lady what an awful situation. The only advice I can give you is to move in with your dad if that is still an option, and let him help you emotionally get yourself back together.
I know it's hard being on your own, (my 1st H told me it's me or the baby when I was 6 wks with my 1st, and that was after we'd discussed IVF only to fall naturally)I left the next day. It is hard not to keep going back, ( I did that too, hence my 2nd child)but trust me it does get easier and one day when you are mentally ready and able to find a place in your life for another person, someone will come along and it will all fall into place, (my dh, dc's 3, 4, 5, and 6!!. You need to look after yourself and your daughter and tbh this chap sounds like he's not your soul mate for want of a nicer way of putting it.
I hope it works out for you, there was a period in my life a long long time ago when I thought it would never get better but it will. Seek help for your debts, be honest about your feelings, (dark or otherwise)and your friends and family will help you through it. Good luck.
plant I am a Doula and I don't work within the hospital as such, I have a stand at the pregnanct evenings on a tuesday. I am familiar with the mw's cos I have alot of clients at QM and of course, I am there regularly.
The women's ward, (margaret do you mean)is a busy place I have to say, I think it can accomodate 28 women, and 3 or 4 mw's. Having said that, MLU and deivery are very well looked after, they are very Doula friendly, (if you are having one) and partner friendly. If MLU you will get complete one to one care and if delivery then 2 to one. Afterwards I would suggest you go home as soon as you are comfortable doing so.
If you come along to one of the pregnancy evenings, we can say hello.
email me if you like.
lct walters at sky dot com no spaces obviously.
Hope everyone else is well. I feel really rough but hey ho, I said I would embrace this and am really really trying to do that.