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Anyone due July 2020

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rhij86 · 30/10/2019 12:46

Hi all,

Anyone due July 2020? Sorry if I've missed a thread, done a quick search and couldn't find one...

DH and I were due to start TTC for #2 in the new year, but haven't been actively not-trying. Well something was just niggling at me over the weekend, I just 'had a feeling' if that makes sense... did an FRER yesterday and there it was! that second pink line...

I'm equal parts excited and batshit scared haha. I've not told DH yet, it's his birthday on Tuesday so going to break it to him then.

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Mummyofboys90 · 30/10/2019 18:22

Heyy
I’m due in July too! I took a test yesterday because I felt a bit weird and there it was. Absolutely over the moon. This is baby number 3 for us, I think I must be mad but so so excited.
How are you feeling? X

rhij86 · 30/10/2019 18:29

Congratulations! What date in July? I'm due the 8th so will be 12wks on boxing day, so planning to tell family at Christmas!
Don't know whether to tell midwife lmp was a week earlier to try and get the 12wk scan in before Christmas.

I'm feeling ok, no symptoms yet really! Although typically I've come down with a massive cold, blocked sinuses the works and can't take anything for it.

Still a bit in shock as with #1 it took 11 months of obsessive trying and this time around we weren't even trying yet! Hardly looked at him this month and somehow ended up pg Grin

How are you feeling?

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HeadintheClouds20 · 30/10/2019 19:00

Hi! Can I join please? I think I'm due 8th of July too!

We've been trying for 16months and fell on our first round of clomid treatment. This is our first. I'm pretty uncomfortable with bloating and some pains on both sides. The nurse at the hospital said it's common with clomid.

I have booked a private scan for 6 weeks 3 days because I want to check everything is ok. After waiting this long, I'm a little nervous. Wishing everyone a happy pregnancy!

ladymac337 · 30/10/2019 19:14

Hi Ladies,

I'm going to join in too. Due on 6th July with our first. Still not quite sunk in but the nausea and tummy pains remind me it's real. We are planning to tell family at Xmas too so hoping for a pre Xmas scan x

rhij86 · 30/10/2019 19:36

@headintheclouds20, @ladymac337 congratulations both!
I remember exactly how it felt being so nervous about every twinge when I finally got my bfp last year for #1! A lot of worry but worth it in the end when he arrived :)

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Mummyofboys90 · 30/10/2019 20:41

Congratulations everyone. I’ll be due around 10th July so I’m about 4 weeks. Is anyone else having period type cramps? This is third time but I can’t help getting freaked out constantly about little twinges x

LazyDogFox · 30/10/2019 20:45

Hi ladies! I got my BFP this weekend, due 10th July it’s my first baby and I’m incredibly anxious!

rhij86 · 30/10/2019 20:50

Congrats Lazydog!

@Mummyofboys90 nothing yet but I remember it well from last time so bracing myself for it this time. I spent prob about 13 weeks wondering if I would see blood every time I wiped last time Shock - hope I can be less stressed this time!

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Mummyofboys90 · 30/10/2019 20:52

Oh that’s reassuring to hear. It’s a terrifying feeling isn’t it x

Tils1066 · 30/10/2019 21:14

Hi, Can I join please? I’m due the 7th of July.This is my 2nd pregnancy although my first was an ectopic in July. I’m so anxious, I have a scan on Monday just to check everything is ok as this feels so different from last time. I have a period like cramp every hour or so and have waves of dizziness and tiredness. How is everyone feeling?

Cymrubaby · 30/10/2019 22:09

Me too! BFP yesterday 4 days before period I’m due 12 July! We were very lucky having just got married last month!
Congrats everyone!!! I just have sore boobs (normal for me) and a bit of a headache!
So lovely to share news here I’m so desperate to shout it from the rooftops (but haven’t) 🙈 xx

thirteen92 · 30/10/2019 22:17

Hi everyone, I'm jumping on here! So I have a 32 day cycle and the due date calculators are telling me 30/06 and 01/07. I think I also ovulated around cycle day 23.

Based on my last period I'm 6 weeks on Friday but based on my cycle I'm 5+2. Anyone else similar cycle length to me or late ovulation? I'm just trying to work out how early I actually am right now.

Racoonworld · 30/10/2019 22:31

Congratulations! Can I join? I’m due 8th or 9th July Smile. It’s so exciting but also terrifying. I’m having cramps which is worrying but apparently normal?

AutumnDazed · 30/10/2019 23:41

Hi all, I know this is munsnet, but I am a husband whose wife found out we were pregnant last weekend, so based upon what I am reading up we are due in July! I’m eager to learn as much as I can and be a support for my wife, hence me joining here today. Also we are both dying to tell our families but hopefully being a part of this community may help us not share the news too early :)

Cymrubaby · 31/10/2019 06:04

Just wondered what everyone’s thoughts are on who to tell, it’s just myself and my husband right now, and whilst I quite like having our little secret I do feel guilty for not telling my mum and sister and it’s only day 2 of having found out!
Are you going to tell anyone outside of your partner/husbands before the 12 weeks? 🤷‍♀️ Xx

HeadintheClouds20 · 31/10/2019 07:18

Morning! We've told my immediate family and my husband's immendiate family. We only really told so early because it's taken so long and they already knew about our fertility treatment. 🙂

Cymrubaby · 31/10/2019 07:49

Thanks headintheclouds20! That must have been such a lovely moment telling them ❤️

MrsS147 · 31/10/2019 08:07

Hi can I join too? According to calculators I'm due 5th July, but when I phoned the midwife to book appointments she said the 8th! I'm 4+4 based on LMP, but I ovulate before day 14 so maybe slightly further along than that.
I have my scan booked on Christmas eve, so excited but feeling nervous too!

I've told mine/DH close family as they all knew we were trying anyway, and we'd tell them if anything went wrong anyway!

What symptoms does everyone have? I have on and off cramping and my nipples are so sore when I take my bra off and when I'm cold!

Wishing everyone a healthy pregnancy!

Mummyofboys90 · 31/10/2019 08:24

Ah so similar to me 😊 congratulations. Yeah I’m having lots of cramps too, I think it’s very normal but it is hard not to worry xx

Mummyofboys90 · 31/10/2019 09:04

Due date buddies 😊

MrsD7 · 31/10/2019 09:23

Can't believe I'm saying this but after 2 and a half years of trying, we FINALLY got a BFP on Monday! Am in total shock and hardly sleeping with the excitement of it all! Due on 3rd July and is our first. Also planning on telling everyone at Christmas but I am bursting to tell people sooner!! Have already told my parents as they know the struggles we have been going through. Want to tell my sisters but DH doesn't want to tell his parents until we are further along so feel I can't tell anyone else until then!!
Only symptoms at the moment are sore boobs. Have felt slightly nauseous and tired but I think that's more excitement than anything!
CONGRATULATIONS everyone!! x

MrsD7 · 31/10/2019 09:25

Also having a slight issue with my work Christmas party which is in a few weeks at a Sushi restaurant... how am I going to get around not drinking and not eating raw fish?! There are only 4 of us so I can't even drop out.... any suggestions welcome! x

Cymrubaby · 31/10/2019 11:51

MrsD7 it’s very hard, around Christmas time! If it’s a late December night, it maybe you will have had your scan? And could let them know. I told my boss today ....swore him to secrecy! We are friends so I trust him entirely- it was a bit of a relief to be honest, my job is very physical, and it’s stopped me worrying about work events coming up! Xx

MrsD7 · 31/10/2019 12:41

@cymrubaby it’s at the end of December so will only be about 9 weeks by then. Also, We get a salary review in January so I don’t want to tell my boss until after that!
My boss has just been talking about all the raw fish and meat we’re going to have to try and how good the cocktails are!! 🤦🏼‍♀️ This is going to be difficult!

MrsD7 · 31/10/2019 12:41

Sorry end of November not December!!

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