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To be a bit cheesed off by this window display?

341 replies

Utterlybananas333 · 29/07/2026 23:34

Saw this on the high road today. My daughter asked what it meant bless her. The rest of the display on the other side included cross dressing obscene mannequins who had large breasts and moustaches etc. This was a charity shop that supports homelessness.

To be a bit cheesed off by this window display?
To be a bit cheesed off by this window display?
OP posts:
UniquePinkSwan · 30/07/2026 05:53

I really don’t care about it

OwlBeThere · 30/07/2026 05:54

Myfluffyblanket · 29/07/2026 23:44

Yet another captured charity/organisation.
It will be interesting to see if this declaration of support for cross dressing men has any effect on footfall or amount of donations or purchases.
They should stick to their original mission statement (supporting homeless people) and not drag in such a divisive issue as the current trans cult.

statistically trans people are much more likely to experience homelessness than the general population. 25% of trans people will be homeless at some point in their lives compared with the general populations 0.25% so it’s very likely a large number of the people
this charity supports ARE trans people so i’d say they are well within the scope of supporting homeless people.

OwlBeThere · 30/07/2026 05:58

Theunamedcat · 30/07/2026 01:13

Is there anything that they are not more likely to experience at this point? For such a small percentage of the population they sure do experience a lot

Yeah, it’s almost like they are discriminated against, abused by family members, bullied and harassed by strangers and generally treated like shit and that has a knock on effect on their wellbeing and security…

anon12345anon · 30/07/2026 06:16

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 29/07/2026 23:48

I'd have gone in and asked them if they had any JK Rowling books.

GrinGrin

MysteryMachineRidesAgain · 30/07/2026 06:55

Giftspread · 29/07/2026 23:55

Trans people are much more likely to expereince homelessness so its relevant to the charity.

More than young men? That’s a shocking fact. I’m really surprised.

BeanQuisine · 30/07/2026 07:05

Silly billies, there's a lot of them about.

They'll learn eventually, "Just sayin' it don't make it so, Uncle Betty."

Coconutter24 · 30/07/2026 07:12

OwlBeThere · 30/07/2026 05:48

What’s ‘obscene’ about a mannequin with breasts and facial hair? Quite aside with their being nothing obscene about being transgender or non-binary, there are many many cis women for whom that is their reality, are you calling them obscene?

It’s a private business who are perfectly entitled to their opinion on this subject, so I don’t see why you are ‘cheesed off’ how does it affect you?

there are many many cis women for whom that is their reality, are you calling them obscene?

It is very clear OP doesn’t think that about women. It is also very clear this window display has nothing to do with biological women

RhymesWithOrange · 30/07/2026 07:14

OttersOnAPlane · 29/07/2026 23:51

Virtue signalling nonsense - I'd not bother donating things there but other than an eye roll it wouldn't bother me.

Yes, although it’s a good time to start your daughter on the road to terfdom.

InconvenientlyMaterial · 30/07/2026 07:15

Don't give a shit about cross dressing but I find the whole boob removal surgery scar thing pretty dull (it's such a common motif - photos as well as cartoons). To me it just reminds me how trans ideology simply perpetuates the sexism it is born from. Once again it's usually the female humans who have to show flesh. And if a woman penis is a thing, where's the acceptance of man tits?

(Rhetorical question. I know the different sexes' motivations behind transition is actually quite...... Binary)

BEAchDays2 · 30/07/2026 07:15

Where are the pictures of the other side?

Hallamlass · 30/07/2026 07:29

MysteryMachineRidesAgain · 30/07/2026 06:55

More than young men? That’s a shocking fact. I’m really surprised.

All the stats say men aged 25-49. Often ex forces or offenders or with a history of MH issues.
Homelessness is an absolute scourge though, and I hope new initiatives help soon, whoever the people are.

SummerSummerSummertime · 30/07/2026 07:30

Giftspread · 29/07/2026 23:55

Trans people are much more likely to expereince homelessness so its relevant to the charity.

Are they though?

Hallamlass · 30/07/2026 07:31

BeanQuisine · 30/07/2026 07:05

Silly billies, there's a lot of them about.

They'll learn eventually, "Just sayin' it don't make it so, Uncle Betty."

They obviously didn't pay attention in Biology.

LostNFoundSV · 30/07/2026 09:01

I agree with you, OP.
It’s a very poorly dressed window. Seems to suit the theme somehow.

SleepingStandingUp · 30/07/2026 09:03

were the mannequins actually obscene? like fake genitalia on display etc? I'm sure you can report that.

of did they put a moustache on a female mannequin and a dress?

how old is your daughter?

Icedvanillacoffee · 30/07/2026 09:16

I often notice how advant garde, as we used to say, some charity shop windows are. Livens up the high street I guess.
Im interested in the stats about trans people and homelessness as well. I thought it was really hard to collect such data because of the very nature of the problem. Even rough sleeper charities and statutory services usually say they are only able report on who they work with. I know of at least one fairly stable community of rough sleepers whose membership as it were changes frequently. I wasn't aware statistics could be collected nationally. And I curious about how this data was collected.
I would be grateful if the posters who have information could share it please.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 30/07/2026 09:17

YABU not to put this in the Sex and Gender discussion forum.

Stop dragging the trans obsession into other areas of the site. You have a section specially created to specifically to rant on about this stuff. Go find your tribe.

Springtimeinsunshine · 30/07/2026 09:18

Giftspread · 29/07/2026 23:55

Trans people are much more likely to expereince homelessness so its relevant to the charity.

I'm interested to read about this. Got any links/articles proving this statement?

Velvera · 30/07/2026 09:21

I'd shop there.

saveforthat · 30/07/2026 09:22

Theunamedcat · 30/07/2026 01:13

Is there anything that they are not more likely to experience at this point? For such a small percentage of the population they sure do experience a lot

This. I'd like to see the official stats on that. I see lots of homeless people, I've not seen one trans homeless person.

saveforthat · 30/07/2026 09:26

Coconutter24 · 30/07/2026 07:12

there are many many cis women for whom that is their reality, are you calling them obscene?

It is very clear OP doesn’t think that about women. It is also very clear this window display has nothing to do with biological women

I find the term "cis" offensive and unnecessary and really wished it could be banned on here.

Velvera · 30/07/2026 09:26

It's probably better posted here than in the echo chamber that is FWR, Where anyone disagreeing on there is called a TRA ,a troll or a man.

Much more of a balanced opinion in this topic.

Igmum · 30/07/2026 09:28

I’d be concerned that, like many other charities, this organisation was diverting money legally mandated to go elsewhere to trans causes. It would certainly discourage me from donating.

Spookyowl · 30/07/2026 09:35

Aco8171 · 29/07/2026 23:42

What an excellent opportunity to teach your daughter about the world and inclusivity and how we are all different etc, I can only assume you didn’t take this opportunity given your post.

"InCluSiVitY" aka men barging into women's spaces and making demands. 🙄

KitRange · 30/07/2026 10:06

Well biology isn't binary, biological sex and gender are too different things.

I really don't see the issue with this.

Plenty of women with breasts grow facial hair, just society has told us we should get rid of it and makes us embarrassed to have it.

In addition, people have cross dressed for hundreds of years, no one thinks twice about it in the panto.

I think you could have used this as a teaching moment to your child that we accept people how they are and for who they want to be, because it has absolutely no impact on our lives but it means they get to live happy ones.

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