn't normal. So, those of you with pessary experience (put that on your CVs) talk me down from my paranoid tree...

Sariska · 26/01/2010 11:52

rebeccad, that pretty much describes my pre-pregnancy pessary experience. There was way more goop and dampness than I was expecting. IIRC it calmed down after a day or so - so hopefully yours will too.

Does it seem to have helped the symptoms, at least?