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July 2016 (10) - the final thread for bumps!

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foobio · 08/07/2016 09:36

New thread for the rapidly diminishing number of July bumps!

Link to postnatal thread for when we graduate... July 2016 Postnatal

Link to a copy of Beaut's stats list which I think I've made editable... Editable Stats

We have a Facebook group, "MN 07/16" - this is set to secret, so just post on here if you'd like to join.

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julfin · 14/07/2016 15:05

Went from just 2cm dilated, to having a head between my legs, faster than the speed of light. Happened too quickly to be given pain relief, so did it au naturel Confused It hurt a lot(!) but was over quite quickly. Baby born just after 9am today. He's now sleeping. All well, but I'm shattered!

foobio · 14/07/2016 15:27

Congratulations julfin sorry it was painful but at least it was over quickly! Can't wait to see pictures of the new arrival!

Now if everyone could stop queue-jumping please, I'm feeling rather left behind Wink

41+3

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MrsRolly · 14/07/2016 15:30

Congratulations Julfin Smileand massive well done, I had no time for pain relief last time so know your pain.. Can't wait to see pictures.

birchybaby2 · 14/07/2016 16:15

Dats this I'm in the same position as you. Initially told by midwife I'd be induced at 39 weeks due to my age. Consultant poo pop'd it when saw her at 36 weeks but would if I wanted induce at 40 weeks but sweep week before but didn't write that in my notes. Now I'm in limbo with no appointment till 40 +1. What do you do for the best. Hurry up baby please come before Monday when due. If for no other reason than daughter breaks up from school next friday and need to be settled by then.
Congratulations julfin and cheery. Lots of babies now. Xx

tams13 · 14/07/2016 16:52

Congratulations julfin! Glad all is well even if it was surprisingly quick. Hope you're feeling ok.

tams13 · 14/07/2016 16:55

Sounds like you've been left in limbo a bit dats. Do you know what you'd like to do?

Just got back from the midwife. All ok but baby has suddenly decided to go back to back. We had a chat about getting the baby moving and she said the only things proven to work are sweeps, sex and induction but suggested vigorous walking and fresh pineapple as pretty good (non proven) alternatives.

pulpi · 14/07/2016 17:59

Woohoo! Well done, juflin for pushing that wee one out without any drugs. Gives me hope I can survive on G&A.

AnnaT45 · 14/07/2016 19:34

Congrats gnat what a beauty! Hope you're doing ok?

Eeeekkkkk juflin that sounds like it was fast! I hope you're ok? Must have been a shock?!

dats could you ask to be monitored closely rather than induction? Just an option.

tams it is hard at the end. I went days over with DD and found it really hard mentally. It's so annoying when people say it but they come when they want! Just try chill out and do things that will be hard for a while, like read a book!

blue been thinking of you lovely and hope you're ok?

Thank you all so very much for your ongoing support. You're all just amazing. I did go to the cowshed today and it was brilliant, I'm so pleased i went. I've done nothing for myself in such a long time I don't think I realised how stressed I was physically with all the back and forth to hospice etc. Had a gorgeous massage and pedicure. Then sat out for lunch with my lovely friend. Grief is a funny thing you're ok one min then sobbing the next. I'm just trying to let me emotions do what they want and not force anything. Mum said she didn't want me sad for long though so I'm trying to respect that but I also need to go through it best I can. Having a 18 month old, a pregnancy and a house move are all good distractions though!

In other news my bump is so bloody big tshirts aren't covering the bottom now. FFS just over two more weeks to go to. DH, DD and I have all got a rotten cold and cough thing so having a curry tonight to try clear it out. I'm also cheering myself up by doing too much online shopping for the house and DD. Must stop as I'll be a nightmare when baby comes during the night feeds!!!

I hope everyone is doing well today and you got a bit of decent weather like me? Xx

julfin · 14/07/2016 20:26

Chillin'

beckslovestimmy · 14/07/2016 20:33

Congratulations Julfin!!!

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dats · 14/07/2016 20:59

julfin you legend! He's a cutie - what's he listening to? Massive congrats - well done Flowers Look forward to the full story - unless that's it! Power-walk = power-birth!

birchy it's a bit rubbish isn't it? I've got no more midwife appts whether I want one or not because they're fully booked / on hol! Thanks! Obvs I have my appt on Tues and if I need to see someone meanwhile I can go to the hosp but it's 40mins away with shit parking, like cripplingly expensive and not enough of it. Plus the maternity unit is at the top of a hill. In a tower. On chuffing level 11! So I will have to get DP to come on Tues (also don't want to have a sweep on my own and have to get home) and he's already having to use so much hol for the wretched kitchen! Sigh. Are you happy to have an induction once you hit 40w? I didn't have to deal with any of this last time as DD was early at 37+4! Feel a bit clueless!

tams what I want is to go into early labour without intervention, preferably say next Thurs evening when DD is at nursery Thurs/Fri! Grin She will sleep through the night, DP will take her to nursery when the midwife arrives and when she comes home at 5, I will be serenely on the sofa in a silk negligee and turban, a la Margot in The Good Life. With a g&t and bowl of Bombay mix GrinGrinGrin

Anna so happy you went to the spa, sounded like just what you needed, good stuff. Yes - I will definitely ask if I can be monitored rather than induced to begin with. Just hope I don't have to put up too much of a fight.

Right. More cupboards to build while poor DP has had to go to IKEA to swap one of them. We have the worktop fitter coming on Sat, worktops arrive tomor and need to be oiled before installation and still need to finish the cupboards to fit them too! Pressures on. Don't come tomor, baby!

dats, 39+4

tams13 · 14/07/2016 21:48

I'm glad you went for your pampering session anna. Sounds like you needed some you time.

julfin gorgeous photo - what a handsome boy. Hope the music was to his liking.

dats love the optimistic wishes re birth. Maybe get some extra Bombay mix to have Thursday morning. Then you could be up and running for your fantastic sounding plans!

birchybaby2 · 14/07/2016 22:24

Dats not sure what I want really. Daughter was 2 weeks early and I was obviously younger so didn't have this kind of worry. I just want to go into Labour now Eeck. Xx

photographerlady · 14/07/2016 23:40

Induction (less) day So my waters broke at 2:30am I thought I just had a tummy bug and managed to sleep through three hours of contractions. So 2 minutes apart called the Birthing centre and they asked us to come in. Setup in a beautiful pool room. Examined me and I was 2cm. Was evicted to the common area with my birth ball and a mat. 3 hours later was doing really well bouncing and listening to hynobirthing. Had a look in at 7:00-7:15 and took two paracetamol to take the end off. Baby was still very high but heart rate was good. She ran my induction and said I'd be over for 8:30 at the main hospital. She popped out to get my notes and I suddenly was sick.. Really sick all over the room. Felt terrible and blamed it on the paracetamol and a empty stomach. Asked if I could have a quick shower before we head to hospital. They were booked solid so could only offer me one of the partners/guests wetroom shower room. I speedy undressed as some reason all the standing made my contractions speed up thick and fast.

I shampooed my hair and could talk through the first two contractions. Suddenly I screamed and told my DH I'm bleeding get help, less than a minute later I sat on the shower seat and had some crazy contraction that all of a sudden I felt my body pushing. Reached down to feel the entire head! DH panicked and ignored the alarm and opened the door. Must of screamed loud as all five midwives were there. Within seconds one said just go with it, I had the second contraction and barely pushed. Miriam was born at 7:41am. Took me atleast an hour to get my head around it all. She came out so alert and spent the first few hours grunting, squeeking and nursing. I moved in to our free private room at the Birthing Centre and they have been amazing today. So happy I avoided induction and also magically no tearing or stitches.

dats · 15/07/2016 00:07

Bloody hell!!! That's completely unreal that it can happen so fast! Worth the shock factor to have no tearing! Well done - hope you can get some sleep, now! Flowers

gnat99 · 15/07/2016 00:32

Julfin, congrats!! What a gorgeous photo! Hope you recover soon from the experience, but well done for managing it all with no pain relief!

I've been a bit too exhausted to post my birth story - have only had about 4 hours sleep since Monday! In fact, my experience was a bit similar to Julfin in parts: after a day of vaguely wondering whether I was in labour or not, and ringing the maternity assessment for advice, I had a bloody show and was told to come straight in to the hospital. I arrived at the hospital only 1cm dilated but with increasingly strong contractions - literally went from 'should I bother taking paracetamol or not?' at home, to being doubled over at reception.

Because I'd had a bleed they told me to come straight to the delivery unit to have a trace put on - the idea was to get baby checked out in the main delivery unit, and then head downstairs to the birth centre. But the delay getting 30 mins continuous trace on baby, combined with the tension caused by the internal examination and powerful contractions, meant that before long my waterbirth hopes were fading. Unlike Julfin I just about had time to get the TENS machine strapped on, and to agree to and be administered Pethidine - and at that point it was clear that my birth plan was out the window and I would be staying upstairs - howling my way through the pains like a banshee, asxit turned out.

I honestly don't know how I would have managed without the Pethidine. I was so lucky that it worked for me, calmed me down and made me feel less overwhelmed by the pain. Even at the time I could appreciate the funny side of it, as I found myself drowsy and slurring my words. But I just got into the groove of riding the crest of the contractions and making it to the next one. I got to use the birth ball a bit, at the start, before the drugs kicked in, but all my dreams of water, yoga breathing and stretches never stood a chance. There is one delivery room in that unit with a birth pool, but it was already taken, and it was too late to go down to the birth centre with its 11 gorgeous birthing pool rooms. I was simply totally unprepared for the pain to be that powerful. The midwife did say that they were unusually strong contractions for that stage of labour.

Next thing I knew I felt like I wanted to push, and when they examined me I was 10cm dilated. Pushed for an hour and a half, maybe less, and baby was born just after 2am - 6 hours after I'd arrived at the hospital 1cm dilated and unsure whether or not I'd be sent home again.
Poor DH was very worried that I changed so radically from birth plan and did his best to make sure i knew what I was doing. But thankfully I don't at all regret my decision to take the drugs offered, as if I'd carried on for much longer without, I would have been completely overwhelmed and exhausted, and probably not had the energy to push when it came to it. I honestly think If they'd suggested an epidural or even a c-section at that point, I would have said yes. As it was, I pushed my little girl out myself, most of the drug had worn off, and she was born absolutely healthy and beautiful. I feel so lucky. And amazed that I don't feel one ounce of regret about that drug! I usually put pressure on myself to do things the hard way Wink

Sorry for the rambling tale, hope it's not too incoherent. I'm still in hospital being monitored as my bladder function stopped after the birth. I've had a catheter fitted, and hopefully when they take it out tomorrow everything will be back to normal and we can go home. I am a bit achey as I needed stitches for tears in two places, but thankfully no episiotomy or other interventions.

So if I could just get some sleep! My little Eleanor is a champ, but hasn't really settled into a feeding routine yet - although she has managed to chew my nipples to bits after less than 48 hours.

Thanks for all the messages everyone. I'm pleased you like the babes we chose. I am so proud of myself, and so should you all be. I'm enjoying the magical bubble we are in at this moment. Thank you all for sharing it with me!

I guess the next step for me is to check out the postnatal thread Smile

Good luck to all those with bubs still to arrive.

gnat99 · 15/07/2016 01:31

That last paragraph should read ' the *names' we chose. Silly phone!

And yes, I have rambled a lot. Must be the codeine they have given me.

gnat99 · 15/07/2016 02:20

Goodness, photographer, that's crazy! Congratulations and well done!! Can't believe you had no tears. Not surprised it took you a while to get your head around it. Hooray for no induction, and welcome to the world, Miriam!

dats · 15/07/2016 07:15

gnat not rambly at all - lovely birth story in the end, despite not being what you had in mind! Well done, sounds like you coped brilliantly and Grin to the pethedine stoner part! I do love her name so much, it's so classic and elegant!

dats, 39+too early for counting 5?

Ellizardo · 15/07/2016 07:52

Photographer - want to rename you 'showerlady' on here with your timotei baby! Sure it didn't feel like one of those ads at the time but that is the picture in my head. Congrats!

Gnat - jeez Louise well done you. Exhausted just reading your post but so happy you and Miriam are together now and all is well.

Come on mascara & bluebell ! Anyone else in the throes?

Ellizardo · 15/07/2016 07:53

Sorry gnat meant Eleanor...argh baby brain name tracker needed!

Ellizardo · 15/07/2016 07:54

Who you feeling dats?

Ellizardo · 15/07/2016 07:55

Errrr that should read how you feeling dats! But you can answer the first question too if you like! X

tams13 · 15/07/2016 08:12

Blame the sleep deprivation elliz. Wink

photographer and gnat thank you for your stories. Very different but both sound extremely intense and unexpected. Glad both mums and babies are well. Hope you aren't sore for too long gnat. Go photographer managing to avoid any tears.