headaches - I've noticed a few more frequently but nothing too annoying or frequent yet, just slightly more often.
caesareans - they're not always like that Elliekins! With mine I was up and about within 24 hours, home within 48, wearing my old jeans and pushing the pram 40 mins in to town and back up and down hills within 36. I didn't take any painkillers after leaving the hospital and all I had when I was in hospital was the spinal block and initial painkillers given during the op. I was picking her up, breastfeeding and moving almost normally almost immediately. I broke the no driving rule and was back behind the wheel within a week. It's not always this dreadful painful hell it is often described as and although my mw asked if I wanted to discuss vbac I am not even willing to consider it for a second, no way I want to do it the natural way after the fantastic caesarean experience I had last time.
mw care - hmmm. I'm not convinced so far. Last time was excellent but this time has been very different. I've had no extra scans or appointments despite being high risk, history of 4 mcs and assured that I would have early scans and extra care. I've only today had my letter for physio but I have to ring for an appointment and god knows when that will be, no news of the 20 week scan yet (I'm 15+3 now) and no sign of meeting my consultant yet despite being told at 6 weeks that I would see him/her immediately. My mw hasn't done things when asked, hasn't been very knowledgeable about basics and I've corrected her on things and informed her on things she should know, she's not advised me on anything she should, unless she is presuming I know everything I need to having done this before, I seem to be very much left to do it alone. She is very aware of the stress issues I've had in the past, plus ADHD and other issues, yet she's not checked on me at all or given me any useful information. She doesn't know any of the details of the situation with the father, just that he's not involved, for all she knows I could be devastated and heartbroken having been abandoned by the love of my life whilst pregnant and alone and be drowning in depression and anxiety and she hasn't a clue. I don't think it's great so far. I feel fine and am capable of looking after myself and researching information on my own, but that doesn't mean I should have to. I worry about younger, first timers on her books who don't know all the dose and don't and nd options and what's normal and what's not.
bump seat belts - they've changed the design. 8 years ago they were brilliant, kept the seat across your thighs & off your bump perfectly, and lasted well the whole 9 months and beyond and felt like you'd still be safe if you needed the belt to restrain you. This time they seem rubbish! Doesn't keep the belt off my bump, doesn't feel like it would still keep me safe in an accident, certainly won't last the full way through and is already noticeably well worn, and just doesn't seem as good at all as last time. 
I traded in my beautiful, sexy, sporty, fast, fun, 2 door convertible today and got a big, sensible, practical 5 door family car. It will be perfect for kids and car seats, prams and all the other crap they need, but it's so not sexy or fun. I may have to pimp it up a bit, get a new stereo, sat nav, bluetooth, black out the rear windows, bring it into the 21st century a bit.
Mum left her emails open on my laptop from her visit the other day and saw my name on screen so had a look at it. Was an email she sent her friend bitching to the high heavens about me. You know if that is how she feels then she can fuck off. I don't need it. She moans about everyone else all the times and she's bloody vicious and I'm half tempted to forward it on to everyone she's bitched about in it. The woman is 64 years old and still acts like a bloody playground bully and she wonders why I'm not particularly close to the vicious old bag. The sooner the family dementia hits and I can shove her in a home the better. 