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to think Delia is a bit of a tosser for saying' I am not a feminist - I like men'

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bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:25

Stick to the cooking theres a dear

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bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:27

btw she was just on Womans hour if you want to listen.

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ruty · 23/03/2009 10:28

YANBU obviously. Didn't hear it but she sounds like a total prat.

Maria2007 · 23/03/2009 10:28

Did she really say that?! Oh ffs.... what a ridiculous statement.

(I do like her cooking though...)

OrmIrian · 23/03/2009 10:29

Yes, she did

What does she think feminism is ?

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:30

I just think she is rather ignorant and obviously does not set herself up as a philosopher - but honestly she hasn't got a clue. If I didn't love my Delia cookbook so much I would bin it!

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TheCrackFox · 23/03/2009 10:31

FFS, what a twat. I am a feminist and I bloody love men.

BarStoolCobra · 23/03/2009 10:31

Delia is wonderful at cooking.
But Not very Clever imo.
( see all that "chop small" stuff )

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:32

Obviously she stopped thinking about the subject in the 70's and assumes that (as detailed in the maily dail) that all feminists are dungaree wearing lesbian, man-haters who think all men are potential rapists etc. etc.

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swingsofglory · 23/03/2009 10:32

Delia is a tosser. C'mon let's be 'aving you... or whatever it was she said in her Norwich City rant.

AMumInScotland · 23/03/2009 10:33

She should stick to talking about things she understands.

edam · 23/03/2009 10:33

what a twonk.

tessofthedurbervilles · 23/03/2009 10:34

c'mon you lot (hic!!!)

next day

'of course I wasn't drunk you silly people, I was just motivating the fans!'

Maria2007 · 23/03/2009 10:34

And even in the 70s, it was only a particular group of feminists (those called 'radical feminists') that had that style. She obviously doesn't know what she's talking about.

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:35

we can be safe in assuming that Delia won't be writing 'Feminism made easy' next!

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LadyGlencoraPalliser · 23/03/2009 10:36

Oh dear, what a plonker. I'll stick with Nigella then.

traceybath · 23/03/2009 10:36

She was very very annoying to say that - honestly how on earth is feminism still a dirty word!

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:39

Actually that might be quite good :-

  • 'First remove the bra - heat to temperature of approx. 200 celsius till completey burnt.

Then prepare the dungarees and put on.

Take the man remove the offending appendage - chop small.' or words to that affect....

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StealthPolarBear · 23/03/2009 10:41

What a stupid thing for her to say.

Northernlurker · 23/03/2009 10:41

What was so feminist about dungarees anyway? Never understood that bit...

Very unhelpful remark from Delia imo.

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:44

I have worn dungarees (very comfy) and consider myself a feminist - not sure where the specific dungaree/ feminsit link came from though (I blame Viz character 'Millie Tant').

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Lawks · 23/03/2009 10:45

I fucking despise women who claim not to be feminists. Otherwise intellegent and articulate women bleating that "they're not a feminist, but...". Yes. You are a feminist. And quite right too. And if you're not then you are a dimwit.

edam · 23/03/2009 10:47

quite, lawks - always want to ask them, 'so, you believe women are inferior to men, then? Did you ask your boss to pay you less than a man would get in the same post?'

Pruners · 23/03/2009 10:47

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GivePeasAChance · 23/03/2009 10:51

Incoherent rambling from Delia? No? It can't be true.

Always fulfilling to have such women in the public eye doing their bit for sisterhood.

bigmouthstrikesagain · 23/03/2009 10:53

Seriously - Delia represents thousands of women who think still that feminism is a dirty word and associated with a lot of negative imagery. Despite as already pointed out the very fact that delia has such a succesful career is a testament to generations of women fighting for the vote, to be taken seriously, to be allowed to own property and not just be property - ffs!

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