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My daughter died on Christmas day, and I am struggling this year.

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VilootShesCute · 18/12/2016 21:55

She was 9 years old and it was 6:50am 8 years ago Christmas day she went peacefully in my arms.

I can talk about it to family and friends but this year, I don't know, it's just hitting me harder. I don't want to put too much on to anyone else close to me so am trying to be strong but Christ, it is not easy. Please can I ask everyone to just think of my beautiful girl on Christmas day and without sadness, send love to her wherever she may be.

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VilootShesCute · 24/12/2016 21:01

All prayers are so so welcome. Also I'm sorry to everyone who has lost someone they love be it recently or not. It doesn't get easier, you just learn to live with it beside you Flowers

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Powergower · 24/12/2016 21:03

Thinking of you and your lovely cuddly girl. I will be awake and v thinking of her at 6.50am. I am so so sorry for all those who have lost loved ones. X

Wombletor · 24/12/2016 21:07

Prayers for you and your daughter op xx

Note3 · 24/12/2016 21:27

Viloot (and everyone else who has experienced loss at this time), you are truly in my thoughts. I hope you are able to find some light in the darkness to get you through the day.

Howlongtillbedtime · 24/12/2016 23:26

viloot thinking of you and your daughter.

I hope tomorrow is as peaceful as it can be for you .

FrancisCrawford · 25/12/2016 06:28

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ellesbellesxxx · 25/12/2016 06:30

Thinking of you Flowers

Sleepingbunnies · 25/12/2016 06:33

Am here thibking of you and your beautiful DD Flowers

plopstar · 25/12/2016 06:34

Just another person here having a quiet moment before anyone else is up and thinking of you and your precious girl and sending you best wishes

VilootShesCute · 25/12/2016 06:55

This time last year she was in my arms. Asleep forever.

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VilootShesCute · 25/12/2016 06:57

We had the doors open and the birds! They were making so much noise as the sun came up! It's so dark today don't know what that's about Hmm

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sashh · 25/12/2016 06:57

Thinking about you and her - will light a candle later.

headinhands · 25/12/2016 07:13

Happy Christmas Viloo's dd. I'm guessing she'd have liked some Top Shop vouchers and Chanel. Xx

GruffaloPants · 25/12/2016 07:19

Just thinking of your lovely daughter, and sending love to her and you.

margaritasbythesea · 25/12/2016 07:20

Thinking if you and your lovely girl this morning viloot Flowers

daisymai08 · 25/12/2016 07:20

Flowersyou are amazing and she was amazing and am giving you a real hug. Xxxx

gettingtherequickly · 25/12/2016 07:23

Thinking of you and your precious daughter. X

CocoaX · 25/12/2016 07:26

I too am adding my prayers for you and your DD; may God bless you and be with you today. I am so very sorry for your lossFlowers

alphabook · 25/12/2016 07:27

Sending so much love to you and to your daughter, wherever she may be x

neighbourhoodwitch · 25/12/2016 07:28

Flowersthinking of you. I am so sorry for your loss x

HumpMeBogart · 25/12/2016 08:13

Sending love to you both and wishing you a peaceful Christmas xx

VilootShesCute · 25/12/2016 10:46

Flowers to you all. Currently sitting alone outside having a quiet moment. Much needed!

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Wolfiefan · 25/12/2016 10:51

Thinking of you and your daughter today Viloot. A quiet moment sounds perfect. Flowers

99percentchocolate · 25/12/2016 10:54

Thinking of you today and everyone who has lost a loved one x

BurnTheBlackSuit · 25/12/2016 10:55

Thinking of you x

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