to sometimes think that I am the most feminist person here?

[stubbornhubby]

I have been on MN for only a short time and I have to say it is fun I like it here.

but I do despair: I sometimes seem to be the most feminist person here! Almost every thread seems to have women willingly subjugating themselves to their "D" Hs Ps Cs and ILs. Washin and Ironin and Pickin Up, being treated terribly but 'deserving' it (and DH rarely means it), happily changing names, wearing rings, and doing what the vicar tells them.

Or AIBU?

Yes.
Do you genuinely think that wearing a wedding ring is incompatible with feminism?

I see you haven't met Dittany yet.

yabu and a little bit rude actually .....

Would you like a medal ?

YABVU by the way.

lol ltbr.

so tell us how we should behave, please, stubhub.

Are you the same person who posted about marriage being prostitution the other day?

No - I am the last dinosaur feminist. my Dh quite happily admits that he exists to make me happy. He is currently downstairs preparing a drink for me.

oh no - I remember you now. you're the one who met up with an old flame but didn't tell your wife.

What a hero

My dp is in bed ..he has to be at work at 7 tomorrow....me, I'm sat here a bit pissed ,hell, he even makes his own sandwiches for his packed lunch

I hadn't realised it was a competition but if it is so important to you then, ok, you win.

one word.

dittany.

Oh, I didn't realise it was a competition. Come a wee bit closer to the screen so I can pin your medal on your chest.

There - better now?

Feminism is on some kind of scale is it?

Would you mind educating me by letting me know what thoughts and actions you need for each level please?

Oooh - do you mean like Farmville or similar games muminbeds. Is there something I should be collecting in order to progress?

Funny enough I thought no that's Dittany too...

oh, where is dittany when you need her?

oh, hubby, could you let me hear your thoughts on germaine greer's theory that you can't call yourself a feminist until you've tasted your own menstrual blood? i'd be fascinated...

Do what the vicar tells them? Hell yes, I'm am atheist and still ask "how high" if justa say jump...

and here's me all out of 'blue peter badges' for you.