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For neighbour to use a ladder to get my attention?

197 replies

ShakyBake · 30/07/2026 22:38

Day off today so decided to sleep in. At approx 8.50am I heard tapping on my window, half dazed I've opened the curtains and my neighbour was outside saying they couldn't get through to my phone (I checked after and had 3 missed calls) and would I give them a lift to the airport as taxi failed to show.
I don't know them (man and wife in their 60's) that well but I rushed out of house in nightgown and took them without thinking. Part of me thinks I just did a good deed and being a neighbour, other part thinks the ladder overstepped the mark.

OP posts:
MargoLeadbetterisQueen · 31/07/2026 07:18

Francestein · 31/07/2026 06:24

Honestly over and above normal neighbour duties. I would have probably screamed in terror if I woke up to someone on a ladder knocking on my window. I very much doubt that they would have the civilized encounter they were expecting

Yes. I think most people would have.

Alittlefrustrated · 31/07/2026 07:18

UnNiddeRides · 31/07/2026 00:25

I’m intrigued by the other neighbour who saw the ladder, said ‘I’ll have that now’ and took it. Maybe he has a ladder collection to add to.

Buying in, I assumed they'd nicked it and it was his.

MyDeftDuck · 31/07/2026 07:19

🤣🤣 Sounds like a sketch from a Carry On film!!

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NoisyUmberBalonz · 31/07/2026 07:43

What fun!

A) You're a lovely neighbour.
B) knocking on your window with a ladder was appalling for various reasons, regardless of how desperate they were, I would rather lose my holiday then do what they did.
C) I look forward to your follow up post where you ask if they are CFs when they get you nothing (or at least nothing that recognises what you did in terms of time, inconvenience etc.).

Hold on to A when C happens, you will be rewarded in this life if not the next*

*You won't

knottybiscotti · 31/07/2026 07:46

I wouldn’t have believed this until I ended up living in a hamlet in the midlands. Only one taxi firm, you had to book in advance, no uber, no food delivery, neighbours would definitely knock your window but were very anti social - hence living there. Oddly there was a Waitrose ten minutes away. I now live in the centre of a town which is much more me. I once tried to get a taxi a week in advance on a Wednesday and he said he would take me on the Thursday!! My event wasn’t on the Thursday. I never knew anywhere in uk was so disconnected, so I can understand others disbelief.

GaaNeen · 31/07/2026 07:48

Omg 😂
I would love to have been a fly on the wall / ring camera and watched them do the ladder antics !!
it worked out well for them !

TheScreen · 31/07/2026 07:51

This is bonkers.

You reacted way more generously than I would have done in this scenario!!

Do you generally know them well and have a good relationship? Thinking about it I have two amazing lovely neighbours directly either side of me that I would do this for, and would have been shocked but kind, but in previous houses the neighbours would have got a much less kind response so I suppose it depends on your neighbourly friendship levels.

Alondra · 31/07/2026 08:10

So many posts are on the "unbelievable" kind, but I believe is more common than many posters believe it to be.

People panicking do weird stuff - like getting up a ladder to get your attenytion.. Your neighbours are in their 60s and not savvy enough how to deal with a cancelled Uber taking them to the airport, leaving them stuck, in panick, with anxiety going through the roof and hysterically thinking you were their only option to help.

This situation is the kind of stuff that happens in every village or suburb and rarely get to the news. It's life

Good on you for helping.

JJWT · 31/07/2026 08:11

That's batshit! Who tf wakes up a relative stranger asleep in their own house? "We thought you were asleep"?! But decided to insist you woke up?! I'd have hit the bloody roof and threatened them with the police. This can't be true. Who seriously gets a ladder and does that?! Did they call the taxi company? Or try to get an uber? What possessed them to make it your problem? Were there any other neighbours who were more obviously up and about? And who they actually have that kind of relationship with? Omg.

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 31/07/2026 08:12

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 01:02

With neighbours like hers I would sleep bollock naked in horizontal lotus pose.

🤣🤣🤣

ThirdStorm · 31/07/2026 08:14

If this really happened.... because who does that to people you hardly know just happen to live next door to?!

You are kinder than I am OP. If this happened to me, I'd tell them I'd call the police if they didn't stop disturbing me and no I wouldn't take them to the airport, they would need call another taxi!

EgregiouslyOverdressed · 31/07/2026 08:15

ShakyBake · 30/07/2026 23:35

Their son was on route but unlikely to get back in time and I passed him when I got back.

I don't know they said my car was on drive so knew I was in, but was going to try Trevor (another elderly neighbour) but he was having something rebandaged, I wasn't taking it all in by this point

Edited

I'm so sorry OP but this is like something written by Victoria Wood or Alan Bennett. "Trevor couldn't help, of course, on account of the rebandaging."

Blueberrybonanza · 31/07/2026 08:15

Bit early for todays thing that never happened, this one will take some beating though

WitchayWoman · 31/07/2026 08:16

Young enough to shimmy up a ladder, too old to google another taxi company or use Uber?

Eddielizzard · 31/07/2026 08:17

That is batshit but they were clearly beside themselves. I would expect an offer of payment (wouldn't accept) and a decent present from their hols for that. And then hope they never did it again!

Well done to you for saving the day Flowers

LondonLass2026 · 31/07/2026 08:17

They're idiots. I'd be fuming. How utterly rude and thick.

pouletvous · 31/07/2026 08:18

Your neighbours are CF
Dont they have a car of their own?

pouletvous · 31/07/2026 08:19

Surely a sensible person double checks the taxi the day before

fools

QuaintBeaker · 31/07/2026 08:19

They knocked on your door for 15 minutes instead of just ringing for another cab??
And they left it SO late to get to the airport that they couldn't wait?

Wtf

QuaintBeaker · 31/07/2026 08:19

pouletvous · 31/07/2026 08:19

Surely a sensible person double checks the taxi the day before

fools

To be fair, I've had a taxi booked before and had confirmation and it hasn't turned up.

ChickenBananaBanana · 31/07/2026 08:20

You're a better person than me op, I'd have pushed his ladder down.

Ellie1015 · 31/07/2026 08:20

Ridiculous they did that. But lovely of you to help. And glad they got their holiday.

Whatbloodysummer · 31/07/2026 08:21

Awwwm OP I think you are a lovely neighbour and should be commended for helping them in their hour of need.

I'm sure none of you were thinking clearly, but I'm sure Karma will reward you for it.

And it's a great story that's definitely brightened everyones day here on MN.
😁

PicaK · 31/07/2026 08:22

I can feel their panic coming in waves thru my phone. To cross so many boundaries.... When they calm down and realise what they did... 😂😂

You have a big deposit of good karma now. I hope something lovely comes your way soon.