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largeginandtonic · 07/04/2007 09:48

Morning all, new thread for today.

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MKG · 09/04/2007 21:10

And if you really want to get ahead here's a birth announcement.

Marta, Orlando, and Mateo
are happy to announce that on
, _ 2007
they welcomed a new edition to their family

Cruz Patrick Garcia

He came into the world at ????.. ?????
weighing in at ?..lbs

??. ozs. And measured ???. Inches.

He has ???. Hair, and ??? eyes.

MKG · 09/04/2007 21:19

And if you were thinking of a birth plan but didn't really want to write one . . .

Birth Plan for Marta

Due Date: 5/26/07
Patient of Advanced Obstetrics / HMC

03/07

We are looking forward to sharing our birth experience with you. We have created this birth plan in order to outline some of our preferences for birth. We would appreciate you reviewing this plan, and would be happy to do so with you. We understand that there may be situations in which our choices may not be possible, but we hope that you will help us to move toward our goals as much as possible and to make this labor and birth a great experience. We do not want to replace the medical personnel, but instead want to be informed of any procedures in advance, and to be allowed the chance to give informed consent. Please feel free to ask if you have any questions or comments. Thank you!

Please Note
My bloodtype is Rh- (Rhesus Negative)

Labor
Please perform no routine prepatory tasks (shaving, enema, etc.), unless requested.
I expect that doctors and hospital staff will discuss all procedures with me before they are performed.
I would like to be free to walk, change positions and use the bathroom as needed or desired.
I prefer to eat and drink throughout labor, as desired.
I will remain hydrated by drinking moderate amounts of fluids (water, juice, ice chips).
Please do not administer an IV or heparin lock unless there is a clear medical indication that such is necessary.
I would like a quiet, soothing environment during labor, with dim lights and minimal interruptions.
I would like to play my own music.
Please limit the number of vaginal exams.
I wish to labor freely in the birthing tub or shower.
As long as is doing well, I prefer that fetal heart tones be monitored intermittently with an external monitor or doppler, even if the membranes have ruptured.
If fetal distress is suspected and time permits, I would like confirmation of this with a fetal scalp blood sample before proceeding with other interventions.
Please allow me to vocalize as desired during labor and birth without comment or criticism.
Please do not permit observers such as interns, students or unnecessary staff into the room without my permission.
To preserve my privacy and dignity, I would prefer that everyone knock before entering.

Labor Augmentation/Induction
I would like to avoid induction unless it is medically necessary.
As long as and I are healthy, I do not want to discuss induction prior to 42 weeks.
If my pregnancy progresses past 40 weeks, I would prefer to base the decision to induce on the results of 's biophysical profiles, not on my own personal discomfort or impatience.
If induction is necessary, I would like to attempt it with prostaglandin gel or another means before pitocin is administered.
Please do not rupture my membranes artificially unless medically indicated.

Anesthesia/Pain Medication
Please do not offer anesthesia/analgesia unless I ask for it.
If I ask for pain relief, please feel free to offer nonmedical choices for coping and/or remind me how close I am to the birth.

Cesarean Section Delivery
If a cesarean is necessary, I expect to be fully informed of all procedures and actively participate in decision-making.
I would like Orlando to be present during the surgery.
I would prefer epidural anesthesia, if possible, in order to remain conscious through the delivery.
If possible, please do not strap my arms to the table during the procedure.
If conditions permit, should be given to Orlando immediately after the birth.
Please lower the screen just before delivery so I may see the birth of the baby.

Perineal Care
I prefer not to have an episiotomy unless it is medically indicated.
To avoid episiotomy or tearing, Orlando or my labor assistant will perform perineal massage with oil and apply hot compresses.
I would rather tear than have an episiotomy.

Delivery
Even if I am fully dilated, and assuming is not in distress, I would like to wait until I feel the urge to push before beginning the pushing phase.
I prefer to push or not push according to my instincts and would prefer not to have guidance or coaching in this effort.
I would like the freedom to push and deliver in any position I like.
I would appreciate help from Orlando and staff supporting my legs as I push.
I would like a soothing environment during the actual birth, with dim lights and quiet voices.
I would like Orlando to help catch .

Immediately after the birth
Please place on my stomach/chest immediately after delivery.
I would like to breastfeed immediately.
Orlando would like the option to cut the cord.
Please allow the umbilical cord to stop pulsating before it is cut.
I prefer to wait for spontaneous delivery of the placenta and do not want a routine injection of pitocin.

Newborn Care
I would like to hold skin-to-skin during the first hours to help regulate baby's body temperature.
If must go to the nursery for evaluation or medical treatment, Orlando, or someone I designate, will accompany at all times.
Please delay eye medication for until we are well past the initial bonding period (a couple hours after the birth).

Postpartum Care
I would prefer not to be catheterized until I've had some private time to attempt urination on my own.
I would like to room-in with me during the day, but stay in the nursery at night.
I would like my Orlando to room-in with me.
I would like my other children to have free visitation access.

Breastfeeding
I plan to breastfeed and want to nurse immediately following the birth.
Unless I am unable to give my consent, please do not give any supplements without first informing me of the reason(s) and seeking my consent.
I would like to meet with the staff lactation consultant.

Additional notes
I am planning for to be circumcised before we check out of the hospital. (Note: Do not waive Vitamin K shot in this event)

Lwatkins · 09/04/2007 21:52

Hello All

My goodness, so much has happened in a couple of weeks - i'll never catch up! It seems whenever I leave this thread everything starts going mental and I miss out on all the news!

First of all, Lupins - HUGE CONGRATS on your beautiful little boys early arrival. Glad you both appear to be doing well, and may I just say he is absolutley scrummy looking! You must be a very proud mummy

Charley - oh my. Torn between being sad and happy for you. Huge congrats to you on the arrival of little George, but am very sorry to hear of the sad news surrounding wee Benjamin. My thoughts are with you.

TYG - bummer about the car eh! I think that the phrases 'bad things happen to good people' and 's**t happens' are kind of appropriate here!

SOH My god woman, cleaning? WHY? Your pregnant, and your married. Put your feet up and make your DH do it all. That's what men are there for!! Sit down and eat cream cakes whilst repeating 'Darling, you missed a spot' to your hubby whilst he dusts.

Hope everyone has had fabtabulous easters, I spent all of mine sat on the couch making my little sister unwrap and pass me my chocolate eggs. It was very Waynetta Slob ish. She was very tempted to throw them at me several times - pregnancy has it's advantages. I am untouchable atm and she hates it!!!

Living with a 13 year old again is not easy, I'll take my mingin housemates any day! My makeup has all vanished as has my boxes of dvds and cds, grrrrrr. Sisters huh, just can't seem to get 'em these days. God help me when I leave uni to come back here to have the baby, 37 weeks pg putting up with a teenager whose answer to everything at the minute is 'it's not my problem' and 'in a minute'. (It's never a minute - it's never!)

Mum bringing me back to Bristol on saturday/sunday, only have 3 weeks there and that's me completed my first year! Then I'll have 3 weeks until my babies due! I think time has just sort of knocked me out and I've woken up 34 weeks pregnant wondering what the hells going on! Have just devoured a huge bowl of sausage rolls too, ramdom craving for tonight. Good stuff. Feeling extremely heavy atm, funny cause I don't think I look bigger, but I feel like I weigh 5 stone extra. Have now had to resort to funny, slow waddle type of walking, sniff sniff - I want my body back!

Anyhoo, just popped on to attempt to catch up and say hello, probs wont get back on until I'm back at uni despite the fact the computers in my room here! Everyone beats me to it, they all take advantage of the fact that they can get up the stairs and into my room quicker than me - bas**rds!

Hope your all keeping well, and no more babies just yet. Must cook a bit longer! Take care all, LW x

JonahB · 09/04/2007 22:02

Hi all, hope you had good weekends and the Easter Bunnies were generous?.

Intheseshoes, sorry to hear you?re breech. Still time to turn hopefully??LOL?s at Ethel Austin. Now I know where you?ll be lurking on sat mornings??

We?ve nearly finished DS1?s new ?big boy? bedroom now, so once he?s up and in, I can start thinking about preparing for no. 2 in the nursery. I can?t face going up into the loft to get all the newborn stuff twice. I sincerely hope I don't get a surprise early visitor...

I?m feeling a total heifer now. Not helped by the fact I?ve had a streaming cold all weekend. Can you tell I?m feeling a little sorry for myself .

MKG, you are very, very organised. My birth plan last time was as follows:

  • I would like to have a private room, if possible
  • I?ll consider all forms of pain relief: gas & air, meptid, epidural. No pethadine please.
  • If I have an epidural, please can a mobile epidural be administered
  • I want DH to be with me at all times. I really don?t want him sent home until I?m ready.
  • DHt doesn?t want to be involved with the proceedings eg, cord cutting. He?s happy to stay at the ?head? end
  • I?d like to hold the baby as soon as it?s born. Could it be born onto me?
  • I am planning to breastfeed, so no formula to be given to the baby

No pethadine??? Ha ha ha ha!!! I was grabbing the midwife by the arm and INSISTING that she gave me another shot of either pethadine or meptid. If she had refused, I?d have probably got off the bed to inject myself?..

Take care all, have a good week.....

drkgpink · 10/04/2007 06:03

Morning all, hope you all had a good easter monday.

Scooter - I live in greystones just off ecclesall road south, I equaly love it here in sheffield.I came to Uni in 1998 met dh and have never left as is the way with lots of students here I think. Where near chesterfield are you from, I have a friend in dronfield, anywhere close?

MKG - you look like a girl after my own heart - endless lists and everything planned. I must say though your birth plan puts me to shame - you would think as a Dr I'd have lots of stipulations but really its just go with the flow and whatever is indicated to get a healthy baby at the end. I'm sure that will be a relief for my midwife as I think dread must set in when they see the words Dr in front of a mum to be's name.

Well it feels weird for me today, dh off to work for first time since I've been on mat leave, I do feel I've lost a small part of my identity as I packed away my work bag over the weekend. I'm sure once baby comes though that will be long forgotten. I do hope I'm not making a rod for my own back though as after never being that domestic I have already made his sandwiches, ironed shirts and yesterday spent 3 hours scrubbing the grout in the bathroom with a toothbrush and bleach - I presume this is nesting. Bless him, dh thinks that means labour is imminent but I have warned him I'm only 36/40 today and not to get his hopes up.

Well, probably ought to stop gas bagging and do something more productive. Have a good day all

LupinsBigLump · 10/04/2007 08:09

Morning all, hope all those bumps arent stopping you sleeping too much, must say I am not missing mine at all, not even a pinch, not saying i am finding it easy to get comfy but at least when i do thats it for the night, and my hands dont hurt anymore, at the moment my boobs are just starting to get hard and uncomfy - but it feels like nothing compared to how crap i felt being pg, looking forward to seeing Arlen this morning, was really missing him last night, still at least i get to recover before being thrown into night time feeds and changes

MKG how thorough are you !!!! think you have covered everything and more

Lw good to hear from you, glad your doing well

Must get round to changing my name lol

cameroonmama · 10/04/2007 08:25

Hey April's dh has just posted on the old thread that she went into labour last night and Ella was born early this morning, sorry I don't know how to do a link..wow great news and big congrats to the whole family.

OopsImoaningagain · 10/04/2007 08:30

Hi Everybody !!
Anyone due on the 10/05 ????

Mrsjaffabiffa · 10/04/2007 08:36

Morning all.......;

yes, Aprilmeadow had a little girl at 3.54am, she weighed 5lb. 10oz.

Sorry, I've only just got the text and she text last night to say her waters had gone and they were on their in to hospital but I didn't see that until this morning either.

CONGRATULATION, C, C, J and baby ella.

Mrsjaffabiffa · 10/04/2007 08:38

Aprilmeadow's birth announcement

largeginandtonic · 10/04/2007 08:56

Hi Ladies,

Husband here. AM went into labour last night and waters broke about 11pm. At 3.54am she gave birth to our beautiful daughter Ella weighing 5lb 10.

Both doing fine but they are keeping them in as Ella was under 37 weeks.

She should be home later today and I am sure she will fill you in on all the (gory) details.

Chris(DH)

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largeginandtonic · 10/04/2007 08:57

Doh cross posts MrsJB!!! Obviously that last post from me was AM'S DH posting about AM'S baby popping out!!!!

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Mrsjaffabiffa · 10/04/2007 09:02

lol lg&t

Cor it's getting exciting isn't it.......

These May babies seem desparate to arrive early. Maybe I had better pack my hospital bag. Not me!

Hope you all have a lovely morning, off to apply my brain and learn some french in a bit.

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm sooooooo pleased for all these baby's.

largeginandtonic · 10/04/2007 09:13

I cant believe it! Another baby already, i hope she is ok and not in too much shock. Must have been quite a surprise!

MrsJB could you email me the address of her AM and Lupin if you have them so i can send out baby cards? I may have to stock pile at this rate!!!!

I told you lot, im gonna be last

TYG i have texted you SOH'S mobile number, found it on an old email, phew!

Everyone has gone back to work today, im alone with all the kids. Now you would think i may be about this.......but noooooooo. I am going to hoover, clean the kitchen floor, take the kids out. No one is going to tell me what do do or what i cant do. Have been going a bit potty to be honest, dh lecturing me then suggesting helpful little tasks that i can do, grrrrrrr. I know he is only trying to look after me and the boy but im not very easy to look after. More your fiercly independant i will do what i want type, poor DH. Sure he should have married a girly girl that wants to be looked after and squeaks at the sight of pain and a bit of hard work.

DONT you lot start lecturing me today, this baby is bloody huge. He can jolly well come out, i reakon he is at least 6lb already.........

MKG your mammoth post has put me to shame, a bit like you DRPINK you would think with all our knowledge mine would be much more detailed. I have basically said, leave me alone on mine! The one i wrote while pregnant with the twins (my first) was very pretty. Of course they were an emergency section at 29 weeks........ho, hum!

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Mrsjaffabiffa · 10/04/2007 09:20

I've never written a birth plan!!!!! What will be will be for me. However, I think if you have strong views on wants and not wants then it's a good idea. I just want the baby with as little pain as possible. (wuss)

Lg&t, Will e-mail you now.

AbbyLou · 10/04/2007 09:21

Morning all! Wow, another baby! April was only on here yesterday wasn't she, bet that was a shock for them all. It does seem as though these May babies are determined to come in April, watch me be the one who's really late!
Not got many plans for today. Dh has taken ds off to get his hair cut and then he's off to work at 11 so don't know what me and Charlie will get up to. No sun here yet today but still warm and cloudy. I might take Charlie up to the farm later to look at the animals, it's only small so a short walk and they do the most fantastic vanilla ice cream you have ever tasted.

largeginandtonic · 10/04/2007 09:21

I just skim read the rest and have seen the pic of Lupins lovely Arlen! Oh he is soooooo cute, i want one

Lwatkins hello! Glad you have had a nice Easter, lots of choc is just what we all need! Lets hope you hope dont follow the deliver early trend on this thread! We are all early or breech, or both

MRSJB forgot to say before, lucky you on your swivelling baby. Hope mine does it, not really holding out much hope though. Have started to try and get myself geared up for a section again I really will be forced to sit down then, agggghhhhhhhh!

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InTheseShoes · 10/04/2007 09:31

Wow! Well done and congratulations to AM and her family! I can't belive that yesterday you were in Toys R Us buying a playhouse and today you have your little one! I'm with you Mrs JaffaBiffa, maybe it's time to pack my bag...

I have definitely been nesting, my house is spotless and every piece of ironing is done (did all the bedding and some baby stuff yesterday watching The Sound Of Music with my ds). We went out for lovely meal last night at our favourite restaurant (Jonah, you know the one, on the canalside, gourmet pizzas) and I was thinking that maybe we'll only go once more before the baby is born... next weekend we are going to my Mum's and I will get all my baby stuff back from my sister (Moses basket, baby gym, steam steriliser, door bouncer, bouncy chair etc) and after that on the 17th I have my appointment to decide how we're going to proceed with the birth. As DS was 14 days late, induced three times, 48 hour labour with an emergency section at the end due to cord across face, weighed 10lbs and was massive (57cm long) we do need to discuss. I have a good feeling that this one isn't as big, but the whole breech thing would be a problem. In preference I would like

a) to go into labour spontaneously at about 38 weeks and give birth naturally (with gas and air of course!) to make up for last time
b) a planned section

I do not want a repeat of last time. I think this is why I have held back from bag packing/birth plan writing, as I need to have this appointment first. If I do have a planned section I'll be aiming for about the 18th/19th May.

I feel like I'm being a bit clinical about all of this, but last time I wore "rose coloured glasses" and had a detailed birth plan, aromatherapy oils, raspberry leaf tea, arnica and packed bags from about 30 weeks. I was adamant that I didn't want an epidural or a section. So hey-ho, there we go. I am definitely going to take arnica again though as it really helped me bounce back.

Have a lovely day everyone

Pinkjenny · 10/04/2007 09:37

Oh my god! Everyone is popping!

Lupins - Arlen is gorgeous, so teeny.

April - congratulations.

Am off to pack my bag immediately.

cameroonmama · 10/04/2007 09:46

All these babies popping out and talk of bags being packed and birth plans being ready has got me thinking too. MKG you are so organised!

I have an appt with the consultant today who will tell me (ask me perhaps?) when my section is to take place. In an ideal world I would go into labour naturally just before this date and have my final child as naturally as possible, but given i have had two failed inductions at 41 and 42 weeks it hardly seems likely...still a girl can dream. I have been reading about natural c-sections where they lower the screen and you and babba wave at each other as he is coming out and then they place him on your tummy with the cord still intact. The last bit i like, the first bit makes me feel a bit queasy.

LG&T lol at your poor dh encountering a feisty independent woman determined to nest, my poor dh would sympathise.

drkgpink, I grew up in Lincoln and did a postgrad in Sheffield so know it and its bars well but probably before your time

welcome to Oops my section will probably be around the 10th.

DS is trying to type with me so I'd better go, enjoy your day.

drkgpink · 10/04/2007 09:56

Congratulations April, hope you are both doing well.

I'm getting a bit nervous now all you ladies seem to be having yours early. I'm 36 weeks today and hoping he stays inside a bit longer but then I am a primip so fingers crossed - I was banking on some relaxation time now I've finshed work.

scootermum · 10/04/2007 10:17

OOOOH!Another baby!!Congrats to April!Its so exciting!!(But also is giving me the total willies-NOTHING is ready in the Scooter house)MKG-i have printed out your lists and am using them to base my packing on-and have resolved to do my birth plan this week..

Welcome back lawtkins-glad you have had a nice Easter break..Play your sister at her own game-answer all of her questions by saying 'whatever'...You have efery right to revert back to bratty teenagerness at the moment-she will juat have to step over for a while

If you want to clean largegandt you are welcome at my house-it is completely minging at the moment..I mean really-it is bad..Am just too weary to clean it at the moment--these last two weeks at work are going to d -r-a-g...

I worked in Dronfield for a bit at a Nursing home Dr..come from Holymoorside, quite near Chatsworth-used to go out on the Eccleshall rd all the time though-lucky you living there..
I know what you mean about feeling you lose your identity a tad when you leave work..I find it hard that no one at home listens to me and jumps straight to it when I ask for something sometimes-I have to work hard at not being the manager anymore..(not that any of my staff have ever jumped straight to it to be honest-but at least I can tell them off reasonably..DH just doesnt respond the same way!)

Nice and sunny in North London this morn..gonna text TYG in a sec re luncheon and to see where the elusive SOH is at..not much work happening today I fear for me..

scootermum · 10/04/2007 10:22

Can anyone direct me to the secret shower thread-I just want to check if my person got their present yet?

Juicylucytoo · 10/04/2007 10:58

Wow April - congratulations!! That must have come as a bit of a surprise. A nice one though Hope you and baby are both doing well.

It's a bit scarry all these early babies. I've still got 5 weeks at work!!

woodstock3 · 10/04/2007 11:04

congrats to all the new babies - blimey had better finish packing hospital bag (optimistic name for bag largely empty save for spare toothbrush and minging nightie currently sat on nursery floor)!
scootermum dont feel guilty if you already done it and its none of my business, but having been gazumped twice while househunting and heavily pg it is the worst feeling in the world as a buyer....know it's v tempting to go for the extra money (jeez we all need it right now) but you could always wait a couple of weeks and see if your existing buyer comes thru with survey etc?
the crazy way the market is at the moment, if they dont and you feel they are not serious yr gazumping buyer will no doubt still be ready to bite your hand off for the house, there is so little on the market at the moment.
but like i said none of my business. time to get on with pretending to do something useful in the office (still got another two weeks at work grrr...)

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