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For neighbour to use a ladder to get my attention?

197 replies

ShakyBake · 30/07/2026 22:38

Day off today so decided to sleep in. At approx 8.50am I heard tapping on my window, half dazed I've opened the curtains and my neighbour was outside saying they couldn't get through to my phone (I checked after and had 3 missed calls) and would I give them a lift to the airport as taxi failed to show.
I don't know them (man and wife in their 60's) that well but I rushed out of house in nightgown and took them without thinking. Part of me thinks I just did a good deed and being a neighbour, other part thinks the ladder overstepped the mark.

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UnNiddeRides · 31/07/2026 00:25

I’m intrigued by the other neighbour who saw the ladder, said ‘I’ll have that now’ and took it. Maybe he has a ladder collection to add to.

SandwichSuperstar · 31/07/2026 00:29

RealLemonDreamer · 31/07/2026 00:02

You don’t know them but they have your number ?

Oh do stop asking sensible questions.

It’ll make the ‘this is gold’ posters uncomfortable.

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 00:30

UnNiddeRides · 31/07/2026 00:25

I’m intrigued by the other neighbour who saw the ladder, said ‘I’ll have that now’ and took it. Maybe he has a ladder collection to add to.

Snakes and ladders in 5D.

SuzieGotYourNumber · 31/07/2026 00:34

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And says she doesn't know them, but they have her phone number. I have neighbours I know and don't have their phone numbers.

Ashhh56 · 31/07/2026 00:35

malmi · 31/07/2026 00:09

Was he on the ground using the ladder as a big stick to tap the window with or did he climb up it and tap with his hand? Because that one’s worse for me.

😂😂😂😂 Nah stop cause the mental image of a 60 year old using a ladder as an oversized knocking stick is sending me over the edge

sweetpickle2 · 31/07/2026 00:35

OP says she’s doesn’t know them that well, not that she doesn’t know them at all.

Giraffehaver · 31/07/2026 00:35

This is the funniest and most bonkers thing I've read for a long time 🤣

Fangdango · 31/07/2026 00:37

UnNiddeRides · 31/07/2026 00:25

I’m intrigued by the other neighbour who saw the ladder, said ‘I’ll have that now’ and took it. Maybe he has a ladder collection to add to.

My neighbours would do that. They are always excited about new ladders and scaffolding and mix and match and swap them like rare Pokémons.

I don't think they'd climb a ladder to my bedroom window, but they'd probably use it (or a nice handy scaffolding pole) to tap on the window in those circumstances.

belcarra · 31/07/2026 00:39

where did they go on holiday?

Friendlygingercat · 31/07/2026 00:43

Im always amazed at PP on mumsnet who casually hand out numbers to randoms who happen to live nearby. I was once asked for my number by my NDN and told her that my number was for family and close friends and not "any tom, dick or harry" (spoken in a disparaging tone).

There is something to be said for being a non driver because then randoms cannot know whether or not i am at home. I would probably have gone nuclear.

sweetpickle2 · 31/07/2026 00:45

Friendlygingercat · 31/07/2026 00:43

Im always amazed at PP on mumsnet who casually hand out numbers to randoms who happen to live nearby. I was once asked for my number by my NDN and told her that my number was for family and close friends and not "any tom, dick or harry" (spoken in a disparaging tone).

There is something to be said for being a non driver because then randoms cannot know whether or not i am at home. I would probably have gone nuclear.

There was a small fire in our house once while we were away, we only found out as our kind neighbours called and alerted us.

Not everyone wants your contact details for nefarious reasons- it’s actually very helpful to be able to contact neighbours, and vice versa.

okaras · 31/07/2026 00:47

No talk of money but mention of 'have to see what's at duty free' but I didn't ask for anything, I was panicking too

Ah, I was having my doubts until the quotation marks. Now there's a quote, it's much more plausible.

purpleme12 · 31/07/2026 00:47

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 00:30

Snakes and ladders in 5D.

This made me laugh 🤣

Spidey66 · 31/07/2026 00:52

BacksToTheFuture · 30/07/2026 22:46

Are you in England, it hasnt been nightgown weather were I am for months, is this some kind of in joke?

I wear a nighty all year round. You never know when a neighbour will look through a bedroom window

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 00:55

I was going to say I don't even own one but I have had a long long day and still wearing the long flowy dress I put on this morning even though I did look sort of like I had just escaped a commune but I guess it could be seen as a nightie or whatever they are called if you are being pedantic. Normally I sleep naked so he may have fallen off his ladder in disgust when I pulled the curtain first thing which would have saved any driving anywhere I guess.

JapanesePotWeed · 31/07/2026 00:59

Spidey66 · 31/07/2026 00:52

I wear a nighty all year round. You never know when a neighbour will look through a bedroom window

With neighbours like OP's I'd sleep fully dressed, trainers on, bed made up, face to ceiling, body on top of sheets

Happyjoe · 31/07/2026 01:01

You will be a legend around your neighbourhood OP!

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 01:02

JapanesePotWeed · 31/07/2026 00:59

With neighbours like OP's I'd sleep fully dressed, trainers on, bed made up, face to ceiling, body on top of sheets

With neighbours like hers I would sleep bollock naked in horizontal lotus pose.

PeregrinePun · 31/07/2026 01:07

Oldies are so entitled, was his name Richard, married to Hyacinth Bucket.

hotmumshit · 31/07/2026 01:09

I feel like you live on Coronation Street

I want to get cosy and watch the day to day shenanigans of you and your neighbours 😄❤️

hotmumshit · 31/07/2026 01:10

Friendlygingercat · 31/07/2026 00:43

Im always amazed at PP on mumsnet who casually hand out numbers to randoms who happen to live nearby. I was once asked for my number by my NDN and told her that my number was for family and close friends and not "any tom, dick or harry" (spoken in a disparaging tone).

There is something to be said for being a non driver because then randoms cannot know whether or not i am at home. I would probably have gone nuclear.

Yabu

Boreded · 31/07/2026 01:10

ShakyBake · 30/07/2026 23:03

He'd been knocking and ringing for 15 minutes they said but I was sleeping and didn't hear anything and said 'we thought you were probably sleeping as my car was on drive '

Edited

Course he was. In 15m a replacement taxi could have been ordered.

ConstantlyFuriosa · 31/07/2026 01:11

Mrstawnyowl · 30/07/2026 23:21

In the style of a comedy sketch.

Whilst someone plays a slide whistle.

JapanesePotWeed · 31/07/2026 01:13

Rondayvu · 31/07/2026 01:02

With neighbours like hers I would sleep bollock naked in horizontal lotus pose.

I'm sorry but that attire doesn't exactly say "I'm ready for small talk with strangers on our way to airport". One has to be SET, PREPARED &MOTIVATED. Though I suppose that could be conveyed with attitude rather than clothes 😁

Wadsworthy · 31/07/2026 01:13

I’m sure this is true @ShakyBake but I’m just agog that there are people in the world that think this is reasonable behaviour.

you’re a better person than I am - I would have shouted at them to get out of my garden and never speak to me again.