Oooh a new thread! This weekend has been extraordinarily emotional. DH decided he needed to tell dsd and dss, before they came over. The reaction was pretty hideous by all accounts. Dsd was distraught and hysterical, while dss was very quiet, which put me into floods of tears. However, we've spent the weekend with them, doing lots of togethery things and they seemed to get used ot the idea. Dss in particular seems quite excited now and is pleased that his room is next to the babies as he can 'pop in and check on him' (He clearly wants a boy!) He has also been grilling me about if what i eat, the baby eats too! Dsd is still fairly quiet about it all and hasnt really asked much. Before DH took them back this pm, dsd said that she was worried what her mum (evil ex) would say, so we think this is the main reason for her being so quiet. They were both petrified of her reaction bless them... it was horrid sending them back.Dss didnt want to go home.
Thanks for the nice messages girls.
HC- my dh is hoping for a boy too (as is dss now!), so i havent told him the results of the thread test, which sort of indicated a girl!
Kayzed, hope youre feeling as bit better soon. There are soo many bugs about. I've been bunged up with a cold for the last ten days. They dont seem to shift as fast when all you can take is paracetamol! A good dose of nightnurse extra strength i could do with!
Have got my twenty week scan on tues (not quite twenty weeeks... but saying it makes it sound nearer!)... dead excited and dont want to know officially the sex. Have been having loads of rumbly type bubbly feelings in my tummy and I feel quite a bit rounder now.
Is anyone thinking about having the 4D scan? They are really expensive, but are supposed to be amazing. I'm hinting to prospective grandparents that it would be lovely for them to see!!
SF... laughed at parsnip! very cute
AP- are your movements happening very often? How often are you supposed to feel anything?